Place to vent?

Here

>>17807705

Wanna keep your peers from knowing you're having a crisis. Nice.

(seriously though... hope you haven't hit your credit limit)

>>17807735
very well

I'm a college senior in her final year, I dance (yes that kind) but no one knows in my peer group. I tried to quit and the lack of attention made me seek it out in more destructive self harming ways. Now I am leading a double life and am too financial weak to break free.

>>17807743
Anything else

>>17807785
I have no idea how to cope except letting it build

>>17807790
If you really have friends, they'll listen to you talk about your issues,
They shouldn't expect you to be impervious to stress, maybe that'll even help relate
Talk to one of them

journal.
write in a journal.

you can vent to losers on 4chan, just go on /soc/ and post your skype in a skype thread. Someone out there has to be willing to listen.

>>17807743
What exact kind of dance are you talking about?

I understand this.
Same situation happened to me a couple of years ago both with friends and family.
With the friends I dropped most of them given they would get abusive if I tried to have an opinion differing from the group think.
With the family I've gone from visiting multiple times a year to 1 visit per year.

Some people just aren't worth the hassle OP.

>>17807867
erotic kind, mostly private gigs, i don't ride a pole

>>17807981
Is it literally just dancing/light touching only, or do some 'clients' get anything out of it?

Ever since my friends dragged me out to a strip club a few years ago I've always wondered guys even go to these things. It's worse than porn and 10x worse than actually having a girl. You blue ball yourself. Hell if i was a girl I'd think it would be a perfect gig

>>17808122
Private dances can occur and most times, it's just a thong on grind or i remove my clothes and you stay clothed, of course guys want more but thats subjective to the girl

>>17808194

Fuck that. I'd rather see an escort.

>>17808214
solid idea but some dancers are cheaper