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Share your bullying stories you remember from your childhood, adulthood or right now.

Whether your were bullied, did the bullying or were a bystander, what happened? Did you stand up for a victim? What did you get bullied for? How did you deal with it and have you met any of your old bullies or victims years later? What are they like now?
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I wasn't really ever bullied. People tend to punch down and I hit my adult height early on.

There was however, this girl who was made fun of a lot especially when she wasn't around to listen back in 9-12th grade. She was nice to most people and generally pretty open. But a lot of the other women especially would try to make up rumors about how she had aids or herpes or had a teenage pregnancy and all sorts of shit. They were obviously pulling it out of their ass, but teenagers arent really known for being rational.

I still regret not standing up and saying something. Kind of wish I could apologize to her for that, but I don't even know where she went after highschool and pretty sure it would come off as extremely uncomfortable her her anyways. Whenever I see someone being picked on, I'm much more vocal about it.
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>>17851261
>had a feud with some jock in high school, we'd call each other a faggot when we walked past in the halls, etc
>eventually it escalated one day and he challenged me to fisticuffs
>I raised my fists and just froze, let him punch me

Dropped out of high school after that because I felt like an ashamed beta.

Now I'm a total NEET failure at life and he's probably doing quite well for himself since he was the athletic type.
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>>17851369
You dropped out because you lost a fight?

How did your parents react and what do they think now?
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>>17851428
I didn't drop out immediately but I did at the end of that year.

My mother (no father) actually wanted me to drop out because she thought it would be better for me to forget about finishing high school and go to TAFE instead (Aus thing—higher than community college but lower than university). I dropped out of that too after a while because I'm a lazy failure with no aptitude for work or learning.

Now we just waste away on unemployment benefits and think of each other equally as failures. Me to her for being an alcoholic skank who couldn't have an abortion and her to me for being an unemployed failure who won't do anything with my life.

It's a dryly amusing but mostly miserable little subsistence.
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>>17851449
So you're going to die like this? A loser?
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>>17851486
Probably yeah.

I'll go back next year and have another go at the whole tertiary education thing, but without having passed high school and received an ATAR score, my options are severely limited. And even if I do manage to complete some course I doubt I'll get a job at the end of it unless the historical orthodoxy of my life so far gets flipped on its head.

Still, being a career student is better than being career unemployed, I guess. Just slightly.
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>>17851261
Too many examples of getting bullied through 5-7th grade in HS, the most memorable ones were faggots taking away all my stuff and hiding it in the toilet or the teacher insulting me in front of the class with everybody joining in the laughter. Even had the residence nerd almost breaking my nose ... didn't want to smack him back because he'd whine like a bitch and I'd get into trouble.

>What did you get bullied for?
Being different I guess. Was immigrant with shitty pronunciation, and didn't stand up for myself much because I didn't know how. (Kicking their asses would lead to more trouble, so not the best choice)

>How did you deal with it
Was another reason out of many to quit school. Next time I enrolled into another, I was a cool kid and never experienced any bullying since then.

As for the other side, whenever I see someone getting bullied at work or university (or even in online communities when I still played vidya), I always stand up for the person and help to get the shit resolved, so I guess it was all a good learning experience for me and helped with empathy in the long run.

>have you met any of your old bullies or victims years later?
Met some of the guys who were teasing me in school on the street, had a little catch up talk and they seem alright now. Can't really blame them for being insecure kids with shit-tier parents and I generally don't hold any grudges.

Also met some chick from college who was picked on by other girls ... she's even more fucked mentally now.
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>>17851261
I am in university and a bully now. I study mathematics and with my gang of friends we go around and bully people with lower grades.

