anyone here lost their virginity to a prostitute? I'm thinking

don't do it, you're gonna regret it
trust me, I'm a virgin

>>17826905
lol
I've done so much more things that are worse and I don't regret them much.

I did. Go for it. Nothing wrong with it and it can help you gain confidence to get girls in the future.

I did it. I think it was worth it. Dont expect it to be good or anything. Its more like a learning experience.

>>17826927
By this point I don't really expect anything physical to be good anymore

Depends largely on how you face sex. When I was 17 and a virgin, my uncle took me to a massage parlor, but it was kinda pushed upon me. He openly offered it and I knew he'd mock me if I didn't take it, so I did.

I won't say it was the worse sexual experience I ever had, but it's sure in the top three. There was spaghetti everywhere and my dick was as soft as spaghetti too. Not only I was completly awkward around women as a whole, I also tought of sex as something you do with something you really like and crap like that.

I won't say don't do it, but I'll say think of who you are and how you're likely to act with her. If you do go through it, make sure to tell her you're a virgin. Most hookers take v-cards on occasion and will try to make you comfortable.

>>17826940
I've had so many upsetting sexual encounters that I'm just tired of it. I'm even willing to buy viagra or something lol.

I've never done it myself.
But here is how I see it.

If you're unable to get laid or date a girl with your own means(no money involved) then you may put yourself in a position where you will end up paying whores your whole life.

Once you start having sex, you cannot stop, just like if you need to eat, you will hunger for pussies.

Also whores are made to pleasure you good, sp even if you do get a girlfriend or a wife you will get bored eventually because she can't satisfy you as good as a whore which is also a girl with who you have no pressure or compromise.

>>17826870

how old are you? <30, don't do it, >30, might consider it.

sorry if your fucking a pro than your using an condom and with that you might as well jerk off in a plastic bag..you are not a virgin untill your raw cock rub against some vag meat

>>17827244
You have to be 18 to post on this site.

Im not that interested in girls so I did it just to check Im not gay or something. Came back a few times just to get good enough so I dont embarrass myself if I get a gf.

>>17826870

if its something thats so unimportant that you can just pay someone to 'get it over with' than its not really something worth 'losing' at all.


virginity has social context. its about coming of age, finding someone who finds you attractive, proving yourself.

but an orgasm =/= virginity in the current social climate. its the reason you're still a virgin if you masturbate. its the reason you're still a virgin if you use a synthetic pussy. or even if you cum from oral sex, you'res till considered a virgin.

so sure, there is a technicality of youcumming in a human vagina. whats the point? are you going to tell people you lost it to a prostitute? and if not, why not just lie about losing it altogether?

if you want to have sex for the sake of having sex, yes, go get a prostitute. enjo it. have fun. but dont do it for losing your virginity, cuz it wont change you. you'll still be a virgin.

>>17827244

this guys also got a point on the psychological side. socially you may lose your virginity to a woman, and technically you may lose your virginity to a prostitute, but this guy hits it pretty hard on the head.

sex with a condom fulfills certain desires and needs if tis a must, but honestly a handjob feels better. if it wasn't for the fact that you get to play with the womans body, and enjo that element, sex with a condom would be pointless to most circumcised men.

>>17827255

this guy has either NEVER had sex wtih a condom on, or ONLY had sex wtih a condom on, and doesn't understand the difference it makes.

Didn't lose my virginity to a hooker but did lose it to a hookup and it's probably in my top 5 regrets of all time.

The sex wasn't even particularly awkward or embarrassing. I even got her off. But the whole reason I wanted to go through with the hookup was to "get it over with" like you say and also to get revenge on an ex who broke up with me earlier that summer. For the entirety of me and my ex's 1.5 year relationship we never had sex; long story in and of itself but irrelevant.

I wouldn't recommend losing your virginity just to meet societal sexpectations. Or out of revenge. Most people watch enough porn nowadays or are exposed to enough sexual content that they have a good idea of what to bring to the bed room. There's no practice necessary. You'll do fine and should save it for someone that means something to you.

>>17827281
I can't cum from oral sex, I've been with at least 4 women and 4 men but never penetrated or have been penetrated. I'm pretty well versed sexually except on the sex part lol. That's why I'm saying just to get it over with.

I did at 17.

After that I became more confident with women and by 21 I got game

>>17826953
I do. Cialis is better though. Lasts a lot longer and seems a bit more consistent to me. Better living through chemistry.

>>17827281
This. I just lie to people about it, I tell them I lost it at some end of high school trip where it's expected that most people from my country lose it anyway.

>>17827335
>Most people watch enough porn nowadays or are exposed to enough sexual content that they have a good idea of what to bring to the bed room.
This sounds comforting but I'm sure most people will tell you you are wrong about it. I trust you are right though.

STOP

Have you ever interested with a girl? Holding hands kissing or anything intimate

I'm a virgin and every time I get attached like a bastard.

It would be the most pathetic thing to have feelings for a prostitute man.

If you're ugly then find an ugly girl. If you're ok looking like me but are idiot at courting women then we just have to try more :(

>>17828133
You are not just an idiot at courting women, you sound like an idiot in general.

>>17826870
I did
do it
no one cares
I fucked many prostitutes since then
it's pretty fun
and they certainly do stuff a normal gf wouldn't
it's just one way to get experience

don't make yourself miss out on experiences before you eventually get into a serious relationship with a girl that might have a ton of experience with other guys penises (just to draw you a picture)

>>17828167
>they certainly do stuff a normal gf wouldn't
Like what

>>17828171
all kinds of ass related stuff (on you and them)
blowing and licking you
dildo stuff
other weird and kinky fetishes

don't make the mistake and take the stuff they do in porn for granted

>>17828174
Your gfs must be boring as fuck

>>17828181
was obvious that some retard posts a dumb as fuck reply like this one

no, my gfs are not boring as fuck

it's just a fact that the majority of normal girls won't do that stuff

whatever your special snowflake experience is is irrelevant

I did it, didnt matter much.

If you cant hold still without having had sex, do it, otherwise there is no real reason for doing it.

There are hookers that are cuddly and friendly as a "regular" women would be. They even make a point of advertising it as a feature in their ads. Just look for one of those

>>17828167
I think youve had too many "normal" gfs. Other then doing anything with poop there is nothing one of my bfs has asked that ive not done. Not just for him as i love sex and being kinky/adventurous.

>>17826870
Again OP.
There is no real problem in doing it.

But fucking a whore is not a one and done thing you will end up coming back for more.


See if it suits you or not.

>>17827928

again you are not getting anything 'over with'.

>>17826870
Had a few friends that did it at 16 and I reckon by the look on their faces they regretted it. Their stories seemed really shitty and awkward.
I'm still a virgin at 18. Don't really give a shit either to be fair. Il save it for that special someone in due course.

>>17828147
How'd you know