How do I stop my attraction towards somebody who's blatantly not interested in me
>>17811967
Realise they're a cunt
Think of their lack of interest in you as a turn off and move on. :)
>>17811967
You don't.
You just learn to live with it.
The combo that works for me is time and finding somebody else to crush over.
>>17811967
The age old question anon. Wish i could help but same problem here
Even if she is perfect i cant get past this
By going for the next girl you're interested in.
How do you know she isn't interested in you?
>>17811967
Distance.
Who /bi or gay but crush on straight best friend/ here?
>>17811967
You move on with your life by either doing something else or pursuing someone new
>>17811967
I find it easier to masturbate to them a lot
I'm not kidding.
Whenever I was head over heels for a girl that either wasn't interested or it didn't work out, I would just masturbate to them regularly but just sexually demonize them.
If you think of them as objects to degrade sexually and nothing else, it makes it easier to disconnect any feelings towards them.
Granted, I still respect them when I run into them in real life, but it helps me personally when it comes to suppressing any feelings for them.
It's fucked up, it's horrible, but it helped me get over them, so it worked.
>>17812661
"straight" "friend" here, the guy I had a crush on seemed to lose all interest after I started flirting back. Shame too, he's the one who made me comfortable with being a faggot.
>>17812723
Same thing here, just no flirting on his part (can't say I really knowingly did either. )
Life is suffering.