My boyfriend is into BDSM and asked me if I would like to be

Honestly it's your call on how you wanna act out scenarios, but maybe talk with him on what kinds of things he would like you to do? Like if he wants to get cuffed and swatted 10 times, vary it up and cuff him, tease him a bit, then adjust your whipping accordingly.

As cheesy as it sounds, porn could be your friend for ideas. There are plenty of cringey and extreme scenes out there, but weed through them and see if any tickle your fancy. Ask your boyfriend to watch with you if you want, and gauge his responses to certain things.

Good luck.

>>17816528
Thank you very much. Watching porn could be a solution. I might give that a try.

>>17816521

Basically this: >>17816528

I am not big into pain or humiliation, but one of the things that my boyfriend and I enjoy more when I take the charge in the bedroom is teasing.
We both really like when I tie him up and then spend a lot of time turning him on till he begs me to make him come.
Another thing I like is giving him the permission to come. It's such a small things but it turns him on so much.

>>17816541
Sounds very interesting. I haven't thought about the teasing part that much but it seems to have lots of potential. Easy and reliable. Thanks!

>>17816521
Google "BDSM for beginners" and find several sites offering advice and suggestions.

Wrong way to do it.
1.set the scenario
2.know how far you can go
3.safe word

A little secret, the sub leads the dom follows.

>>17816573
Makes totally sense, thank you!