Where do I go from here

Your looks don't really matter when it comes to getting girls obsessed with you. Basically all you have to do is be really in demand with women, and then more and more will try to join your harem. To get the ball rolling you need money, status, or a special talent of sorts.

Basically be in the top 20% of males to have a chance with women, and if you want women obsessed with you, be in like the top 5%-10%

>>17842472
Does it help that im 22 so my range is around a younger selection of girls. I feel like I might have a chance but I offer nothing to girls honestly to make them want to be obsessed and it they were obsessed because of money or whatever I dont want them near me. Like I want a genuine care for me, and something she cant get enough of but like I said I have nothing right now.

>>17842457
I feel like im comparing girls to my friend who is a very rare girl honestly. My expectations for other girls are going up and up and I started to compare her with them sometimes and its burning me up.

>>17842480
Younger girls tend to get crushes like that so look for 15-18 year old high schoolers or college freshmen depending on what doesn't count as pedo in your cuntry.

20 somethings don't get silly obsessed like that unless you are very handsome, rich, or famous, or they are still immature and romanticize relationships and people they don't know (simulteniously raising the bar, like you are doing right now)

>>17842596
So im outta luck. I wanna be that guy though that a girl wants to show off to her friends and family, but I will never get there, by the time I fix my looks I will probably miss my window to get what I want. I need a way to cope with it.

Be a person someone would go crazy for.

Looks or money are pretty insignificant for that and only can give initial attention. To actually keep it and increase the intensity, you need a great personality.

Also it's a shitty goal. If you try to be appealing, you will come off as some try hard, faggot. Focus on your life.