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How is sex supposed to be? 2016-12-01 03:24:40 Post No. 17812152
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I am female and I have a question about sex?
I have only had one sexual partner, my current bf of a little over a year.(inb4 underaged, I'm 24) I have vaginismus so it almost always hurts when we have sex. It has gotten a little better over the year.
I'm confused because I told me SO how sex is very stressful mentally and physically for me. My SO says that sex is supposed to be relaxing.
I don't see how sex can be relaxing. In fact despite my condition, he has still been able to make me cum despite the pain. Having an orgasm feels pretty good so it makes me not mind the pain so much, but I definitely don't enjoy the pain either and sometimes I cry because of it.
(Btw, boyfriend is super supportive and never tries to push sex when I don't want it. I'm usually the one who initiates sex)
The thing is, if I relax my whole body my level of pleasure goes down and I feel further from orgasm. Tightening my muscles including my pelvic floor(the ones in the vagina opening), tightening my abdomen and lifting my pelvis into the air all seem to help me get closer to cumming. Now, doing all this is also very physically stressful and I am very mentally engaged. My boyfriend says that this is probably why I feel pain and that I need to "let go".... All this confuses me a lot.
I guess I want other people's help figuring out how I can be having better, less stressful sex... and can other women please share how they achieve orgasm? I want to know if I'm doing it right.
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Also stressful to me is trying to focus on the sex and not the pain... but a lot of times during sex I don't know what I'm supposed to think at all and this makes having an orgasm take a lot longer.
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Demon Pegasus of the (ID: !!Vn7TA+zgCY3)
2016-12-01 03:29:03
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>>17812152
Don't be cucks comrades
Resist the female menace
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Well of course it's gonna be relaxing to him. Just fucking think about it biologically, women were not meant to enjoy sex the same way as them (if at all.)
There are very few nerve endings in the vagina, they're all mostly in the clit tucked nice and away from everything getting any action. We have to stretch a hole out to accommodate, of course that's not going to feel real great even if we are capable of doing it.
Women just got the shit end of the stick biologically when it comes to sex. We harbor all the physical responsibility and burden. Just the shit roll of the dice getting the second X so we gotta deal with it.
You know how I achieve orgasm? Clitoral stim with no penetration whatsoever. Not all women are even capable of vaginal orgasm, and hell, most say it's difficult to achieve at best. Sex for you is foreplay, sex for him is sticking his dick in you. Sad truth, but sex is not usually as cooperative for most couples as everyone wants to romanticize it to be, it's usually "you get off then I get off". It's give and take, so stop trying to force yourself into liking penetration if you don't, because you never will, and have him go to town on the bean till you cum, then suck it up and do what you gotta for him to cum.
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>>17812200
KYS cuck
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>>17812208
Reminder for everyone to filter this obvious and shit troll lol. Jesus at least be funny.
Anyway, filtering your faggy tripp now. bye
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>>17812228
KYS
KEK
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>>17812200
Ok... well I'm willing to acknowledge the reality of what sex is but I'm not looking to form a negative view of it...
I want sex to work. I actually like being penetrated I just don't like the pain from it which is mostly felt on the outside of my vagina... I'm not trying to force myself to like it.
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Demon Pegasus of the (ID: !!Vn7TA+zgCY3)
2016-12-01 04:21:57
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>>17812276
Get penetrated by a buzzsaw
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Good thing I asked /adv/
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>>17812321
Don't come back
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>>17812152
The painful condition is the likely source of stress. Take care of it and sex will be more enjoyable.
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