Don't know what to do about this feelings

Are you a male or female?

>>17867159
Female, forgot to make that clear

>>17867163
How old are you? The way I see it, it's more like he's probably as old as your dad. In a few years time even if you find only emotional support from him, it will be hard starting a family and enjoying his later stages in life. He will pass sooner than you and it would leave you lonely. I'm just thinking in terms of your future and how you would like to live it with him I'm sure he wouldn't like feeling like a weight to you or keep you from living life normaly with a family.

>>17867151
I'm into older men too
if you want to act on it, by all means
nothing wrong with it.
just understand there may be some differences due to the age gap.

>>17867178
she never said she wants to marry the dude

>>17867178
I'm 18

>>17867178
21
And yeah, I have thought about that. To be honest, when I noticed that I was feeling more for him, I locked myself in this bubble by telling to myself "He's a man, you're a kid. He will never see you that way".

Just two days ago I was thinking about what his perspective might be about us, if he ever comes to think about it. I am too young, and while I never wanted to have kids, or a husband who I planned to grow old with. What if that changes? They say everywoman changes her mind about having kids and a husband when growing older. But then again, what do they know? What do I know?

I just feel like a have this huge weight on my shoulders, since I don't feel my friends would be blunt and honest if I talked to them about this.

>>17867182
There has been some days where I think "fuck it, life is short". But what if he doesn't think of me like I do about him? I don't want to ruin what we have right now.

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>>17867163
>you have to make this clear on 4chan

>>17867211
fuck it, life is short, my lady friend
if you're not ugly, I can almost guarantee he wants to get with you.
do you want advice on how to approach him with this?

>>17867212
basically, since women are minority here
I almost always assume the poster is a man

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>>17867212
Sorry bro

>>17867215
I would love to be able to flirt with him. He's super shy and he blushes very easily, I love it when he gets embarrased. I also don't want to make him uncomfortable, or scare him.

I have this small feelings he suspects that I like him, but he hasn't tried to stop me.

What do you think?

>>17867228
yep, he wants you.

just flirt with him! tease him, laugh at his jokes, and touch his arm when you talk to him.
I learned this from an old dude - men pick up on you touching their arm as flirting.
I never knew this, so do it.
also give him compliments
tell him how he looks handsome today, how you think he's really cute, etc.
let it build up!

>>17867257
We have never touched. Well, except this one time when he was showing off his new coat to me, because I love coats, and he was like "feel it, it's really smooth" and he extended his arm for me to touch it freely. That was reaaally different about him, now that I think about it. He tends to keep his distance with people.

>>17867268
well get closer with him so you can touch him!
just work up to standing closer to him to touching his arm n whatnot

or
just confess your feelings on fb
could you give a censored screenshot of your convos so I can get a read?

>>17867274
Of course, give me a moment.

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>>17867274
Ok this one is from two days ago, this day he was telling me that I am pretty a lot, because I have curly hair and went straight for a day. The picture he sent is a selfie of myself

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>>17867292
2/3

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>>17867296
3/3

>>17867228
>He's super shy and he blushes very easily
what the fuck
the man is 54
kek

>>17867292
wanting to fuck your teacher eh? naughty girl

>>17867305
I know, it seems so fucking cute to me.
Lmao im fucked

>>17867151

Is your question whether you should go for it, or whether he'd be receptive if you did?

If you're independent, go for it, just be careful about getting in too deep. You're still very young, don't tie yourself to a man who will be dying in a decade or two.

If you still live with your parents... well, they'll probably have a major issue with you dating a guy who's possibly older than your dad.

Don't play up your relationship socially, people will only draw negative conclusions.

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>>17867299
1/6

Now, this ones are from today, and this is what made me realize maybe he knows I like hom. So I'm gonna give context.

Yes, he is my teacher. I'm Mexican, and he's asking me to teach him Spanish. In here he was telling me that due to his schedule next semester we might not see eachother anymore.

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>>17867322
2/6

Doesn't he have a wife at that age?

Also fair warning, your sexual life might be nonexistent. But who knows maybe you have a fetish for soft dick, or maybe you can arrange a deal where he would be your emotional support, hold your hand, while the bull fucks your brains out. I've seen some couples like that. That what age gap eventually leads to.
either way you go, girl!

>>17867332
this is not true.
old men are more experienced.
don't listen to the lies.

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>>17867328
3/6

>>17867320
Now that's a very good question. I really don't know what I'm looking for in here.

And yes, I know about those two issues. Nobody knows about this.

