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I talked to my boyfriend and told him that I'd like for him to be my first in the somewhat-near future despite originally waiting for marriage, but we both thought it would be a good idea to wait until I can figure out how to orgasm normally, so that I can really enjoy losing my virginity.
What I mean by "normally" is not having to grind against my hand face-first in my bed through my underwear and not actually making skin contact.
It's somewhat important to him for me to orgasm because he's very much a "giver"; he enjoys making me feel good (and I imagine him seeing me orgasm because of him would be an ego booster), but because of this, I'm always the one getting him off. Not a complaint, just a fact.
I've tried a bullet vibe, but haven't had any success, and my clit is pretty much too sensitive to be touched like how it is in porn. It's possible that I'm one of the rare few who might get off from penetration alone, but I can't know that for sure. I've considered going to a sex therapist, but I feel that's a bit extreme (and expensive).
TLDR; should I wait an indefinite and try to figure out how to normally orgasm, or should we just take the plunge and have sex with the possibility of us not fully enjoying it?
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>>17821149
Wait until marriage. He's going to leave you soon afterwards for your flirty, slightly-hotter-than-you best friend.
You'll be devastated.
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>>17821157
Well, aren't you a bag of optimistic sunshine.
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>>17821174
Your future husband will feel less insecure knowing you're pure and haven't been plowed by teenage studs.
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>>17821197
>teenage studs
I'm 22, he's 23, and for the both of us, it's our first relationship. He's been with a couple of women in the past, but I don't care either way about that since his medical check-up came back as clean.
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>>17821157
>>17821197
Neither of these answer my question, anyways. I'm not asking if I should wait for marriage. I'm asking of I should put our plans on hold until I can figure out how to orgasm, or to just go ahead and fuck him and maybe not enjoy it as much.
Fucking hell, so much for advice.
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>>17821202
>>17821202
>go on top
>put him in you
>grind as you would your hand, but at the base of his penis
Thank me when you stop cumming
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>>17821236
Damn, why didn't I think of cowgirl position? Probably don't want to start out that way as a first-timer, but ending that way will definitely happen.
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>>17821202
>Giving your first sexual experience to a fuck boy who had sex with strangers before you
Cuck
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>>17821252
I think cowgirl has you standing while riding him. This might be unconfortable for a first timer, specially if your bf is well endowed.
It's just like missionary but with you on top, belly to belly. You can also close or open your legs depending on if you want to expose your clit more or have a tighter grip on his dick
You should lose that v card as soon as possible, no use holding on to that, and you'll only find what you like by relaxing, trying and feeling
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>>17821259
Not seeing the big deal if he's clean and doesn't have any weird fetishes.
>>17821261
We've both watched enough porn to figure out cowgirl, thankfully, but thanks anon. Also, he's pretty average, so hopefully that'll make things easier. Would grinding my hips in a circular motion help with stimulation, instead of just routine up-and-down?
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>>17821278
You'll have to find what works for yourself. For my gf we tend to put my dick as much in as we can, and she just grinds away as she sees fit. Sex doesn't have to be only dick going in and out without a break. Put it in as deep as you can. Move hip forward to pressure clit. Move backwards to pressure g spot. Everything else like rythm and other moves is up to you.
That's why I think you're wasting time trying to figure out without doing it. There's no recipe. Just go wild and do what brings you the most pleasure. Hell stick three fingers in your ass if you feel like it. If your bf is a giver as I am, he might cum just from seeing you getting off so wildly and enjoying yourself with him
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Try penetration or don some panties and have him (or you) rub one out before or after you get into penetrative stuff.
Since you're waiting until marriage for penetration, just fool around in your panties and/or do some oral.
You might be a little sensitive so it may just take a little extra work which doesn't really seem like much. Don't sweat it, you're fine. Maybe just a little foreplay or a little extra time after he gets off.
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