My grandma is dying

First of all, my condolences, even if she hasn't died just yet. If you know that it will be hard on you to see that, then you should stay away. Remember her as you knew her before the stroke.

As a caretaker, PLEASE don't let her die alone. Time passes slower when you're alone. Stay at her side, remember that it's for her. Not for you.

>>17795605
If you were close, then I'd suggest giving it a second thought, because once shes gone you can't bring her back to apologize.
If there has been a fair bit of distance, then you can step back a bit and breathe.

In either case, if you really don't think you have the emotional strength to handle it, then accept that you did say goodbye and she knows you love her.

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yeah go, especially for your family who is there and probably hurting

>>17795605

If you have to ask yourself to do it, then you probably shouldn't.

>>17795614

There must be more people there. I hope so...

I went through something like this with a family member. You should do it because you will regret not being there. Also to be completely honest its hard to be there and its going to stay with you for a while....but you should.