I'm having sex for the first time today

Have fun

Whether male or female, please take a bath and shave wherever you want your partner to put their mouth on.

>>17821031
fucking this
please do it

>>17821031

>please take a bath and shave wherever you want your partner to put their mouth

My body is covered in hair you fucker, you want me to shave my legs, chest, arms, head? Literally when I was a virgin the LAST thing I needed to be told by you was to shave my dick and balls, I'd itch like fuck and be covered in cuts and shit.

Yeah, being clean is important, and trimming hair is more of a courtesy. But don't get all Victorian on us.

>>17821017

Not OP but if I jack off an hr before hand will that help me last longer?

>>17821017
i got a question along these lines too
>>17821039

>>17821038
Dont overthink it retard. Do YOU like eating hair?

>>17821040
Not really, no.

Just bear this in mind, the goal of sex is to make each other feel good and have fun. You should try to get your partner off by whatever means necessary, not just pound away at her over and over until you both cum at the same time like in porn.

If you cum in 30 seconds, oh well. You switch to using your hands, tongue, toys, etc to make her cum too.

>>17821017

Awesome that you don't tell us your age, gender, body type, who it is you're having sex with, and what their relationship is to you.

Awesome that you tell us none of that but ask for help.

Okay, so I'm going to assume you're a 24-year-old gay, male basketball player, and you're having casual sex with your male friend/more-than-friend? whio's 30 and a bear.

Anon: Height ain't nothing but a number, followed by another number. Don't let you height difference intimidate you! It just means your friend won't have to kneel to blow you.

Do take a shower, and for God's sake, wear a condom.

reporting

>be me
>be 18
>girl comes over, going to lose my virginity
>it begins
>we start kissing
>I'm hard
>blowjob
>continue making out as I go down on her
>lick it, whatever, we both knew I was terrible at it
>look at dick
>it's flaccid
>I'm not horny at all
>she asks if I need more blowjob
>I agree
>it doesn't go hard no matter what
>as she giving me head I'm staring into the distance and thinking something among the lines of "This is boring and not hot at all, I wish I was on 4chan right now"
>I tell her to stop
>It's enough for today
>She asks whether we try again later (in 15 minutes or whatever) or if she needs to leave
>ask her to leave
>I also say "Well, shit happens"

And the thing is, I don't feel bad or embarrased (well, just slightly) at all.
Was it nervousness or did I fuck myself up by watching/reading hardcore fetish porn?

Please do laugh