We also bully this one beta from my classes who endlessly helps this one Stacy in the hopes of getting laid with her. It's for his own good that we bully him, this fucking guy is going to get his heart broken so bad in the future.
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>>17851261
In middle school, I was always the tallest guy in the class so the guys don't bully me, but it's always the girls that picked fight with me, particularly this clique of three girls, they are like teaches's pets, suck up to them. I was awkward and I didn't fight back. They would hide my textbooks, stole my gym clothes, put gay porns into my drawer and locker, send me obscene drawings of me and my dad, etc. also I owed one of them some money, she let me drive her dad's car and I scratched it, I was really scared of her dad, so I complied with their demands after that. The worst thing is they know I had a crush on this girl in another class, so they told me to go into the female bathroom after class, with my pants off, they took turn giving me handjob, took pics of my dick and send them to my crush, that made her hate me, probably until now. I didn't tell anyone, except for a close friend, who laughed and made fun of me. Eventually I moved away with my family. Many years later, in my early 20s, I came back to this city with my gf during our travel, met one of the girls at the reunion party, (gf didn't come). When she saw me, she squealed and seemed happy, I only nods and tried to put distance between us but she she literally jumped on me. She tongue kissed me and out of confusion I didn't resist it, also she added me on fb and wanted to keep contact. Once again I felt terrible, because I actually find her attractive now after all those bad memory. The other two girls married rich guys and all three have successful career, working for local bank and some companies. When I had an offer to work in the local research institute I turned it down without a thought, because I was sure if I work near her I would cheat on my gf.
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I used to bully the socially awkward, unpopular boys in high school. Some were poor or physically ugly, but it was mostly the social vulnerability.

I did this for laughs from others, to improve my own social standing because I was so socially vulnerable myself.

I was bullied by others for basically the same reason, but I think it happened from preschool onwards. I tried to get teachers and shit to stop it, but it's always after the fact so did little. Whenever I went into a new social group I would get picked on by the boy 1 rung up the ladder from me so he could prove his superiority.

I had emotional disturbances due to an abusive father and emotionally withholding mother, so I was violent from an early age. I was extremely easily provoked, so usually what would happen when I was bullied was it would escalate to violence and then the bully would stop. I wouldn't necessarily win the fight, but I'd show that I would fight back harder than them.

I stopped hitting people when I went to high school, at age 12. I haven't struck anyone in anger since, but I continued getting into wrestle fights in high school. I throttled 2 or 3 students in HS. One I kept pushing out of a second story window until he gave up.

I deeply regret bullying those uncool boys. I know how much more difficult my life has been from brief moments of others putting me down, so I know I must have seriously altered the course of the lives of at least a few of them. But I was weak, and I'm still weak, so I still feel the inclination to put others down to show my superiority.

I was disappointed to realise in my professional life adults still bully and that the quickest way I've seen and acted to stop this is to crack the shits and be intimidating and abuse them back.
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>>17851998
You deserved everything that happened to you, boy
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Every day for two years these two kids would come and fuck me up. Smash my head into the ground and beat the shit out of me. I never did anything about it until one day I lost my shit and punched one of the kids square in the face and knocked him out. Then we became friends.
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I was never physically bullied, but in High School nobody knew my name, everyone just called me 'weirdo' (the Portuguese equivalent anyway), I was their comic relief and the butt of jokes.
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>>17851906
>they took turn giving me handjob, took pics of my dick and send them to my crush
Sounds like they wanted the d
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>>17851261
I was a bully and I deeply regret it and karma paid me back for it.

I got bullied when I first moved south and so I changed schools. At the new school 2 slutty popular girls adopted me as their new friend and we were the three hot shit freshman. Some girl called my friend a slut, supposedly, and they wanted revenge. To egg her house. Being the brains of the group I made the plan even more elaborate including leaving a notebook of insults about her ugly hair and what not.

The parents were out of town and the eggs and shaving cream were all dried and stained when they got back and they got the notebook before their daughter saw it and turned it into school. All 3 of us girls had to leave or be expelled and prosecuted.

Many years later I got telogen effluvium and an autistic girl where I worked would cry out "ugly hair ugly hair." It took me a lot of pain until I realized that karma had come to pay me back for what I did.
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>>17851503
Another Ausfag here anon.
I dropped out of highschool at the end of year 11 because of a similar reason to you. I also went to Tafe and ended up failing and never went back.

That was 2 years ago. I'm 19 and I now have a full time job and a new car, planning to move over East next year possibly.

