hey so my girlfriend of 1 and a half years went on a website

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>>17847499
god am I a fantastic retard. HERE is the convo haha

>>17847502
when i saw the OP i instantly thought "she needs money"

now that i see the convo, it's confirmed

talk to us about ur financial situation, anon

Trust is broken
Rip

>>17847505
we're both students and live with our parents. her parents arent poor but she lives a pretty expensive lifestyle because she buys lsd and weed all the time and theres a music festival coming up soon that she needed a lot of money to attend.
im not working currently and i recently lost all of my savings to help my mom pay for medical bills.
before that id frequently give her money for nice things because i never buy anything expensive for myself and i like to see her happy. i guess she was just desperate for cash

Are you guys super broke?

Chicks always do this shit since women are subhuman and typically useless unless they use their mouth, pussy, asshole.

>>17847523
oh shit.. time to dump that junkie hoe, opie.

let her find her sugardaddy.

>>17847533
yeah dumping her isnt something id like to do. the fallout from it would be pretty terrible and id like to avoid it if possible

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>>17847539
then you deserve what you get, cuck

back to your cuckshed. tyrone's coming to visit, to exchange some drugs for a bj

>>17847544
just looking for some advice other than dump her. you dont really know the full story and i know she sounds shitty from what ive described but she has a lot of redeeming qualities that arent her looks

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>>17847555
>This moldy corn dog is actually really good, yea it's been gnawed and slobbered on by other guys but the meat is still good for another week

>>17847555
List at least three redeeming qualities. I ask for at least three since you got trips.

>>17847560
people will defend the shit they bought just because they paid for it

>>17847563
Yep, you can see the sunk cost fallacy at work right here
>>17847555

>>17847561

>she handwrites me notes all the time and delivers them to me along with hand baked food/my favorite snacks

>she craves attention from me. always messaging me throughout the day and is very very clingy.

could be weird for some sure but i think its cute

>knows more about me than anyone else. not my only friend but one of the only people who i can truly confide in

thats all silly stuff but its some of the reasons that i love her. i cant really accurately describe the subtleties of her personality to you guys and have you understand so thats just some more obvious stuff about her

>>17847560
Oh look, the bitter neckbeard virgin squad is here.

>>17847571
so basically, she knows how to cook some shit, isn't completely illiterate and knows more stuff about a guy who has no friends, than his nonexistent friends?

wow.. a total keeper.

>>17847571
Either your standards are monstrously low, or I'm being baited hard right now. Good luck with your junkie whore gf, Opie.

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>>17847584
hey man those are just some things she does that are redeeming. obviously i like spending time with her and talking to her and everything else that comes with any other relationship. i could say that shes nice or funny or interesting but even though i think that how much does that really mean to a stranger who doesnt know her personally?
you can shit on me all you want for wanting to stay in this relationship and i get thats probably stupid to do but you guys reek of /r9k/.
im just wondering who hurt you
or maybe youre just spiteful virgins looking for someone else who actually fucked someone so you can shit on them when their relationship starts to go to shit
like i said im looking for advice on how to cope with this because im not just going to quit at the first sign of trouble

>>17847646
>first sign of trouble

too late she's already sucked like 100 dicks for drugs

no one's shitting on you out of spite. you're just a delusional cuck who wants to taste foreign sperm every time he kisses his junkie gf. can you look at yourself from the 3rd person and realize that you're asking for help on staying with a woman who e-whores herself for cash to support her drug addiction?

>>17847563
Salesman here. We're trained to do something similar to this shit.

If you can convince someone that THEY thought of buying the more expensive option, then they'll defend "their" decision to their husband/wife/whatever. But if they think it was MY idea, then they'll cave when a family member disagrees, and the product will get returned.

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>>17847663
shes not fucking anyone else, i know that for a fact. also she deleted her account after just a few days of making it from guilt. worst she could have done is sent nudes to someone else but im willing to forgive her for that.

>>17847673
>shes not fucking anyone else

you can't know that

>i know that for a fact
she never leaves the house and you have her CCTV'd or something? or you go everywhere she goes 24/7?

>>17847646

Dude. Come on.

She went behind your back, and gave away something that was supposed to be set aside for you and gave it to other men so to support her drug habbits.

