is it worth it to lose your V card to a slutty chick?

>>17846161

Having sex:
Best case - you have a nice sex
Worst case - disease and also you one day regret your loss of virginity to a slut

Not having sex:
Best case - you don't get disease
Worst case - Welcome to /r9k/

I mean, sure, do it if you really want to lose your virginity. Just be sure to know what you want from this interaction and you'll most likely get out of it.

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>>17846161

The older you get the more partners the women you get with will have had. I'm nearly 40 years old and half the women I date have been married, have kids, been in several relationships etc.,

I'm going to get in now before this thread turns into a /r9k/ shitshow but just remember, young one, there is a big difference between a woman who doesn't respect herself and participates in unsafe behavior and woman who has lived her life and not been afraid to take chances on a few men. The older you get the better you'll get at making this distinction and knowing the difference between those who have loved and lost and /r9k/ propaganda.

While you're young, being this picky is something that, while more difficult, is possible. The older you get, the less chance you'll have at nailing the perfect virgin waifu.

If you want to sleep with her, sleep with her, just understand the trade-off here. She's a loose girl and you're some loser virgin. Neither of you are squeaky clean in this situation.

>>17846196
desu I don't even care too much about being a virgin, it's just that the people who find out I'm a virgin think I'm some kind of abomination and this annoys me to no end. At least I'd get to say I'm not a virgin and people wouldn't shit talk me about it anymore

>>17846210
Don't do it, then. Sex without attraction/desire is pointless, you'd have a better night if you just jerked off. Losing your virginity really isn't a big deal, wait until you actually WANT to do it

>>17846161
If being a virgin is hurting your confidence then do it. You will need that confidence to get with better chicks. If you don't care at all then don't bother if you don't find her attractive.

>>17846221

>Sex without attraction/desire is pointless, you'd have a better night if you just jerked off.

kek. speak for yourself, kid.

>>17846210
Why the fuck do you tell people.

I'm a virgin but I guarantee you no one besides perhaps my parents would even guess, and even they keep insisting I'm boning a girl and hiding it. It's none of others business, if asked about it make a joke, give them a sly look or wink or whatever the fuck and move on.

Yes, lose V card, fall eventually for her, then have your heart broken, feel like shit for some time and finally recover and start dating like everyone else (optional: get a cynic point of view about relationships).

>>17846235
But he's right, sex when you don't really want to have sex is awkward and boring, you're generally thinking of other shit, both people will be unsatisfied afterwards and you'll feel kind of shit.

You legit would have a better night at home doing whatever you wanted than with some chick you don't want to be with.

If you always want to have sex whenever it's available, then good for you, but sex when you're not in the mood or not that interested in actually sleeping with the person is shit.