My girlfriend

>>17826722
>How could you let another person treat you like that and still go round just to please him?
Same reason guys stay friends with or agree to be FWB with girls who they want to date but don't want to date them: "it's better than nothing".

Also lack of self esteem and self respect.

Sounds like she values an orgasm more than her self-respect.

I wouldn't date her. I had problems with my ex of four years because she had one casual hook up before we met and she constantly tried justifying it when she heard someone say it's slutty to hook up with people.

Eventually her insecurity got to me and I had to tell her off.

You can always look past someone's flaws if you love them, but if it's a constant struggle I recommend you dump her and wait for a more compatible woman to come into your life.

Don't stick it in crazy OP

>>17826722
yeah its normal, when someone messes with your SO or humiliates them in part of their past you can't change, it haunts you for a long time in some ways.

You can either look past it and accept what happened, or not and break up with her. Did this all happen while she was in a relationship with you? it doesnt sound like it, but if so thats fucked.

if it was part of her past, i know a similar feeling. its disappointment in a person thats special to you. it fucking sucks, yeah, but again its up to you whether you are going to accept it and let it fade into the past, or decide that you really dont like what she did enough to stop seeing her.

>>17826722
>By the way, she says that when she was there she realised that she shouldn't be, and shouted at him and left. She intended to have sex before going though. I don't know how much of a difference this makes.
This makes all the difference OP. She came to her senses. That's what actually counts in life.