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Online dating meet up 2016-11-26 06:52:29 Post No. 17797830
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Online dating meet up Helpless 2016-11-26 06:52:29 Post No. 17797830 [Report]

Met up with this girl for dinner and drinks. Good conversation and dancing. The bar closed early and so we went to a second bar. That was followed by even more dancing and good conversation. That bar closed early so we went to a third bar.

We continued to hang out. Bar closed at 2 and I didn't feel safe letting her drive home. On the way home she started getting handsy.

Get in her driveway. Intense making out. Told me several times how sexy I was. Had a little action over the clothes.

After that I walked her to the door. We kissed some more and she said "I just want you to love me." I knew it was the booze talking so I wasn't too freaked out. Laughed it off and said let's slow down a bit.

Next day she texts asking where her car was. I told her. Later that day I asked how her Thanksgiving was. She said it was good but she "didn't remember a THING after the 3rd bar."

I waited a little then called. No answer. Waited about an hour and texted "You were a little tipsy so I drove you home. On your way inside you kinda professed your love to me. Regardless, I had a really great time. I wanna see you again."

No response.

What should I do? I wanna see her again.

Anonymous 2016-11-26 06:57:56 Post No.17797838
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Anonymous 2016-11-26 06:57:56 Post No.17797838 [Report]

>>17797830
you stop sperging out and wait and if nothing happens then there is literally nothing you can do. This has happened to me before kind of. I went out with a woman and we walked a bit had fun, had lunch, then went to the lake and chilled, walked again then made out. Afterwards I called and texted and never got a response. I could tell she could tell I was inexperienced though and was turned off by that. It's just a stupid date anon. There will be others. You'll find that special someone don't worry. Right now you just have to chill the fuck out and not worry so much over this silly broad.

Anonymous 2016-11-26 06:59:29 Post No.17797840
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Anonymous 2016-11-26 06:59:29 Post No.17797840 [Report]

>>17797830
should have went for it when you had the chance

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>texted "You were a little tipsy so I drove you home. On your way inside you kinda professed your love to me. Regardless, I had a really great time. I wanna see you again."

way too much dude, you put her on the spot with the love shit and she probably doesnt even remember anything she said

Helpless 2016-11-26 07:04:00 Post No.17797847
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Helpless 2016-11-26 07:04:00 Post No.17797847 [Report]

>>17797840
So that's it? I'm fucked? What would you say to reinitiate contact?

Helpless 2016-11-26 07:06:40 Post No.17797851
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Helpless 2016-11-26 07:06:40 Post No.17797851 [Report]

>>17797838
Let's say you wanna give it one final shot. Would you text or call, his long would you wait, and what would you say?

Anonymous 2016-11-26 07:08:44 Post No.17797853
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Anonymous 2016-11-26 07:08:44 Post No.17797853 [Report]

>>17797847
at that point i would mentally move on and wait for her to text back, wouldnt push it any further

Helpless 2016-11-26 07:11:20 Post No.17797857
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Helpless 2016-11-26 07:11:20 Post No.17797857 [Report]

>>17797853
She asked what happened so I told her. I want trying to embarrass her. If I had been that freaked out I wouldn't be here adding for advice.