Met a girl on tinder, got conversation rolling fast, 8/10 geek. Arranged a date after our school semesters were over and before she went on vacation. Started with the bookstore and Vietnamese and bond over bad anime and Nintendo games.
But then I had stop by home to drop something off and wanted to come in and saw this.
Rest of the date seems smooth, conversation keeps going, stop by an ice cream shop before a movie we both liked, and she was too embarrassed to hold hands or huddle during, I didn't push it. Start to head home and she said it was the best date they had in a long time, told me to get in touch when I wanna go on a date again. Hugged and wished a good night.
I shot them a text the night after asking a question. "Read 20:36"
Two days later.
Shot another text this morning, "Read 10:48"
Told them to have fun on their trip tomorrow, "Read 15:00"
And I later checked Tinder and it looked like their account disappeared, they said they never liked the app, was about to get rid of it. I still can't help but feel that they were uncomfortable about how my apartment was kept, and don't want to think they were lying, and are just busy. Did I fuck up?
She probably just met a different guy anon when she didnt want to touch you in the movie was when you should have known it was over. Also thats a disgusting amount of garbage. If you live in filth people associate you with filth. Clean the fuck up
>>17863548
There was a close hug and the rest of the apartment is clean if that means anything.
>>17863555
>the rest of the apartment is clean if that means anything
Who gives a fuck, that is disgusting. Seriously.
>>17863555
When you have a room that looks like that the rest of your house doesnt mean shit. If the date didnt end with a kiss, at the very least, it was a failure.
>>17863576
This desu
best date of my life ended with cuddling and a kiss
>Girl doesn't respond
>Send more texts.
You're just digging yourself into a deeper hole. Every time you send another text after getting no response, you cut your odds of getting a response in half. Three texts in a row basically guarantees she won't respond.
You have to give women time and space. Practice infinite patience with women. You're being clingy and needy.
Send a text, no response, move on. You can't try and control shit, your brain is telling you that you need to act. Your brain is wrong, you need to fucking relax.
>>17863445
yeah you fucked up
clean your fucking flat and get over it
>>17863576
Also, this.
ALWAYS go for the goodnight kiss, no matter what.
If she kisses you back, you know she likes you and you can keep dating her. If she gives you the cheek, you know to never ask her out again because she just wasted your time. Get with it, OP. You need to read more about modern dating skills, watch Corey Wayne videos.
>>17863594
Wrong moron.
I've had 3 first dates where I got a cheek kiss, and then dated or fucked them soon after.
>>17863610
Ugly chicks don't count
Confirmed I blew it. Thanks all. /thread