Need some relationship /adv/ice
>in great relationship with for just over 5 years
>not without its problems, but still great
>have been crushing on girlfriend's bff for a little over a year now
>still in love, would not leave her for bff
>gf does not know of crush
>gf definitely open to threesome with bff
>actual dream to be in a loving relationship with both of them
>gf might be open to the idea
They both have qualities that the other doesn't, so in my eyes both of them combined make the perfect partner. I know its a long shot but it was those two witches that put the idea in my head in the first place.
I've had this crush for over a year and it fucking sucks. I want to tell the bff just to either fulfill that hope or crush it entirely and move on.
Or should I confess to my girlfriend first? I need to get this shit off my chest
What do /adv/?
Obv confess to gf first you dumb fuck. Do you even truly love her or are you so immature you feel like you want it all?
>>17815222
bamp.
>>17815222
LOL keep that to yaself. if the BFF wanted ya she would have made a move on you by now. every guy dreams of banging the BFF but in reality its just fanatsy of porn films
>>17815269
Ive banged multiple of my exes best friends
It makes you feel terrible when you're hanging out together after but it's pretty hot
How old are you? Actually even that's a bad question. You may be 25+ but have the maturity age of a 16 y/o.
Ooooo banging the gf's BFF. Wow 3somes. Omg. You probably think girls have pillow fights in their panties during sleepovers too right?
I agree wth most people in this thread. Grow the fuck up and tell your gf you're a piece of shit and yo find someone better. You aren't in love with her if you want someone else you dumb faggot.
>>17815304
wew, you can love someone and still be attracted to other people though.
>>17815304
He's probably one of those guys that strings the relationship on just for sex then when he realises he actually loves her and she realises shes too good for him, she breaks up with him and he spirals into depression/ or a low self confidence complex
>>17815313
Attracted sure but not so much as to have a year long "crush". I sense some growing up to do
>>17815222
nice trips, as much as you think they are into it, they aren't. You're probably young so you should still try but you need to be aware that 1) your relationship with your current girl will end. 2) she might want the same with one of your friends and 3) threesomes are not as fun as you think they are, even though you can low key use the story to make people feel low key jealous.