You may love her. But does she really love you if she was willing to do that? Her drug habit is more important to her than her relationship with you. Since it is weed and lsd it isn't even an addiction. I would maybe understand if she took a wrong turn in life and ended up addicted to heroin or something - I would tell you to support her through rehab( well no I wouldn't, but it would be more permissible). In this case she literally choose supporting her drug and music lifestyle over being faithful to you.

SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU THE WAY YOU CARE ABOUT HER.

>>17847680
im best friends with her best friend who tells me all kinds of shit about her. shes made it very clear w/ me that she has never ever physically cheated on me. you can dismiss this as "bitches lie to cover up other bitches" but have my word this is a reliable source
>>17847682
hell man ive been borderline neglectful for the majority of this relationship.
we literally wouldnt still be together if she wasnt trying to make things work
but yeah i get where youre coming from
think im just gonna end up breaking up with her after all as shitty as thatd be because im gonna be going to japan w/ her and our class in a few months and i dont want her to ruin that

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>>17847673
I'd personally ditch over this OP, but if you're not going to, then commit to that.
If you're willing to forgive, then do it with conviction, but make it absolutely clear that any slip up like this will have you immediately leaving,

You just need to man up and do whatever you decide to do quickly, and with no regrets. If you can look past this transgression, then do so; forgive her absolutely, and never bring it up again unless something happens again. If you bring this shit up every time you have a little spat, then she'll feel she can never get back to how things were, and she'll just leave in a long, painful fashion.
But, on the other hand, if you don't think you'll be able to absolutely forgive her, then man the fuck up and dump her. A relationship rife with spite cannot work.

Honestly though, we're not talking about a decade-long marriage with an otherwise sound person here, we're talking about your year-and-a-half druggie girlfriend. I'd strongly recommend dumping her. If you really won't listen though, then you need to commit to that choice.

>>17847695
>female
>a reliable source

yeah i p. much figured you were a delusional cuck the moment you started defending a cheating junkie whore who sucks dicks for cash

>>17847703
yeah. the only thing thats holding me back from doing this is the fallout from it.

itd complicate the relationship with one of my best friends (her best friend)

i'm going on an expensive trip to a foreign country with her soon and i dont want a breakup to ruin what would otherwise be a once in a lifetime experience

also she is pretty tied into my social life so id never really be able to get away from her

another thing preventing me from doing this is having to explain myself

i don't want to be fucked with having to explain to my family where she went
or explain to my friends why we arent dating anymore
or any of that other shit

thisd be so much easier if i could just get rid of her and never hear about it again

>>17847703
>>17847712
also id like to say i really do appreciate your advice thanks for the insight man

>>17847705
she is the most honest person ive ever known in my entire life.
but yeah continue on with your /r9k/ bullshit

>>17847712
I assure you, if you just stopped seeing her, it would suck, but you'd be glad in a year looking back. Even if she was great. All wounds heal, and you'd move on.

>>17847703
>If you're willing to forgive, then do it with conviction, but make it absolutely clear that any slip up like this will have you immediately leaving

if he forgives her, she'll see him as a mangina who can be walked all over

oh wait...

>>17847775
Yeah, I kind of typed up most of that before re-reading and noticing that their relationship was only a year and a half long. I had a girlfriend for 6 years before getting married, and thought they had maybe built more of a life together.
Still, it's /possible/ that he could do that and things could go well, but he's likely misplacing his trust.

Honestly, when I hit crossroads in my life like this, I had a friend who I'd known since high school who I could always trust to have my back and be dead honest about these things. If OP knows anyone like that, it'd be a hell of a lot better advice than strangers on 4chan could give, but maybe he doesn't.

>>17847849
Everyone would be better off with a friend like that over anyone from /adv/

If anyone of your friends found out that their GF was doing this shit to fund a drug habit you'd be telling them to dump them in a heartbeat. You can't even spin this like that short story were the girl cuts her hair to buy the guy a pocket watch chain. "Oh baby I was whoring for our trip to Yoorup hehehe." People don't fucking whore it up for LSD and Weed anyway. Thats some baby back bullshit.

You've already made your mind up, as far as advice for coping? You seem to be doing that just fine. It's all an illusion though, and you'll never be able to trust her again.