In terms of fitting in at work

also is this even a good business move in terms of me and my brothers relationship? we barely talk and he just kinda tells me what I should do "hey you should do this, you should do that" so we aren't really close at all which could make things awkward for the other guys at work

>>17864344
Never trust your coworkers and keep everything superficial. Be funny and easy to talk to but never talk about other people to coworkers. Keep out of drama and gossip, be easy going and funny and you'll do fine. The one time i haven't enjoyed a job is where i got involved in bullshit and trusted coworkers. You make the mistake once. Also it's difficult working with family, keep it professional and you'll be alright.

>>17864350
thanks, that's really "look after yourself first" kind of advice and I find that really helpful but I'm more worried about who I can be friends with and who I can't. He's really close with a lot of people there and they actually know him better than I do.

>>17864362
You can be friends with all of them but be close friends with none. Anyone who talks even a little about other coworkers will do the same about you. Looking after yourself will dictate who it'll be a good idea to befriend and who not too. Also be wary of the spotlight effect i think you're overthinking this a tad.

>>17864381
yeah I am, but it's cause I've been having problems with my other jobs. I hope it really works this time cause I really need to move out of home for once.