Advice for you is spend an hour a day, if that, browsing gumtree and or seek for a casual retail job. As much as it might sound shitty, and trust me after a few weeks it will be, you'll learn to accept that to be happy you just need to give "shitty" a shot. There's nothing better than being able to fund a hobby or even just get home from work and crack open a cold one.

Just keep looking for jobs and if you'll get lucky like I did :)
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>>17851261
In seventh grade I was bullied p hard by a skinny rich girl and her fat friend. Didn't really bother me, since it was just words, but it was very confusing.

Never figured out why, and no one else ever bullied me.
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I used to wear twin braids to school when I was 12. My classmates decided it was too childish, but I really liked the style. They started to generally tease me about it, then they started dipping my braids in glue, or catchup or whatever, and then they set it on fire.

What I hate the most about this is that I was told I should have quit the style before it happened since I was aware I was causing a reaction. I was suspended for being the cause of a commotion. My parents didn't care or argue. I didn't want to go back to school ever again, but they didn't listen.
I stopped wearing my hair in braids. I stopped talking to people. I I barely made it through high school I got so depressed and couldn't face college either.
My neck and back are still scarred and I'm 27 now. I fixed my life, but I still feel horribly anxious when I enter a school.
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>>17851261

>autisticfag living in the uk

1. Year 5, some boys/girls bullying me.
2. Year 6, my whole class hunted me down like a witch hunt, fought them off and walked off.
3. Year 7, 8, 9 fights every week to protect myself, won all of them but the constant bullying, being left out to be alone, being offered to fight by a P.E teacher and that etc. made me eventually drop it since it caused me to go into severe depression.
4. All of this doesn't include outside of school where I had to fight other 17 - 22 year olds sometimes due to one reason or another throughout the years. Including two 30 - 40 year old women who beat me up at the age of 15 since at the time I believed to not hit girls at all, they didn't get charged in the end because I said they were wearing skirts instead of jeans in court.

I'm sure there is other stuff that has happened in my life as well but forgotten about. I think if I wasn't such a tough man I would of had it a lot worse than this, especially if I didn't have my family to support me.
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>>17851261
I wouldn't call him a bully, he was just an asshole.
He kicked me in the dick, so I kicked him in the dick.
He made the pregnant teacher cry and no one liked him. Probably had autism or something.
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>>17852447
YOU got suspended for what they did? What kind of fucking school did you go to? God, isn't school staff the fucking worst? Lazy bureaucrats with too much power who rarely solve anything. There are many exceptions, but I think a lot of you Anons know what I'm talking about.
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>>17852541
God, many PE teachers are great, but some are such fucking assholes. They think because they're making fucking 40k salaries or whatever that they might as well fuck with the betas. I had a gym teacher eek was really funny, but rude to unathletic people, including me. He never motivated me to get fit though, my decision to get fit was years later so I could protect myself and people getting picked on. Now I just remember him as some cunt who had a model penis called "Woody" for health class.
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>>17852541
Why the fuck would 30 - 40 year old women beat you up?
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First moved to the states, 4th grade was ok. The girls said ew to me and I couldnt figure out why

5th grade i started getting jumped by groups of girls, for no reason. they would call me names and beat the shit out of me.

6th grade was ok. not picked on as much
7th grade was ok aswell, had some haters but none of them violent like elementary school girls
8th grade was ok
9th grade was good. got picked on but actually had friends
10th grade I was nothing, not even picked on no more, no friends either
11th grade drop out

dont really get bullied anymore, other than the teasing people do to each other. Im still learning to tease without seriously offending someone and its hard work. 21 atm and socially retarded but atleast i know how to talk to people and shit. not a virgin, btw. lost my V to a 30 year old who just had to straight up ask for sex because of how oblivious i was. that was when i was 19 and ive had 2 more women since then. its a learning process but i believe if you think you are normal, you will eventually become normal
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>>17852447
you poor thing. that's fucking horrible. i wish you all the best, anon.

