Not even sure if I'm asking the right question, but here goes nothing.
I have been receiving similar "criticism" about me from female friends, ex girlfriends even random women that they aren't interested in sex when it comes to me. They've said I'm still attractive, have a decent personality, fun to be around or whatever. Some claimed the reason they had sex with me was because they were in love, felt obligated or that I was available. Last time I was hanging out with one of my exs and she even iniated a kiss but refused sex. What does this all even mean?
For the most part generally women see men as hook up material, date able and not fuckable
You're the date able one
To be the fuckable one just workout and treat girls more non chalant
Get a tribal tattoo and a motorcycle.
>>17826766
I've seen way to many cases where that is not true at all.
>>17826780
Wrong decade.
>>17826798
It still works in South America
>>17826795
Then what do you think it is
I'm sure I'm right
>>17826815
Third world countries are usually a little behind on trends.
>>17826822
You very well could be, but I just find it odd that a lot of guys can do both and be both at the same time.
>>17826832
Well it's not that strict it's not of a spectrum
But op is like 80% date able type I'd say
>>17826750
Be more alpha.
Evolution still dictates that you need to be Able to hunt, beat the shit out of petrodactyls and keep other cave men out of your cave.
Times have changed yes, however; I find that these our the things 90 percent of woman still fall for when looking for a suitor/fucker.
So appreal more to their primal needs and wants
>>17826843
Was kind of hoping it wasn't going to be that simple if an answer, but the more I think about it, the more I feel you're right.
That's completly true, but it fits a broad spectrum of male stereotypes.
Women are into rich guys because money brings them protection in varied ways, for instance. Partying types are disputed because they're sometimes seen around females, and if other females want him, there must be something to him.
You don't have to be fit and a blackbelt necessarily to be successful, but you have to look like you're very sure of yourself.
>>17826750
Try reading The Art of Seduction by robert greene, you can find free pdfs on google pretty easily. Don't take it TOO seriously, it's not a bible, but it'll help you rethink your approach.