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Strange things going on... 2016-12-01 15:39:11 Post No. 17813252
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Strange things going on... Anonymous 2016-12-01 15:39:11 Post No. 17813252 [Report]

I'm 28M and we've been married for 3.5 years (dating for more than 7 years).

For the last 6 months my wife started talk about FFM 3 times. I was not sure was it a test, so I told something neutral (in fact I'd like to try, but I doubt she might not be ready for that). I'm not sure if my wife is bi-curious, so it also might be a problem.

How to start talking about that again and avoid problems, if it was just a check?

PS. I read a lot of stories how people ruined their relationship after 3some. It's definetely not what I want and I want be as careful as possible.

Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:10:02 Post No.17813334
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Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:10:02 Post No.17813334 [Report]

Keep the bedroom for you and ur wife if she's so intent on spicing things up try toys adding another person to the mix is bad news someone always catches feelings and that's not good for anyone

Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:14:57 Post No.17813350
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Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:14:57 Post No.17813350 [Report]

>>17813334
What if the wife is the one with feelings towards another woman, could the problems you say are not good for anyone be avoided somehow?

Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:22:40 Post No.17813363
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Anonymous 2016-12-01 16:22:40 Post No.17813363 [Report]

>>17813334
Sure, I understand that. We already have toys, but that's another story. Want I want to have is a clarification: does she really want a 3some or just talking?

Anonymous 2016-12-01 17:07:42 Post No.17813464
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Anonymous 2016-12-01 17:07:42 Post No.17813464 [Report]

>>17813350

Can't be avoided. you are deluding yourself into thinking a female x female relationship is somehow not the same as your male x female one.

Would you be okay with her leaving you for another man? Could you somehow devise a way to force her to unlove another man she has fallen in love with? No. Very simple human reactions.

So if she falls in love with another women you will not have a magical solution that works because they are women. If they fall in love, you are out of the situation. If that is an acceptable risk, then do you.

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