What do couples actually do together?
>>17858994
>Every day
Cooking and eating meals, watching the news, running/swimming, beer after work.
We are introverted and we both have solitary hobbies so... yeah.
>Every week
Dinner out, movie or theatre, tabletop games/card games with friends, dinner at my parents, videogames, watch our favourite tv shows or sports on tv.
>Every month or so
Hiking, travelling, art exhibitions, concerts.
>>17859010
Sounds like you guys have it all figured out. How long have you guys been together?
>>17859019
8 years (and one week!).
We went through a rough phase because we used to spend very little time together and got a bit bored, but we implemented it slowly over time and now it mostly works out.
>>17858994
INTJ male INFP female comfy couple reporting in.
For outings we do movies, restaurants, sometimes fast food and a drive, hikes, walks, and go to family and local shindigs.
For home stuff we do movies (again), music, games, cuddle, sex, fight over who gets to lay in whose lap, just fun stuff.
>>17859032
I am >>17859010.
We are INTJ female (me) and INFP male.
It is a sweet coincidence.
>>17858994
>What do couples actually do together?
In a relationship of almost two years:
Dating phase:
>daily
text
>once every week or so
Dinner, coffees, chatting, just visit a new city, go to the beach or arboretum or something
Officially a couple, first few months:
>every day
text, ocasionally phone calls
>every weekend
Sex, sex, more sex, dinner, drinks, coffee, hookah,
>once a month
travel somewhere, concert
Year+
>everyday
text, occasional phone call
>weekends
snuggle and read, go out to movies, visit friends, get some dinner, netflix, sex, hookah, coffee, pool, table top game (we discovered pandemic, she actually enjoys the Co-Op of it)
>once every 2 months
travel somewhere, concert, (yeah, we've slacked on this one)
She's more quiet, but likes to be out, I'm more social but often like to stay in (Yeah, I know, super opposite. ).
>>17859052
Ah, hello there fellow sociopath.
No but seriously, there's something magical about the pairing. For some reason were so in sync on so much. It's been over 8 years and I see no reason for it to end. Good luck to you guys. If you can make it work you're in for some of the best life has to offer.
Also good luck dealing with his career crisis.
>>17859065
It's the best relationship I've ever been in. He gets me better than anyone I've ever met, he's surprising and interesting and it feels so good to have someone who is actually better than me at arguing. Ha.
It has been 8 years for us too, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Anyway, he is having one right now - one of those adorable vocational crisis. But it's all good.