I'm a fairly healthy sized, slim bodied girl, with light curves and lightly muscled (I do marshal arts and swim semi regularly), but have a slightly less than flat stomach, which I hate and want to get rid off.
My boyfriend, on the other hand, wants me to gain weight as he likes voluptuous women.
It's a lose lose situation; If I lose weight, he'll find me less attractive, but if I gain weight I'll probably be unhealthy and will also not find myself attractive.
What do I do?
>>17843782
Find a new boyfriend. It's easier than getting fat and trying to lose that.
>>17843782
>marshal
Better work out your head instead of your body
>>17843784
Also this
>>17843782
Whats your height and weight? You really might just be anorexic
>>17843788
No, I'm 170 cm and 58 kg. Healthy weight.
>>17843782
It's your fucking body, turning into a whale just to satisfy somebody else is a pretty crazy idea unless you want to be fat yourself.
>>17843784
It's not that he finds me unattractive now; it's the thought of me trying to lose that final bit that he doesn't like. Plus, everything else in the relationship works well.
>>17843798
Thats on the low end for your height. Id say you're fine but you shouldn't try to keep losing weight.
>>17843787
Yeah, *martial, I know. I realised that the second after I'd posted.
>>17843782
I'm in a similar situation.
Dunno if your bf is like me, but I want my gf to gain until she's at the limit for healthy bmi (not going into overweight and way below obese). Then I want her to work out and build a lot of that up. Not to be muscles but to have that strongfat love woman look.
>>17843782
Health over boys. Don't gain weight.