Gf is telling me to be 100% open with emotions but everytime a girl has let me do this I've become an emotional baby and they lose interest in me. What do
Don't do it, it's a shit test.
It will only hurt you in the long run. Be honest and communicate with her, but do not say things that would be better left unsaid.
>>17800455
Yeah, don't be open emotionally. You can be open with your experiences and concerns and desires, that build intimacy. But don't look weak.
Find better people.
>>17800455
she wants to virtue signal and feel like shes a compassionate person
but don't fall for it. she'll find you unattractive and the relationship will soon end.
just the way it is famalam
How much baggage do you have? If you consistently scare away girlfriends by sharing your feelings with them, you might have some mad issues.
Maybe talk to a councilor/therapist about the shit that sends your loved ones running, and talk to your girlfriend about some simpler stuff.
>>17800462
This. And dont be gay.
>>17800455
You probably confuse "being open with emotions" with "bitching about little shit all the time".
>>17800455
Dont fall for it
You're a man not some fish