I am envious of people in relationships. It makes me wonder how they even got it to happen.
I ponder all day about this shit. How could I as a male, get a woman to show any interest in me.
I feel like relations are just one big RNG shit fest. I like beg fate to smile on me just one time so I can meet a decent woman.
Like I am 26 and have not had a long term relationship or any relationship. It's a shit show.
It's gotten to the point where I want peoples relationships to fall apart and die.
Is that bad? Am I just salty?
>>17838636
I used to be like you in a way but once I got a relationship I was happy for a while and happy for others in relationships. After I broke up I realized relationships are not all what they are cracked up to be. The company is nice but the lack of freedom sucks. I don't mean freedom to see other girls. Depends on who you date though :)
>>17838636
Yup, there's your problem. It's a catch-22 - you ponder all the time why you don't get relationship -> girls shows interest -> itshappening.jpg intensifies -> inevitably get disappointed.
It is bad that you want all relationships to fail. It means you are losing your ability to empathize with others because you feel wronged.
If you get caught in the Internet echo chamber of "All women do [blank]", you're only going to distance yourself from what human beings are actually like and it sets you up for addictive and escapist tendencies, and inevitably exacerbating your problems.
Some people in this world die alone, never have love, etc. There's 7 billion people out there - inevitably that has happened. Think about what you want out of life in such way that you're okay even if everyone left you. Do you want to fix something in the world? Invent something? Thoughts like that.
Let's hear you out OP.
>>17838636
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Truth is an unhealthy relationship is worst than being alone. You get to do whatever you want, don't need to have a second person on your mind that you really don't want there.
Life is not a video game. You can take control of your love life by talking to people.
>>17838664
I keep using worst instead of worse, kms
>>17838636
the one long term relationship I had is only because I tried to forgive a bitch that was cheating on me from the start of the relationship.
other than that it's just been flings.