>>17867334
>So why am I interesting or fun?
translation: why do you like me desu

>>17867333
>old men are more experienced.

kek older as in 30-40

this dude is near retirement, and is shy on top of that kek
In your 40s your dick starts deteriorating

But this whole thing is funny nonetheless, grandpa

>>17867339
not true.
men don't have menopause (-:

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>>17867334
4/6
The Spanish parts says "I admire you. You always find a way to make me laugh, and not just me but everybody. You have a unique personality, and I really like that. Besides, I haven't felt so comfortable in a long time like I do with you. I am very grateful to have met you, simple as that.
And you're crazy not to notice how much I enjoy spending time with you."

>>17867332
Never been married, no kids. He has had two serious relantionships, hasn't told me why they didn't worked yet.

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>>17867342
5/6

>>17867337
Is that it??? I thought about it, but I'm trying to be chill about this.

It's too easy to pick up younger chicks.

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>>17867344
6/6

And that's it, he fell asleep lmao

>>17867341
>men don't have menopause (-:

But their dicks go soft and shrink nonetheless ;)

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>OP wants to feel some old man's wrinkled balls slapping against her taint

>>17867322
>>17867328
>>17867334

>Nobody knows about this.

Good. Keep it that way, cut ties with him, shut this down.

The fact that he is hitting on a student makes him definitely unprofessional and unethical, and probably mentally unbalanced. You being 18 is irrelevant; pretty much nowhere is it allowed for teachers to date students.

If you care about him, you will end this, firmly and completely. Maybe it's his first time doing this, maybe he's done it before, maybe you're not the only line he's got in the water right now. But if this gets out (and it will, and probably there are people who already suspect), HE WILL GET FIRED, and you'll get caught up in the ensuing shitstorm.

Seriously, this getting out will ruin him professionally and socially, and will only be bad for you as well. And I doubt you'll turn him in yourself, but frankly he deserves to lose his job for preying on his students. This is a very unhealthy infatuation for both of you.

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Lmao sorry if I don't respond to everybody, you have me dying with all the talk about shrunk dicks and wrinkled balls.

>>17867352
Sounds like a fetish

>>17867355
Now this is some piece of advice right here. I don't want that to happen, I really don't. This is what it seems better for me to do, since I care about him. I don't want to ruin his life just because of some stupid feeling that I might have. T

hanks anon, you made me remember why at the beginning I wanted to keep my distance, I appreciate your advice.

>>17867367

You're welcome, and good luck.

The only question that matters here is are you in high school or college? If HS, wait to see if he wants to go out with you until after you graduate; even though you're legal, dating a student will get him fired. If you're in college, do whatever you want; you're both adults.

>>17867376

I'm in College, and also I'm graduating next semester already kek

Should've mentioned that earlier, right?

>>17867380
Definitely should have put it in the OP.

I'm not sure if college professors can get in any trouble for student/teacher relationships or not, desu. I don't think so, but either way you should probably wait until you graduate, because time is the key to a relationship. He might just be going for a quick fix, you might still be in the lust phase but not realize it, one or both possibilities still equal a quickly failed relationship.

>>17867387
Sorry, it's late and I'm fighting a cold. I feel fucked due to the medicine.

Yes, I feel like I should calm my shit down until I graduate and see if I still feel the same, or something. Might be the best for the two of us.

This feels great, I really needed to vent all of this.

>>17867394

omfg I was on such a roll there. I was over a paragraph in, and looking back on it I didn't even say anything worthwhile.

Lust, love, viable relationships, and all that other junk is so hard to accurately write about. I can't do it here, if you want to actually get into a great philosophical and long journey I can give you my Skype or Kik and we can really pound it out. If not, you seem to be on the right track, but there's nothing else I can do through /adv/.

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>>17867387
>I'm not sure if college professors can get in any trouble for student/teacher relationships or not

I'm not a professor, but working for one, they can and they will, if she's a student.
There's also a chance the professor is already emeritus, got many medals, a stellar career and enough fame for a lifetime, like Feynman or Lewin and he gave no fuck about how other people in the field see him, in that case he would probably fuck anyone in the world he fancies. Feynman not only fucked lots of 18-19 yo students, he also fucked his colleagues' wives. This is the guy who, in his college years, won first place Putnam by a wide margin, he's not even a math major, and considered mathematics essentially masturbation, helped develop H bomb, won Nobel prize, frequented titty bar, created a new mathematical concept for QED, predicted pretty much every nano scale technology we have today, is considered a national security threat because his cryptography ability, to quote Scott Aaronson "Will any of us ever discover anything that wouldn't have been dopily obvious to this man?", the only limit he has is his mortality. So yeah a guy who sounds like he came out of Marvel comics fucks his students. In fact this sort of discouraged many professors from doing the same, because then their work will be compared to Feynman's.

>>17867422
Don't worry, thanks for the concern and I'll keep my distance. I don't need more problems than what I already have. Need to focus on graduating already. I think that, in the end this was more for venting and trying to see if it was normal for me to feel attracted to an older man.

I appreciate everybody that took the time to give their advice, or made me laugh talking about dick and balls.