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So about a week ago, I was smoking a blunt as I usually do when my dad leaves the house (I'm 19 and I still live with my dad, that's pretty pathetic, I know but I'm currently working so I can get my own place eventually). He came back to get something and he caught me. Of course he flipped shit and gave me a long rant. After that I felt really guilty and I'm surprised he hasn't kicked me out, so I genuinely apologized to him the next morning. He's still mad and I'd be fine with that, but here's where the problem comes in. I'm just now figuring out that he's probably been telling the family and even his friends. I guess that makes me mad because I tried to handle this in a civil manner between us two. It's not really anyone else's business. I want to say something to him about this but I don't want to sound dumb. Any suggestions as to what I can say? Should I even say anything about it? Do I have any right to be mad about it?
Also, I already know that smoking inside and shit was a dumb idea, I honestly don't need the ridicule please.
>>17835929
>Should I even say anything about it? Do I have any right to be mad about it?
Keep your mouth shut unless you want to risk him kicking you out. Having a place to stay is more important than your principals at this point.
Once you're self-sufficient feel free to clash with him as much as you want.
>>17835937
This people who don't own property shouldn't have free speech
>>17835937
Alright, I understand this.m but do I have a right to be mad?
>>17835929
it's over. eat the bs. Yes, you have a right to be mad... Whether or not you can tell your dad that depends on your relationship with him.
Maybe I'd say to him "Pops, I just wish you didn't air me out like that to the senpai." That's about it. But, it really depends on your relationship with him
>>17835929
Of course you have a right to be mad. But consider if you two need this conflict. Are you sure he's been telling other people? What would you hope the effect of you telling him you disagree with his actions would be?
You have the right to be mad, but don't risk being kicked out. I'm surprised you weren't already kicked out. Just suck it up and deal with it, then once you have a place feel free to complain.
How do you even know he told them?
>>17836222
Well yesterday he had friends downstairs with him and I heard him mention it. With that, I'd assume he doesn't care if he tells anyone for that matter.