Hey guys I know this sounds like kind of a small problem but it really bugs me.
So me and my ex girlfriend used to fuck all the time, so now I associate blowjobs and sex with her and thinking about her still makes me incredibly horny (3 1/2 months after breakup). Whenever I think of her I cant help but jerk off.
The problem is that I'm dating a new girl right now. We've been dating for a couple months and haven't had sex yet, so I still constantly think of my ex when it comes to sex.
Basically what I'm asking is: is it immoral for me to jerk off to my ex while I'm dating this new girl?
>>17861561
Sometimes you just gotta nut
>>17861561
>>17861561
>We've been dating for a couple months and haven't had sex yet
the fuck? explain.
>>17861596
Basically she is a dancer and has some issues with self-confidence/body issues
>>17861609
yeah she has body confidence issue because the guy she's been dating for months wont even fuck her. the fuck is wrong with you? women need to be fucked.
>>17861616
lmoa are you gonna answer the question or nah?
>>17861620
its a stupid fucking question, how is thinking about something while masturbating immoral? why does it matter what you think about when you jerk off? its your fucking imagination.
but again youre better off just fucking your gf, why is it that you havent fucked yet again? whats the point of a gf if youre not going to fuck?
>>17861653
lmoa fuck off neckbeard. go make some friends.
>>17861659
not a neckbeard. im serious. are you like 16 or something? religious? why would you date a girl for months without fucking? humans like to fuck. adults in relationships have sex.
>>17861672
>not a neckbeard.
Past sexual experience make the best fap material. Some people think of it as you haven't moved on, but that's all up to you.
>>17861682
ya, still not a neckbeard? im asking you a question. if you were fucking your last gf, why arent you fucking this one?
are you a child?
are you religious?
are you fucking beta as fuck?
is it something im not thinking of?
im legit curious
>>17861690
So you don't think fantasizing/fapping to an ex while dating someone else is inherently immoral?
>>17861696
#1 why are you looking for morality advice on an internet forum
#2 no of course its not fucking immoral
>>17861694
Ok my bad, I took your question as aggression. Basically because of her self-confidence issues she is really uncomfortable with sex. The last gf was a rape survivor and for some reason that made her really kinky and dtf, but this new one doesn't have any of that kind of shit. She essentially feels embarrassed to do anything.
>>17861561
>>17861694
Just leave the cunt alone.
As for you OP, I wouldn't call it immoral, your girlfriend probably wouldn't like it, but no not immoral. I mean, it's nearly impossible to not think about someone you fucked. I can't masturbate without my ex slipping into my thoughts and it sucks. I hope it goes away for you though.
>>17861716
Thanks man.
That's the thing though. I know that I have zero feelings for my ex other than just remembering her tits and ass, but I also know how upset my current grill would be about it. It's kind of a weird situation man.
>>17861719
Are you happy in your current relationship or is she a rebound? Cause it seems like you still haven't gotten over your ex and it's kinda lame to be using someone else as a rebound to get yourself up.
>>17861719
Well it's a good thing you understand it's solely a sexual attraction, I wouldn't bring it up to your GF. As long as you don't start to reform feelings you'll be ok. I imagine you'll have something new to think about when your new GF fucks you. Maybe tell her how you think sex IS important, but don't come off as just wanting that.
>>17861728
No, I'm very happy in my current relationship. The current gf is actually part of the reason I left my ex.
It bugs you because you know your current girlfriend would be INCREDIBLY hurt. She might even dump your ass for being in a monogamous relationship with her but being mentally unfaithful. It is not moral, but then this isn't a moral internet board. It would be best for any of your future relationships (and if you want to be taken seriously by the girl you're with) to try to move on.
>>17861731
Yeah I feel. I haven't really talked to her about it much because at the moment it's kind of nice and I enjoy not having sex as a distraction, but I know it will eventually become a problem.
>>17861744
Well how is it different from jerking it to a pornstar? If there are no emotions attached and just physical feelings, what exactly are the problems with it?
No it is not immoral. Just don't tell your new gf.
>>17861753
Words of wisdom.