So my girlfriend asked me today to have sex with her for the first time. This was my first time in general, and I just felt so nervous about the whole thing, that I could barely keep it up, leading to nothing really happening from that. She says she wants to try again tomorrow, but I don't want the same thing to happen. Any ideas on how I can fix this before tomorrow?
>>17804253
nope but keep trying, you are not the first couple to fuck, you got the right parts and nature will win
>>17804253
Sounds like you had a pretty common first time. Sitting around worrying about it will make it worse. You need to relax my man. Do whatever it is that relaxes you and just have sex. Don't put any pressure on yourself to perform or anything. Worst case scenario you can't keep it up again just finger her or eat her out and see if you can get her off that way. That way atleast one of your has a good time. Maybe take a hot shower together first and do a lot of foreplay. Just try your best to be in the moment and not think. If it keeps happening over and over you can get some viagra or cialis and it will work good trust me, I took one once and it worked too good.
>>17804253
Maybe have a drink or two, it will either work or make it worse to get it up, use your good judgement.
>>17805357
If you're going to drink, make sure you know whether drink makes it easier or worse to pop a boner. I find personally drink makes me worse. I get really bad whiskey dick
>>17804253
Relax. Cuddle, kiss, speak, go slowly.
Don't think about being "good", it's really an emotional thing, nothing in common with porn.
As other have point out, a small drink might help relaxing (like 100ml vodka for instance, but not more).
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>>17805392
Thanks for the tips, I'll try some of these and if it happens again I suppose I'll try viagra or something.
A couple shots of vodka to take the edge off.