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don't care about sex, what wrong wit me? 2016-11-27 02:54:25 Post No. 17800192
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Female, nearly 20, kissless virgin, bisexual, never had a gf/bf. Bearing those things in mind, I'm feeling an ever-growing pressure to go out partying and sleeping around. But I've never really had the desire to.
The entire world around me seems to be obsessed with sex and I'm just not. Being at university as well feels like a constant reminder of how inadequate I am in my social life. It's like everyone I know has grown up and I'm not even properly developed. Like I'm still 10 years old.
As I said, I have been attracted to both men and women in the past (pretty sure that makes me bi, and not asexual), but it is quite infrequently. My sex-drive is just very low. The thought of actually having sex isn't that appealing to me. I've never been a very sexual person. I don't watch porn because it's just so unappealing to me. I rarely masturbate and I don't even find it that fulfilling. I do have depression (and had it all throughout puberty. yes, I plan to see a shrink).
So is my libido barely-existant because I'm depressed? Or vice versa? OR is there something else wrong with me that I should go and get fixed and start being a normal person?
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Have you ever actually been sexually attracted to someone? As in you actually want to have sex with them? Or are you attracted like finding them aesthetically appealing and/or considering getting into a relationship with them, without any sexual aspect?
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>>17800200
Well that's the thing. I have been sexually turned on by a person's appearance, but that's sort of as far as it goes. It's like I prefer to admire them from a distance.
As for relationships, the only time I've felt really close emotional connection to a good friend of mine (a straight girl).
Maybe I just don't like people...
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>>17800192
Don't fall for the fucking randos meme.
Don't believe what you hear about people's crazy sex lives and how fulfilling it is.
Find one (1) you like and stick with them.
Wanting to fuck around before you have someone to be with is putting the cart before the horse.
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>>17800231
I do agree with you, but it's difficult when everyone around me is 'living a life' and I'm sittin here all lonely.
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>>17800229
It honestly sounds like you are asexual. Asexuality isn't never having sex or never wanting it, it's more about never being sexually attracted to people.
It's more common than you think. Look into dealing with your depression and make sure it isn't a side effect of that, because it's good to treat your depression anyways. And if it isn't, and you are asexual, so what? I can name four confirmed asexual friends of the top of my head, and I'm sure there are more. They're more common than you realize.
And if you still want to get into a relationship, you can try an asexual dating site. Two of my previously mentioned friends have done so.
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This one of two things.
Either OP is suffering from a form of
1) Depression
or
2) She is fat.
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>>17800236
Honestly senpai.
Drop out, go home to your family and focus on your health and self esteem.
You remind me of me when I was in school; girls would talk to me and I would just be a dispassionate ghost because I was too busy chewing myself to bits over nothing.
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>>17800261
Nah just depression. Used to be kinda chubby but anorexia got rid of that. I'm still recovering but am now not fat so yay.
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>>17800273
Yeah, people have flirted with me and asked me out before but I seem to push everyone away.
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