3-some advise/stories thread

Post pics so I have a better idea of what advice to give.

>>17845612
No i come here to maintain anonymity

>>17845605

First and foremost: do you know if her friend is up to it?

I have a few stories, I might potentially go into a triad relationship with a girl me and my gf of 8years fucked recently.

I'm on mobile so I'll chime in later, but I'd advise to let your gf do the whole ordeal of convincing the girl. Women are less "threatening" and less creepy suggesting it, and it will avoid any potential jealousy from your gf in case you did it.

>>17845626
Yes I just got confirmation yesterday that she was down. And my gf is realy enjoying the idea of another girl even if i dont like the idea of another guy. So its a pretty good sotuation ive found my self in I'm just a little overwhelmed.

I didnt do any of the talking my girl did and they've been close for 10+years.

I would like to hear your story and perspective.

>>17845626
>might potentially go into a triad relationship
My gf has been teasing me by saying that

Also perhaps the women that are all over /adv/ can chime in and tell us their perspective on 3-somes

>>17845654
That sounds a lot with what I have to my gf

I'll try to keep the story short, no greentext cus I'm still on mobile:

Gf had kissed other girls before we started, but never went further. Talked to her a lot during six years until we actually managed one. I let her do the talking for the reasons I stated. It worked out fairly well, besides some nervosism and awkwardness, very similar to losing virginity. We only had two other experiences after that, the second one sucked, and the third is the girl we might have joining our relationship next year.

It's hard to give straightforward advice because it varies a lot. I'd say try to take it slow and get minimally intimate before having sex, just as any other casual sex thing, it helps tons in avoiding awkwardness afterwards, specially since she'll be living with you. Lay down rules for the emerency button with your gf: how far you're willing to take it, if it would be ok for you and her to date the other girl alone, stuff like that. Be open to her limitations and have patience, her limits might stretch after the experience if it's good, so give her time. Only do that if you two are fully happy in your "solo" relationship, it helps avoiding a lot of insecurity, specially for the woman side. Always be very clear, but also sensible, to the other girl on how you'll handle the threesomes. Make sure she respects you as a couple and cares for your relationship.

There might me more to it but I really can't thing of everything, so ask if you want anything specific. Just keep in mind your situation is a bit different from mine, I had three threesomes, but I have no experience doing that to a girl that will be in touch daily, specially living under the same roof.

>>17845659

My gf was always against it. She always felt insecure despite me always reassuring her that I'd never trade her for any other girl. That really changed after our last time: she kinda got hooked to the girl, who's hot and a real sweetheart.

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