My girlfriend would vandalize
my car and arrange for me to be assaulted. I would have never thought she would do
something so violent. However, after evaluating her previous actions of violence,
aggressiveness, harassment, and considering her diagnosis of ADHD it is apparent
that she has a capped rationality. I have always thought her actions were justified,
simply because I had never had a serious girlfriend prior. Now, that I see what she is
capable of, if I do not report to her every request I risk the well-being of my car,
my family, and even myself.
I feel like I have just been killed. /adv/
>>17838588
Fucking leave her then. That shit ain't healthy at all. Bbbb..bbut I love her. Or maybe ypu don't qnd you're scared. Get a restraining order and stay as far away as possible from her. Fuck that. You can only tolerate so much and she cleary sounds unstable.
>>17838588
i have bipolar and adhd and i would never do that to a cheating bf. i would probanbly at most try to hurt their feelings but thats all. ur ex is a bitch and should be treated as a criminal.
I haven't found a way to get out of her life without risking my own life. I can't just ignore her, the consequences would be very harmful to me. As a side note, I have been dating her for 3 years now and have never cheated on her and always gave her my all.
>>17838635
>implying bipolars make rational decisions
>>17838677
feeling like there is no solution to my problem. Lets not turn this around on whether or not bipolar people make rational decisions. Being bipolar doesn't directly lead to a lack of rationalization, regardless of the many irrational people that are bipolar.
I just need advice that will help me in a situation where I am stuck without one that is in fact irrational.