>be skinny little boy
>one malay kid who always gave me shit, he would punch me up or shoot rubber bands at me
>any time we crossed paths he would do that 'alpha' shit where he looks down at me and acts all tough and gets confrontational
>i literally did nothing to deserve this, except maybe stand out because i was the only (half) white person in the school
>on one occasion he was bullying someone else, i stepped in, pulled him off the other kid and told him to fuck off
>i got in trouble for trying to help, all the other kids started teasing me for """trying to be a superman"""
>another occasion i was playing basketball with some classmates
>he comes along and grabs the ball, starts playing with it while we stand around waiting for him to get bored and move on
>he continues for 4 minutes, playing by himself with the ball
>i walk up to him and grab the ball, he doesn't let go
>i shake him and the ball violently and shove him back with it
>he falls over, some people gasp, there is silence as i'm holding the ball and he's lying on the ground
>he gets up, i see tears in his eyes
>the fucker started crying l m a o
>i don't think i can beat him in a fight so i run to my class, hoping to run into a teacher so i don't get in trouble
>get to classroom, no teacher in sight
>turn around, wait for him, and he shows up
>he starts punching me in the head, i just sort of take it because he actually isn't that strong
>eventually some other kids go get a teacher for me
>this is when i realise that i seem to have a tolerance for pain so w/e
>he stopped bothering me for the most part after this incident

at some point i gained a bunch of weight (because i was bullied for being too skinny, so i just thought 'shit, i better eat some more' and i ate too much) and got bullied for being fat.

cont
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>>17853919
cont

>older, mid-teens, average height and weight
>still in same school
>that other kid was either held back for failing or kicked out of school entirely, not really sure
>some other guy, he is 2 or 3 years older than me and a lot taller, he's only 1 year above me, so he has been repeating years for failing
>he has an older brother who is another 2 or 3 years older than him, 1 year above him, both of them are tall idiots
>they give shit to most people that aren't confrontational because they can get away with it
>one day they and their friends are standing in the hallway
>i need to walk through them to get to class
>i start going through, the younger brother steps in front of me and shoves me back
>i try to walk around him again, shoves me back
>i say fuck off, give him the finger, turn around and take the longer, alternate route
>i remember seeing his face so full of shock that i dared to ''disrespect'' him
>later in class i see him and his brother looking through the window and pointing at me
>i give them both the finger - more looks of absolute shock that this nobody is standing up for himself
>during recess, i'm hanging out in a friend's classroom
>someone runs in and frantically tells me that "they are coming for you", they try to get me to run away or hide or something
>i'm just like lolwat this is some stupid anime shit. if they're coming, they're coming
>they walk in a few minutes later, sit me down in a chair in the middle of the room, and one of them grabs a broom stick
>one threatens me with broom stick while the other yells at me something about respect or w/e
>i don't say anything, just kind of surprised at how dramatic they are
>they get angry because i don't say anything, one of them slaps me across the side of the face as hard as he could
>2 seconds after i burst out into laughter because holy shit, he just slapped me? i thought he was trying to be alpha and shit and he slaps me instead of punches me? lol okay
cont
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>>17853941
cont

>they slap me some more, i keep laughing because jesus what a couple of wimps
>they slap me so much that my cheek is literally completely numb, it doesn't even matter how much they slap me now
>they leave in frustration and also recess is almost over so a teacher would be coming
>still laughing as they leave
>later get called into discipline master's office with the two guys, some other kid told some teachers or something about what was happening
>the DM asks us what happened
>i tell what happened, they say basically the same thing, but try to defend themselves by saying that i disrespected them or some shit
>he excuses them
>he asks me personally if i want them suspended or not
>i just say nah, dw, found out today they don't have the guts to do anything but slap me

you know how people say bullying builds character? i don't agree with it as a method of building character, but it certainly did build character. not afraid to stand up for myself anymore, so i guess that's a good thing.

