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>>17832963
How people can be like this?
I want to have lots of friends, I want to know if somebody is interested in me.
I envy you. You have things that people like me don't. And you are ungrateful for that. If you want to be a basement dweller just do it now instead of hurting these people.

>>17832979
I understand your side of the argument, but it isn't that simple, for me at least. I grew up normally and I hate saying this on 4chan, yes I am ungrateful, yes I have things most here don't but it's just too predictable. I'm one of those leeches that gets tired of the same thing every fucking day, my friends barely notice me and are completely different from the people I grew up with. It's a difficult situation to explain and I shouldn't ask here but this is the only place I can go for answers.

>>17832979
Perhaps you're starved for attention, but you don't want the kind OP s getting.

When you have people who are hurting that hard attaching themselves to you at the hip, it puts a lot of responsibility in your hands. That's not good interest, not good attachment.

>>17832994
Maybe do something with the friends you have now. I don't know, going out maybe.

>>17832996
I understand that, but friendship is helping each other out. I have something you don't, you have something I don't have.

>>17833006
It depends, and we don't know a lot about OP's relationship with these people. I know I have a friend who is depressed and often thinks of suicide. But he's chosen his own support group, and I'm not a part of that. I'd like him to talk more about his feelings, but he'd rather use deprecating humor than open up and look weak to me. I've got to respect the way he wants to cope, and just be available if he needs me. It's complicated like that.

If I had a suicidal friend who loved me, it would make me very uncomfortable. I've put myself in a situation where I've put my needs and attraction aside to pursue somebody already, and it didn't end up great. I almost fucked myself over hard with somebody else, because I just want to say the things that will make them happy. Sometimes, those are committal things.

When somebody is both suicidal, and in love with you, that's a lot of pressure. And some people are not above leveraging their own lives for affection. Can you handle the stress and guilt of another human being putting their life in your hands?

>>17833039
I'm both suicidal and in love with someone. I know she knows, but she doesn't want to say it to me because she fears how I'll react.
It will be different to a lot of people, but I would not kill myself for that, I would think about it, but not actually do it.
I wish she would say it to me already.
If OP wants to tell his/her friends that s/he is not interested then do it.

>>17833061
Ah, I'm sorry to hear that you're in that situation.

>>17832963
Va te faire enculer salope

>>17833071
I'm listening to Creep and Wonderwall so I can cope with this. I hope she tells me already. I don't want to expose myself more than I've did.

>>17833094
You tried some Pinkerton?

>>17833103
Pinkerton is too sad and too close to home because I like asians just like Rivers, although the girl I love is not.

>>17833110
Across The Sea fits like a glove for what you've got going on, tho

>>17833039
I'll try to explain it
The first friends I have made were the light of my life, the best people I've ever met in all honesty. They've changed so much though and they're no longer the people I once knew.
Suicidal friend number 1 is in love with me but she isn't my type, I only became friends with her because I made a comment on her poster and it just went on from there.
Suicidal friend number 2 only became my friend because of the amount of bullying going on at the time and I was afraid he would hurt people.
I've only stuck around so that they wont be hurt anymore than they already are and if I leave them behind I don't know what will happen to them or weather or not they'll kill themselves, I want to leave for my own well being that's just how I am. That's a better description of the situation

>>17833136
With people like number 2, I've made the mistake of flip flopping between being supportive, then throwing them under the bus. For what it's worth, it's something I regret.

With 1, I don't know what to say.

>>17833121
Why Bother? fits better but Across the Sea too.