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Ex is pregnant and I told her off 2016-12-15 12:38:10 Post No. 17859119
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Posted in another thread four days ago, that only got 6 replies. The story has changed since then.
>were official 2010-2013
>continued to see eachother, kept it secret from most friends and family 2013-2015
>she went backpacking on other side of planet for 6 months, in which time she managed to get 'married'
>she came back with boyfriend
>we met at a wedding, she told me she still loves me etc, I tell her yes, but not as long as she doesn't choose me
>she breaks up with boyfriend and reaches out
>we go on a four month long reconsciliation
>ultimately, she still can't face being open about us, and wants to keep it a secret etc
>I start fucking another woman
>she doesn't want to continue sleeping together because of aforementioned, but still want to hang out and to 'love eachother' and kiss and be romantic, but fucks some guy from work instead
>I tell her off for making things difficult, last time I see her
>she travels again, february this year
>she's moving to Australia, but wants to stay in Thailand for a month
>we don't talk for a couple of months
>she's still in Thailand, and ends up living there for eight months
>she has a boyfriend in Thailand, but he moves back to Europe after a couple of months
>during summer we skype a few times, she tells me I'm her soulmate
>then Bali for a month, before finally moving to Australia, back together with the boyfriend
>we texted some a couple of months ago, and we only exchanged nice words, but not since I told her I was dating other women
Last Sat I suddenly ran into her, and a bunch of close friends we got in common. She's pregnant.
She texted me, and it really put me off. She said she wanted to see me, but only if I didn't create any drama.
I told her off for treating me as if nothing had changed since February, and that the only drama we've ever had for the past six years, is because she keeps me on a distance because of ulterior factors, and that she should've invited me along on Saturday.
Was I in the right?
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Jesus christ what a fucking headache. If she loved you why does she play all these retarded games? Fucking hell why complicate things.
>pregnant
Nope.
How can you still love someone for so long after they've been playing you?
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I don't even know what you're trying to accomplish here, but I would have dropped that mess by the third line of your story and never looked back.
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>>17859125
Idk if I still do, but I always have. Call it a deeper connection, for lack of a better explanation.
I'm dating a girl I'm falling hard for atm.
I guess the ex wants to be friends, and wants support, but then she should treat me as one, and telling me she expects there to be drama is quite rude. Some of the friends in the group I met her with at literally some of my closest friends, who she met through me. Why didn't she tell me earlier, if she wants communication between us to be like it is at it's best, with open, loving kindness. Hiding something like this, and then have me just randomly run into her in the streets, when I thought she was going to stay in Australia until summer, is not how you treat someone you love.
So, I was in the right, right?
Because I feel damn good about it, I've let her step on me for years, but maybe I'm just an asshole.
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>>17859148
I did. I didn't talk to her for eight months, but she reached out, and I wanted to hateful her. She came 7 times, if that helps.
I wasn't needy or anything, but she went through a phase of thinking she should be celibate, so we mostly just hung out, fucked every now and again. When I started fucking someone else, she started fucking someone else.
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What a clusterfuck, what kind of life is this?
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>>17859168
The life of a polyamorous artist tbqh
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abort mission man, wtf is this shit? why purposely stress yourself out over some hoe?
jesus christ sometimes i think you people get off to your own miseries.
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>>17859242
I've already told her off. Just wanted people's opinion on whether it was too inconsiderate.
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