>one day some time after this incident, go into the bathroom
>i obviously walked in on some kind of secret meeting, those two guys and their friends are in there smoking
>they all stare at me as i use the bathroom and wash my hands
>as i leave i just mumble not to worry, i don't give a fuck and i'm not telling anyone
>could see the fear in their eyes because they know they would get kicked out of school permanently for that shit

i don't understand why people are so horrible to each other though. i am 90% sure these guys never graduated, and make their money illegally (drugs, burglaries, muggings, etc). part of why i didn't want them suspended is also because they would have less of a future if i did that. i didn't want to take away any hope they had for a real future.
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>>17853919
Wow, like the above Anon was saying. Fuck the school staff. They got you in trouble for helping the bully's victims.
"You're trying to be a superman!" Isn't that a good thing?

Your stories about fucking with bullies are hilarious though. Keep 'em coming. I want to hear about these "alphas" and the "respect" they're apparently entitled to.
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>>17853890
Random encounter when I was walking to my grandads, they appeared to have come from a pub well known to do drugs but not 100% sure since it was a good distance away from where it happened. Like any other fight it was purely them who went up to me and started for whatever reason, not sure even to this day why.
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>>17851261
Someone punched me in the shoulder so I picked them up and body slammed them into a locker.

I'm still not sure why the class midget thought it was a good idea to randomly hit me when i was over 2 and a half feet taller than him and then laugh about it right next to me.
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>>17853959
Wow you're a pretty good guy. I definitely agree with what you said about building character and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself now, but man it hurts since I want as manly as you were, but I don't think I ever got hit. It was mostly exclusion and verbal, but I wanted to fucking kill myself or them. Luckily I didn't do either, but I can empathize with some of those school shooters if they only shot their bullies. I would never advise anyone to do that though, since you would get in trouble.
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>>17853981
Did you get in trouble. How'd your classmates react?
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>>17853858
There were several reasons why. I didn't actually see this boy setting fire to my braids - I only know it was him because he was the one sitting behind me. Then when they searched him for matches or a lighter, there was nothing. Nobody in the class saw anything either, or so they said, so they decided they could blame him without proof.
Nowadays that kid is a respected business owner and quite well known around that city (which I never returned to). I don't think he regrets it one bit, or even remembers it. Thinking about it makes me slightly upset still.
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>>17853974
yeah idk, they made it out to be me trying to act tough and shit. i just wanted to help the kid.

i think i've run out of stories though. there were smaller interactions but nothing interesting.

>>17853991
i think the verbal/psychological bullying is worse, that really fucks with you and makes you want to kill yourself. the bullying i received never got to me like that because it was just physical pain, which i eventually could shrug off pretty easily. but if they picked on my insecurities more, i would have been a lot more suicidal. i'm glad you didn't off yourself, or shoot anyone, anon.

that reminded me though
>had to get my hair cut, too long according to the school rules
>next day, one of the other kids, bigger than me, one of the popular "funny" guys saw me and laughed at my hair
>always been self conscious about my hair because i didn't know what the fuck to do with it
>later during recess i took a nap in class on my desk because i was 2 tired. lying next to the window
>hear that same guy come along with a friend, he comes over to the window and tells his friend to look
>they literally point and laugh at me
>they are pointing and laughing at my hair
>i just pretend i don't hear them and keep "sleeping"
>this was worse than every other physical confrontation
>the only time i was brought to tears

i'm still super self conscious about my hair now. if it's not exactly perfect and every strand is where i want it to be, i'm hyper aware, and worry about it all the time. i have to remind myself that most people won't notice the small imperfections in what my hair is doing. it's stupid. i'm doing better though, caring about it a lot less than i used to.

>>17854030
i'm sorry to hear that anon
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>>17854026
No, and everyone laughed at him.
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>>17852447
>twin braids childish
Your classmates had shit taste.
>>17853959
Where was this, malaysia? Because it sounds exactly like malaysia.
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>>17854037
What are you doing now? Where have you gotten in life?
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>>17854057
haha no, but close enough. it was in brunei. which is basically malaysia but the government is slightly richer.

i just remembered another thing the kids would do in that school, but i was never involved (cos i wasn't in with the hip crowd ;^))
>they would pick a guy to mess with
>usually its on their birthday, and usually in their big circle of ""friends""
>they would all pick him up, and go to some kind of tall structure like a pole, or a door frame, that his legs could wrap around kind of
>they would ram his crotch into the pole or door frame
>repeatedly
>everyone doing it is laughing
>guy being held yells, begging them to stop (they of course don't stop)
>afterwards they all have a good laugh together and they're still best ""friends""
it was so fucking stupid, i swear.

