Why doesn't my gf love me anymore

Ask her sincerely if you guys should break up and simply be friends again?

>>17796298
But we are both into each other still. That's not the problem.

Earlier I did try to talk to her about the relationship and what she wanted since we haven't done too much together and she just said she's not good with keeping up with people and that she'd be down to do whatever I wanted to do. She also said she wanted us to do more hand holding and kissing so that's a good sign. Didn't get much out of that but we did kiss so that was nice

We go to this bigass midwestern state school so we never really see each other 'around' despite living pretty close

Also I didn't mean to exaggerate (title was a joke) it's not that she ignores me it's just that we haven't gotten closer since dating and maybe even slightly drifted apart which makes me sad

She seems down in general so is it reasonable to think it's due to depression? I had been depressed before and I would kinda feel like shutting out people due to feeling unworthy. Might be the same for her.

If that's the case what can I do?

This happens, anon. It's something you can definitely ride out, especially since it's no one's actual fault.

When you have time, hang out with her 1 on 1 a little more. Do something fun she wouldn't expect (even just a new ice cream place) and don't hyperfocus on how close the two of you feel.

>>17796593
yeah guess that's all I can do

only issue is she's seemed so down recently that I feel like I'm gonna be bothering her. That's my main concern really (the rest was just me ranting I really should've shortened it lol)

do depressed people even want to do anything? should I just leave her alone? guess I'm just frustrated since I was too excited and it didn't meet my expectations lol

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>>17796272

>Why doesn't my gf love me anymore

>wat do

Ask your girlfriend about her feelings in your relationship instead of asking a bunch of strangers on the internet, you idiot.

>>17796645
Well, a lot of depressed people appreciate the reason to have to leave the house. If she's not feeling up to it, she'll tell you.

Also, I'm sure she'd be happy to know that you won't leave her just for getting down.

>>17796675
good to know

maybe I was overreacting I just didn't want to be bothering her and all

If you feel like something's wrong, there's probably something wrong. But it might not be as bad as you think.

You two sound like you're 16-18, if that's true then It's pretty young and she's probably inexperienced and thinks everything's fine when in fact it isn't.