My gf was a kissless virgin before we got together, she's 25 years old. Now I'm kind of her Senpai when it comes to sex, she doesn't know what to do at all and while she is into it, it's a real slow grind to get her to do stuff.
For example, she started touching my dick only after about the 5th time we had sex, and I've been pretty clear about it the times before (take her hand, put it there).
Now I've had sex with about 15 girls, was in a few relationships, and have lots of non vanilla stuff and want to continue to do that.
I'm not sure I can wait long enough for her to get accustomed to everything if it keeps going at this rate. Can I get her to open up quicker without being a dick about it?
>>17811719
Sounds like a pretty deep relationship there, OP.
Lucky girl.
>>17811719
Any advice? Should I sit her down and explain to her all the stuff I want her to do? Should I be even more suggestive during sex? (I want her to do stuff, not let me do stuff, not interested in a doll)
Should I make her watch some porn with me? I can sometimes be really dumb about these issues so opinions pls!
>hurry up and act like a whore already!
Lol oh man, I don't think there's hope for you. But you should do some self reflecting.
>>17811848
Virgin detected
>>17811854
No, he's right.
OP is acting as if every woman he comes in contact with should worship sex. Not everyone is so desperate to behave like a degenerate, OP. Most people are happy just seeing someone walk through the door.
>>17811848
this. Selfish prick. You have gold and you're trying to make tp out of it
>>17811848
this
worry more about getting her into it, she'll act by instinct later
>>17811894
Bingo.
>>17811896
How is a virgin gold? She doesn't know anything, not even her own body or what she wants? She can't possibly make an educated decision on anything related to intimacy, and if you think intimacy is not important, you're a virgin.
>>17811929
Wahahaahahhahahaha fuck that! Smoke pot and fuck her! Love it! A+ fucking thread guys!
>>17811929
You need to chill the fuck out, the best thing you can do is make sex fun, make foreplay fun. The best way to get someone to do something is to make them think it was their idea.
If you can't make it fun, sex is going to seem like a chore and she isn't going to want to do anything with you.
>>17811929
>honey I want you to gargle my sperm
>intimacy
Just accept that you watched too much porn and damaged your reward pathway. It's a chemical thing. Don't be mad that you need to have your gf deep threat your cock and vomit on your balls or you can't get off.
>>17811938
Disregard this, just start drilling! Drill it like it's going out of business!!
>>17811929
sounds way better then a girl who took 10 miles of cocks in her youth. op you should try driving 10 miles and think of all the cocks stacked up to 10 miles.
>>17811938
Only constructive post so far, so thank you.
>>17811944
It's not that I've had too much porn, but that I've had incredible sex, and right now it's bad because I am not getting turned on by an amateur who doesn't know wtf they're doing with their own or my body.
It's like going from pro team coach to school sports teacher.
>>17811719
i think you're making too much of a big deal about it op
intimacy IS important, but it's not (or shouldn't be) the basis of your relationship
you need to be patient nigger
you can't expect her to make the sheets crawl up into your asshole by sucking your dick
be comprehensive god damn
So you're saying I should be cool being sexually unsatisfied in a relationship? Are you really this dumb?
>>17812099
We're saying the problem is you, not her.
Why not break up with her if it bothers you that much, you seem ignorant enough to make it reasanable for yourself
wow porn makes you retarded, doesn't it?