>on one occasion, they were too violent with it, and the guy on the receiving end had to go to the hospital
>he almost lost one of his testicles

i didn't have friends in this school, but nor did i want to be friends with these fucking idiots. alpha wolf hazing bullshit
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>>17854039
What happened to that kid who punched you? After he was laughed at did he get bullied and did you ever talk to him after?
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>>17854077
i'm working in an office (the company is about to either liquidate or change management, so i'm looking for a new job. have a good lead, might be working as a field technician soon) in australia, i moved here a year ago to be with my gf at the time. she broke up with me 3 or 4 months after i got here. we were together 2 years before that.

i'm financially independent finally, and don't have to see my shitty family very much. i'm 24. hopefully i'll be getting australian citizenship in about 3 months.

i have a new girlfriend as of a month ago. she's adorable and very sweet. things in my life seem to be going pretty well, despite the extreme tiredness (not quite narcolepsy, but almost there), depression, and anxiety. oh, and despite the job i'm working paying minimum wage (thankfully australian minimum wage is very liveable).
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>>17854084
Wow, fucking losers. Kids can be some of the dumbest shits in the world. I wouldn't want to be friends with them either.

In Canada, the worst you'd get is birthday beats and they aren't that bad, but I wouldn't want them. Birthdays tended to be happy here.
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>>17854091
I never talked to him to begin with because he was annoying as shit and I only talked to the two people in my school that I liked hanging out with. I think most people thought I was a future serial killer if im being 100% honest.

The kid was a wannabe bully who picked on people because he was overcompensating for his height and wanted to part of the 'cool kids' group. The same group that laughed at him all the time. He went back to picking on some creepy goth kid after that. I left the school later that year after 9th grade but I heard from my friends that the goth kid stabbed his hand with a pencil in 11th grade and he was the one who got expelled because the teachers were sick of him and knew he had bullied the kid for years.
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>>17854057
>Your classmates had shit taste.
Everyone wanted to be Jennifer Anniston back then.


Interesting thing so many of you mention beatings and fights. Physical violence was the one kind of bullying that never happened in my school. It was mostly moral/psychological abuse than physical.
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>>17854102
Seems like he got what he deserved for being such a little shit.
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>>17851906
>took turns giving you a handjob
not only is that hot as fuck, seems like they did you a favor. nothing makes girls like you more than a little jealousy.
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I was a bully. I was a weird kid and I became overly defensive of myself and family/friends, partly for fear of being bullied myself and I just being angry all the time.

I bullied kids that were weird to me or just seemed weak and in general I was just an asshole.
Some kid once stood up to me and was insulting me and trying to bully me and he wanted to fight me and I swiftly kicked him in the groin and he started crying on the floor and then he never bullied me again. As I got older I just started getting meaner in my words but no physical violence anymore until eventually I was moved to a class with assholes in it and I was now weaker and on the receiving end, it was an eye opener for me and I changed my behaviour to be much better and I became a better person.
many years later I was even sort of a wuss, letting people walk all over me and becoming more and more insecure.
I felt like something was wrong with me and I went for an auti check but it turned out I was actually depressed and had a personality disorder, which I still find hard to believe till this day.

Then I did drugs for a while and fucked up my life even more and now we are here, Im a depressed NEET with no life or friends


I can give all of you some help though, most bullies are actually cowards.
Talking is rarely if ever going to help.
You just gotta find them alone and go absolutely crazy. If possible physical violence,if youre too old for that be extremely threatening, have some sort of weapon with you and make it clear you dont want to be bullied again.
Also prepare something to say back when they make a mean remark about you. Preferably a one upper, so you always have something worse to say about them.
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>>17851261
I was like a chihuahua growing up. I had a big heart, loved to yap, and probably didn't realize my own limits. I hated seeing people being picked on and often stepped in to intervene talking the bully out of administering a beating.

