I really dont know what to talk with a chick. Please help me
The best way to talk to a girl, or make small talk with anyone, is to ask them about themselves. What their line of work is, or what they're studying in school, what they like to do in their free time etc. and then go off whatever they say. That's how you make small talk.
>>17795515
Depends on whether you mean any chick or a specific chick.
When getting to know a girl it's good to bring up a variety of topics and try to find common ground. Find out what they're into and what their hobbies are and express your own views on those things.
If it's a girl you already know a bit, then talk about things she finds interesting, ask about things she's mentioned in the past, bring up things you think she might find interesting based on the things she's spoken about, etc.
There's no formual that works everytime and with every girl. Just start with small talk and build up once you know which direction is best to take. Talk about things you find interesting, because if she doesn't find those things interesting at all, then it's probably not meant to be. Some common interests are good to have. It's not so much about what you talk about, rather than how. With some people (yes, even girls) it's easy to "click" and if that doesn't happen, then you'll just waste your time trying to force a conversation.
>>17795522
Firstly, thank you. I do those things but at some point, i cant find anything to talk about. I know she likes me, and I like her. I'm usally good with people but when it comes to someone I like my brain suddenly doesnt work.
>>17795529
Thank you, She founds me interesting and I find her interesting but I cant find anything to tell her, I'm such a mess.
>>17795522
This seems transparent and I doubt this would work for you if you went out and tried it as an opener.
You don't talk to a 'chick', you talk to a specific person.
I have the same problem... My crush usually initiates conversations but I'm shit at it...