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Can I tell someone what I definitely don't want for christmas

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Can I tell someone what I definitely don't want for christmas or is that inappropriate?

Christmas is coming up, and I have kind of an odd gift situation.

I've been seeing someone for 7 months now and this'll probably be the first gift he ever gives me. I have reason to believe he might get me a watch, but if he did I would be massively upset about it (explanation upon request). Quite a while ago I explained my distaste for it, but there's a good chance he doesn't remember, or it went over his head.
What is the appropriate way to handle this????
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Go to a mall
Passs a jewelry store
Bitch about watches
Ta-da
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What do you have against watches this badly?
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>>17858257
there's little chance we'll be in a mall together anytime soon. It's very likely he'll order all his gifts online
>>17858262
I know for a fact that it's a go-to gift he's gotten for past significant others, and it's something that I would never use. I guess to me it would kind of symbolize that he put absolutely no thought into getting something I would enjoy, or something that matches me. I get that it's kind of stupid, but it's how I feel.
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I guess you're giving him a present too. You can ask him for advice about what you can give him (even though you might already know what), ask him about things he doesn't like, then say what you like and what you don't.
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>>17858272
>I guess to me it would kind of symbolize that he put absolutely no thought into getting something I would enjoy, or something that matches me.
This is probably common sense, but do not tell him this
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>>17858276
yeah that could work! I mostly just want to be smart about this and I'm guessing he'd rather know about a potential pitfall than not and end up making me sad unintentionally.
>>17858281
I wasn't planning on telling him like that. Just a basic "anything but a watch" if he asked why I'd just say I'm uncomfortable with something on my wrist all the time (which is incidentally true)
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So from what i've gathered I shouldn't just be straightforward and tell him? just hint at him I guess.
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Maybe set a price limit to something that's below what he'd spend on watches?
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>>17858351
I could try that. I just don't really have a point of reference
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