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Long Distance Intimacy 2016-12-10 11:04:23 Post No. 17842428
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I'm a guy, dating another guy. We've been trying to get intimate, but there are a few issues.
For one, we live across the country from one another. So intimacy is sort of limited to text or call.
Two, he's a very quiet, easily embarrassed person. It's hard to tell what he likes sometimes. I only have a few ideas of what he enjoys, namely dressing up/being treated like a girl, and being pinned down by his wrists. He gets too embarrassed to tell me how far he's willing to go, but I know he at least doesn't like pain.
Lastly, and most importantly, I'm not very confident when it comes to sex or anything. I'm not terribly creative, and the right words don't always come to me. It tends to make things a bit awkward.
Essentially, my problem boils down to this: What sort of things can I say to him, and how do I build up the confidence to say them? I want to give this guy the night of his life.
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>>17842428
>What do? What say? Yogo.
>You only gay once.
"Eyyyyy! Beby get on my diiiiick son." In mexican acapella.
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>>17842428
why are you even with him? can you say you really love someone enough to say you are 'dating' someone long distance if you can't figure this sort of thing out?
there isnt anything you can do to fix his confidence. even in person its a challenge. over the phone? impossible
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>>17842428
>tfw you ask for advice and people only judge you
dont listen who cant understand.
sorry i cant help you, straight female here. but i wish you luck... just take your time to figure things out, that's the best part
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>>17842476
I'm trying to fix my own lack of confidence. Not his.
His qualities aren't limited to "lacking confidence in sexual matters." While it doesn't make things much easier for me, I'm not going to dump him over something so petty.
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>>17842428
Time and plain conversation builds confidence. as >>17842519 said:
>just take your time to figure things out, that's the best part
Learn to treat him like you would a best friend you have irl.
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>>17842428
kys
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