How do you deal with it if you have no friends or gf/bf?
I mean besides masturbation, substance abuse, or pure escapism
online friends. try playing a video game or something, add people on steam and start a conversation.
I had a gf for a while. We even did some pretty kinky shit, too.
Then I realized I had more fun when I was alone playing vidya, so I broke up with her and never got another gf.
>>17854212
I've made my peace with never having a relationship when I was 18. I'm a fucking garbage truck of a man. I smell horrifying if I don't groom extensively every day, I'm fat and I have no good looks except for my eyes that are exceptional.
Learn to make your peace or get busy being social
>stop masturbating so much. Once every 4-5 days MAX.
>Stop abusing substances
>Stop negative escapism, only use escapism if it influences you in a positive way.
DESU I love my alone time. I have lots of friends I hang out with often, lots of ladies in my life too, but I appreciate the shit out of getting home and being able to be alone in my room playing guitar and listening to albums.
Meditate more and find out what you should be doing, then do it. There's really no use in searching for meaning or happiness in others, you won't find it.
I have nothing to offer to a potential gf besides my dick, I never feel like I'm missing something because it most likely would be a terrible relationship.
>>17854247
Dude so what the fuck are you worrying about a gf for? you're not worthy yet, and you know it.
Your priority should be your career, your passions, and your own life. Once you are happy being single and want to share that happiness and your lifestyle with a female, THEN you are ready for a gf.
>>17854257
I don't worry that much, as I said: ' I never feel like I'm missing something'. In my moments of loneliness I miss having friends more.