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I lack drive and focus. What do?

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Right down a list of things to do. Trust me it's magic.
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I have too much drive and focus, I guess I could lend you some.
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>>17856492
Find a material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want and set a date to adquire it, work towards that goal, set another material thing you want
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get off 4chan
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>>17856492
*D*R*U*G*S*
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>>17856492
this isn't your fucking clubhouse, we aren't your fucking friends, fuck off with your lonely-ass shitposting
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get a shitty job that you hate, with no room for advancement
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>>17856492
>Lack drive and focus
>What do?
People who lack drive and focus typically do nothing. So, do that.
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Judging from the fact you didn't even give any real information you are probably stupid. But that's fine the world needs ditch diggers too.
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>>17856492
Stop jerking off.

Consider the Renaissance emblem of Diligence. Look for Alciatus and Cesare Ripa's work. Seriously. Or make your own symbol for diligence and visualize it when doing a task.

Symbolic and emblematic thought can shape your mental processes in any direction you want.
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>>17856500
It's impossible to do nothing.If you're doing nothing then you're doing, so you're doing something.
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>>17856503
I knew you'd get it :)
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>>17856493
>>17856496
this and 20 minutes of meditation every day
develop daily morning and/or evening habits
such as going to the gym or even something mundane such as doing the dishes at specific times.

when in the midst of procastring remember that you have the choice to stop and start doing somoething productive. don't let your feelings dictate your life. You always have a choice, even if it doesn't feel "right".

also what helped me is to take cold showers.
you can also take a warm shower and finish it cold.

set a specific day time where you stop everything unproductive and start doing something productive.

try to have a healthy sleep cycle. 7 hours sleep are okay.

Don't drink to much soda or unhealthy things such as coffee. eat healthy.
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Then drive a focus
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>>17856492
Stop fapping and porn
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>>17856492

make a list of things you want to get done but make the easiest things first and the hardest things last. Doing the easy things first will get you motivated to do the other things on your list.
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>>17856506
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>>17856505
how the fuck can i keep a habbit
when my work is literally

"starting time between 07:45 am to 13:00
end time around 16:30 - 22:00

ALL i hear is constnatly " pikcup a hobby and habbit " i fucking destroyed my lifes hobbies interests and habbits because of the current shit tier autistic work system
i hate everything and everyone, you included
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>>17856492
Join the military
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>>17856492
Stop masturbating.
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>>17856502
>Symbolic and emblematic thought can shape your mental processes in any direction you want.

how though? just by visualizing it?
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>>17856510
what do you work as?
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>>17856492
You won't when you are doing something you love.

t. one of the most unmotivated guys you could ever meet. I now have no problem working 12-14 hours a day.
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>>17856492
Stop masturbating.
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I have the same problem coffee seems to work for about an hour before I feel worse. I feel like a fucking starfish, I mean I get what I need to done but I feel like I'm swimming through thick ooze to get anywhere and I'm not even fat
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>>17856510
haha, than i can't help you faggot

>shitty life choices

boo hoo you cuck :^)
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>>17856492
Ask this here, brother. >>102884005

I will personally answer your questions.
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>>17856502
>diligence
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>>17856492
This: >>102893029
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>>17856492
Stop watching porn.
Seriously, it seems to help.
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I made a similar thread once and one anon replied with this. I still read it from time to time.

"Everything comes down to the choices you make and your self-discipline. I am making double what I made from 5 years ago (40k to 80k) and not that that's anything to brag about, my family has gone from lower class to solid middle class in my area and I'm only 29.

It came from my habits and self dicipline. The people I see buying lunch every day, not doing any studying, not working on themselves or hustling or getting up early to attack their day, those people know all too well what it takes to succeed. They're not disciplined enough to make it happen.

Same with fitness. it's no mystery how to get a decent if not great body. Its not expensive and any disciplined person can do it. Everyone knows how to do it but they dont have the dicipline. Thats why there are slobs

Same with the aforementioned food argument. People know when they eat at McDonalds they're eating a plate of shit and wasting money compared to buying in bulk and researching recipes and diet plans and shopping around. they do not have the discipline to behave properly in this realm.

There are distractors and enablers in all these departments. The stupid fall for the Dr OZ or think they're a victom, but most people are not stupid.

Most people are in the same ballpark in terms of IQ. It comes down to the dicipline to hit it hard every day, stay awake and pay attention, so that poverty is impossible"
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>>17856513
Visualize it while doing the task, which means you can focus either on the image of the symbol, or in the 'lore' of the symbol. (Visualizing is a mental process similar to daydreaming, although daydreaming is indulgent in it of itself to some degree. Visualizing means no big focus on yourself). The point of all of this is to literally give meaning to your actions, making you more focused.

Diligence: A middle aged, severe woman, that holds a thyme branch on one hand, with a bee flying around it, and an almond and mulberry branch on the other. A rooster is on the side, pecking the ground.
The bee represents the fact that, to be diligent, it is necessary to extract the most precious nectar out of bitter circumstances, or bitter flowers. The almond branch is because almond flourishes earlier than most other plants; that, however, needs to be balanced with the mulberry, that flourishes a little bit later. Being diligent is also about knowing when to start early, and when to take it with patience. The rooster, as does the bee, finds its food among dirt, as he pecks down looking for grains. To find gold in dirt, is the point intended.

Think of this symbol next time you're doing something. You can focus on the bee or the rooster, for instance, or in the almond and mulberry branches. And obviously you can invent symbols for any given thing, but that takes some time. Do it for the important stuff.
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>>17856522
no it doesn't. fucking hate this meme.
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>>17856525
Stop watching porn for more than a week, you WILL feel depressed if you stop it entirely, but man does it feel refreshing when you're nofap for a month.
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>>17856526
i stopped watching it months ago. i even put leechblock on that shit. does fucking nothing. i still get hard irl and still last the same amount as i used to. and whoop de doo i am still a sack of shit
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Get off the internet. More specifically fast-moving social media like 4chan, or any others that you use. It's bad for your psyche and you get hooked on the dopamine released from the new things you're seeing, and also now (You)s give you that kick.
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>>17856492
Adderall
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>>17856524
thanks anon. will look into it.
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>>17856529
what's the easiest way of accomplishing the acquiring of this drug?
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>>17856492
stop fapping
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>>17856505
Who else is browsing /pol/ while procrastinating right now?
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>>17856492
Rebalance your gut biome. You most likely suffer from mild dysbiosis.
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I have the same problem but I'm too lazy to make a schedule. What do?
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>>17856495
wow how motivating
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>>17856492
meth
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God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can and Wisdom to know the difference
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