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I think I have put too much effort on my relationship 2016-12-10 03:12:38 Post No. 17840200
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I think I have put too much effort on my relationship
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2016-12-10 03:12:38
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So my girlfriend is living with her parent and I live by myself. We have discussed about moving in together but she thinks it's not a good time to do so since we both are not financial stable. We agree to see each other once or twice/week but for me it is not enough and I want to see her more. It seems like she doesn't care about this problem and thinks Im dependent on her and she need time for herself. I would do anything to make she feels my love, but in turn I didn't receive much what I have given. Since her work is so stressful, our relationship has been really tiring and boring where everytime we met she doesn't want to do anything except for sleeping. I treasure the precious small amount of time we had together each week but she just thought it's a duty to meet me. I tried every way to cheer her up and it's still the same. For a few times I have been wondering if I have put too much effort on this relationship but haven't seen her efforts. What should I do??
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Been at her place in previous relationships. She doesn't love you anymore. Sorry. Get out now.
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You pulled when you should have pushed. Depending how much time has been vested this may be fixable. How long have you been going out for?
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For 7 months. We have talked about her careless attitude and she promise to fix it. But expectation leads to disappointment, everything is still the same. Maybe its who she is
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I already said it dude. I know how she feels. She's probably feeling guilty about it, it doesn't take away the fact that she doesn't love you. Someone in love won't look for a reason to skip a date, they'll find a reason to get one.
Confront her, ask her firmly: "Do you still love me? Am I annoying you?" Ask her before hand to be honest with you. Watch her reaction. If something feels wrong, she's lying.
Either, I'd advise to get out. I had the balls to get out of the relationship and stop making them believe it could be fixed. She may not have these balls or care for you.
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Will think about it. Thanks mate
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