Should I use a surrogate?

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Should I use a surrogate? 2016-11-29 10:49:32 Post No. 17807047
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Should I use a surrogate? Anonymous 2016-11-29 10:49:32 Post No. 17807047 [Report]

My fiance and I have been together for a while now, we're thinking about getting married late next year.
She's great, I lover her, theres just one slight problem. We both want kids, of that we're sure. However she is Asian (Chinese) and I am white.
to be honest I'm not exactly excited about raising a halfie, they seem to be discriminated against, have identity issues and such.
So, one alternative I've thought about is to use a white surrogate mother. I wouldn't want to adopt since the child wouldn't really be mine then.

So how do I break the ice about us using a surrogate mother? anyone have any similar experiences?

Anonymous 2016-11-29 10:51:25 Post No.17807048
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>>17807047
Gr8 b8 m8.

Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:03:44 Post No.17807188
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Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:03:44 Post No.17807188 [Report]

Hey it's this thread again

Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:25:01 Post No.17807217
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Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:25:01 Post No.17807217 [Report]

>>17807188
If theres a similar thread, i'd like to see it.
i'm genuinely looking for advice.

Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:49:42 Post No.17807248
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Anonymous 2016-11-29 13:49:42 Post No.17807248 [Report]

If you're gonna have a halfie, white & asian is the combination you wanna have IMO. You don't know how to approach her about a surrogate. The question of how to go about it wouldn't have come up if this were something you knew she could be okay with. Just keep that in mind.

Anonymous 2016-11-29 14:24:28 Post No.17807301
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Anonymous 2016-11-29 14:24:28 Post No.17807301 [Report]

>>17807217
My advice to you is to grow the fuck up and raise your child with the woman you love, without this racist bullshit.

Anonymous 2016-11-29 14:38:24 Post No.17807322
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Anonymous 2016-11-29 14:38:24 Post No.17807322 [Report]

>>17807047
>My fiance and I have been together for a while now, we're thinking about getting married late next year.
>thinking about getting married

Don't.

Now with that out of the way, you shouldn't get a surrogate because she'll never be able to attack to it and you'll have issues there. I know you don't want Elliot Rodger as a son, but if it's not her child, she won't bond.

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