A girl I have been having a long distance relationship with for 2 years has cheated on me with online men in the past and hurt herself a lot. I feel too guilty to leave but also suffocated everytime she texts me. Recently she has started being really disrespectful and even made a ''list'' of things she would do when I left (includes deep cutting, being with old men sexually and killing herself).
Everytime she cut or went to upload herself naked online she would send me the aftermath and the men's responses. Now I don't even know what she is doing behind my back even though she always promises she is super loyal etc. I have had to help her, delete her porn blogs and pics on Tumblr and confront all the pedophile men she would engage with. (She was 15 and now we are both 18).
I don't know how to do it but I really need to be free from her influence. Should I?
Guilt and missing her are a huge part of why I can't but I also feel very much abused and used. Met her once irl only. She regularly gets psycho episodes and no matter how much I tell her she is hurting me, it never works anymore.
>>17848168
>long distance relationship
stop reading her text or anything from her. what you don't know you don't know
Do I really have the right to do that? What if I'm the wrong one? I hate being such a forgiving cuck honestly ://
>>17848192
Literally block her and move on. Fucking hell dude get OUT.
>>17848168
Fucking idiot, she's toxic. How do you think this is going to end? The more you wait the worse she'll get. End it, don't send a message telling her why either. Ghost her. Block her and delete everything. Trust me.
I never thought I'd get support. Thank you. I'm ending this.
Good luck bro.
She sounds toxic as fuck and you are getting hurt by her bullshit.
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