I did this for years until I earned respect from the bullies. I never figured out why, but eventually they took me under their wing and tolerated me telling them to fuck off when they picked on the kids who were too small or beta to defend themselves. One time, however, one of my new friends was picking on a kid who usually kind of asking for it by being obnoxious. The bully was shoving this kid into his locker and the kid was squealing like a pig and generally just demeaning himself. Eventually, I lost patience and just slammed this kid into his locker. The look of betrayal he gave me still bothers me when I think of it. Several years later he died in a motorcycle accident when some car pulled out in front of him. I regret losing control in that moment, but do know I saved a lot of kids a lot of torment so maybe I can finally forgive myself for a moment of weakness.
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>>17854205
Good advice. I can't really blame you much since you were a stupid kid and I did dumb things too, but you seemed like a typical asshole. Why are you a NEET though? Are you sure there isn't anything you can do to get back up?
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>>17854177
Definitely, that guy was lucky as fuck. I wonder if he could have turned it into a blowjob if he tried.
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I was bullied by female classmates mostly because I developed earlier than them. Also I only had one friend, also bullied by them, so it was 2 vs 5. They mostly called us names and spread rumours, but they hit my friend cos she was "weaker". I tried to defend her most of the time, but deep down I felt horrible, because at the time I was having problems at home so i kept it all to myself. Got dedicated to get good grades thinking that would show I was better than them and ignore what went on at home.
Guys from other classes also made fun of me. Some years after, one of them admited to me they ploted stuff to make us stop being friends for fun.
A couple years after, my friend was put in their class and she came to my house cryin fearing it would happen again. However, she became friends with them and stopped hanging out me, always declining my invitations, so I cut contact with her. Nowadays she wonders why I stopped talking to her.
I also never spoke to any of those girls again and don't want to. Utter contempt is all they'll get from me.
I also had a guy "friend" call me fat and hippo, etc. But now he's the one like that.
And a teacher called me "monster" because I passed in front of the camera while she was recording a classmate dancing. This was the only time I told my parents what happened and my mom talked to the principal. I hoped she would get fired but she didnt, because she said that "jokingly".
Then I changed school but people there wrote crap online about not wanting me there cos I was "quiet and didnt talk much" (i was new there).
Only once I stood up when a guy hit me, and I just released all my anger on him. Left him crying and he never bothered me again.

Right now, I mostly ignore all those people and just sit back and enjoy karma's work.
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everyone talking about karma and people deserving shit is an asshole, grow up.
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>not a single person got bullied in my school
>just ignored and left to rot in misery
i wish i had a single friend
getting harrased would have felt so much better than constant desire for what you were born to never have
i probably would have been bullied if people weren't afraid of me, i was always the biggest guy (for you) in school
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There was always this tal guy who called me fat, ugly, retarded, worthless and he kept talking shit like how he fucked my mom everyday.

To this day I still hate my dad
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>be me
>middle school
>group of kids call me a faggot for no good reason
>i wasn't strong, popular, or smart enough to get them to stop so I let it happen
>plus I wasn't about to attempt to enter a fight 4 on 1
by the time high school rolled around I had enough of a physical stature and friends where they stopped fucking with me directly. also managed to date/fuck one of the hotter girls in school so that put a pin in them calling me a faggot

