Picture is relevant, they look similar with makeup on. So there's this girl that I'm close with and she made it known to me that she likes me, we've made out and have just hung out since then. But I have a problem in that while she's nice enough; I find her a bit too thin for my liking...I like girls that are average to thick and she's much thinner than average. The thing is that I do find her attractive and could see myself sleeping with her, but I'm just not *that* attracted to her and she really likes me in the relationship material sense. Should I go for it, or should I continue holding off and let it die? The other thing is that this girls smokes a lot, and I'm just not into that. But I know that you can never have a perfect partner, and am wondering if I should let that slide; or if it['d become an issue down the line. Plus I've been saving myself for a girl I really like(Not a meme) and this girls views sex as a throwaway thing(Which is fair).Thanks guys.
>she's a smoker
Get he fuck out OP right now don't even go there
>>17851939
Everyone has a "type" but that's an abstract. People are real. If you are attracted to someone, it is because of the person inside the external package, and if that attraction is strong enough you will find yourself becoming attracted to the outside as well.
Thirty-something guy here. Less than a third of the women I've been involved with have been "my type", even stretching the definition. The rest were women I got to know, got to like and then got to find beautiful, in that order.
>>17851939
Sweet monkey christ, it's like looking at a real-life human being from a mature spy movie and a cheesy cartoon character from a comedy action japanese series.
>>17851939
Why are you referring to her physical aspects when you mention "type"?
You should first be focusing on both of your goddamn personalities. Take a Myers Briggs test.
OP here. Personality wise we're very similar, we like to stay in, read and so on. I'm just worried that the physical aspects of things may end up being a problem. I like her though. But I don't like playing with people emotionally or being non committal.