I kind of wish I would've stood up for myself a little more earlier on in life, but I guess everything worked out alright. I ended up in a good uni with a nice job and they're still slumming in roughneck work.
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>>17854446
posted too soon
ran into one of the guys that called me a faggot at a county fair a year or two after graduation. He didn't have the balls to talk to me in person but was more than confident enough to flip me off from 200ft away
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Does workplace bullying count?
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>>17851261
Got bullied when I was 11 by 3 other boys in class. I had a bad day once, pushed one of them, he fell with his head right onto the edge of a table, started bleeding, went to hospital. I have been expelled from school without the chance to give any reasons for my action. I never told anyone about them bullying me for years either. My life went down hill since then. I regret it
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>>17851261
I used to have my buttons pushed because I had a severe fear of germs and being abducted by aliens when I was 10. I was afraid to catch objects in sports so I'd mess up and be either made fun of or scolded. My "friends" would either trick me into doing weird shit like hump the table, others would punch mr in the stomach for laughs until I fell over from the agony, others would simply take every opportunity to criticize my life. Usually they'll try to bait a berserk angry reaction out of me, after I picked up a desk and broke it out of anger. I learned not to trust friends, or even make then at all. Only keep a close few.
I Had A Weird Infection On my face at the time so all chances of romance were nearly shot down except a few rare occasions. Luckily at the end of high school that was cured. However I had gotten rejected by girls in middle school and early high school a whooping 40 times. Honestly I'm surprised I'm still living today. I'm surprised I didn't get arrested for murder at some point. I'm even more surprised I'm in a committed relationship.
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One time I had a buddy whose parents were extremist Christians and we had a falling out because I had phone sex with his girlfriend. He was being a dick, always glaring at me and grumbling names at me so during lunch I went to the computer lab and wrote up a letter from the church of satan thanking him for his contributions to the church, noting that his school satanic pastor will get to him soon with his satanic bible and robes. Then I had a friend drive me out to his house and I put it in his mailbox with only his last name. Literally that night I got a phone call from the principle asking if it was me, I denied it of course but when I got to school they pulled me into the principles office and there was a bunch of cops there saying I could be charged with a federal crime for tampering with the mail and that they'd fingerprint the letter. In hindsight I figure they were bluffing but I confessed right there and had to right an apology note to his mom. Bright side is though I never saw the kid again, they sent him to catholic school. Ended up getting with his girlfriend and taking her virginity. The end.
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>>17851814
>I'll take things that never happened for 500 Alex
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>>17854320
In middle school, an occasional bully of mine broke apart my friendship with a really good friend of mine, pressuring him into not hanging out with a loser like me. It worked and my ex-friend started bullying me too. What a cunt. The bully was some probably rich Arab kid who was used to lying and cheating at things. I wanted to fucking kill that kid who used to be my friend and planned to stab him with a pin and run away on the last day of school, but it fell out of my pocket and there was no opportunity (not to kill obviously, but to hurt him for revenge). Looking back on it now, I would probably just make myself look retarded and made things worse, so I'm lucky there was a hole in my pocket. I went to a different high school from those people and eventually got a lot of friends, better social skills and found my comfort zone. I read our old Facebook conversations and my God, that kid and I were good friends and could have taken it further. Why do people try to split friends apart?

Another story of that bully. I was in a group with a friend for an amusement park field trip, but that kid was in it too and told me to leave the group when we got there. I ended up having to leave the group and I'm guessing that my eyes were tearing up. My teacher saw me and asked why I wasn't in a group, I told her that I basically got kicked out and she got me some really nice older kids I played four square with at recess to take me in their group. I felt so good after that and those kids were nice people. Even through high school, though we were in separate schools, when I'd see one of the guys in that group we'd still say hi. Tall, black kid and a really nice guy.

If I could, I'd beat the shit out of that bully right now and throw him into a ditch because knowing who he is, I highly doubt he regrets doing any of the things he's done.
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>>17855353
>God, that kid and I were good friends and could have taken it further.
if he left you, he never really cared about you in the first place.
that bully probably only saved you from more pain.
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I was bullied in elementary, middle school(even teachers hated me) and pretty much a loser in high school. I quit school and felt better than ever, whoever told me ''be happy to be a child, you'll never be this free again'' should seriously punch themselves because I think being a grown up has made my life so much better. Never do I want anyone to go through what I've been.
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>>17855482
Ausfag here.
Changed school from having bunch of friends, generally liked to a rural school full of assholes.
Life went downhill from there. Used to be picked on a lot, people throwing shit at me etc. And one particularly manipulative guy who was downright Satan.
Anyway, I've since moved on with life and have a family, career and degree but I will never forget.
I don't really believe people like that change. I'm sure they'll get what's coming to them
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