Ok /adv/ Would you be okay with your girl sleeping over at her

>>17791694
jesus christ. Tell her no and break up with her if she persists.

>>17791694
Ask her why she's so insistent on it. If you don't have a really solid level of communication and she's being sneaky and evasive about it that's cause for alarm. How much do you two trust each other? Considering you made a post about this on 4chan, I'd say I already know the answer.

>>17791694
On one hand Ive been that guy friend so I can tell you something from experience. If you make her choose between you and him, you are going to lose. And shes going to run to him for comfort. In my experience she did this before breaking up.
You gotta remember the amount of time invested. Theres her only friend who shes known and had for years, Then theres you who shes had for some months. If you two break up she will be left with nothing but sorrow from not having friends. Hell since you guys never see each other I hate to tell you this but you arent enough to remove her need for human friendship. You gotta basically live together for that to happen.

You're probably being cucked. Do what the other anons are saying and clarify the situation quickly. You can't let it consume you.

>she gets lonely
tell that bitch to make some FEMALE friends, at the bare minimum male friends WHO AREN'T HER EX
you're a cuck btw

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>>17791829
you should try sucking a dick since we see that you like wearing the rainbow

>>17791694
>Would you be okay with your girl sleeping over at her ex's house?

To preface this:


I am NOT the jealous type. I also don't think sex means too much in and of itself. I've best FWB's with my best friend (who is female--and we went back to totally platonic friends shortly after no problem), been friends with my GF's old flames, and I'm ok with ex's staying friends....

but sleeping over at their house... combined with
> she gets lonely.

We talk IMMEDIATELY, and if I'm not 100% satisfied, I'm out.

Because this situation tells me:
1.) She probably DOES NOT have the maturity to be *just* friends with an ex
2.) Her loneliness is a form of desperation that will probably make her do something she otherwise wouldn't
3.) I'm in my late 20's and I'm probably getting too old to knowingly step in bear traps like that.

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>>17791694
>Would you be okay with your girl sleeping over at her ex's house?
lol

>>17791694
no that is not okay or even letting her be friends with a person she use to have an intimate and sexual relationship with. holy shit this whole degeneration of men are pussy whipped cucks. you might as well let her take showers with him, let them cuddle and have sex.

ive been in the same spot as your gf's ex

We would fuck every time she came over and would complain how he didn't fuck her right but is with him because he buys her stuff

So ya I wouldnt

My mate just left his gf for talking to her ex, she even went out with him. Im glad my mate forgot her ass since now she said she's been with her almost evryday and they prolly back together.
Anyways i said to my gf that if she ever goes to see her ex im gonna drop her ass on spot so there's that

UPDATE
OP here, just had a long fight with her about it. I told her I wasn't ok with them staying the night together but I'm fine with them just hanging out for the day. She explained that since he's so far away (about a 2 hour drive) and she doesn't have a car it's not really possible to just hang out for the day.
I agree with that and I want to be ok with it but it still bothers me none the less.
I tried compromising by suggesting she keep her phone on in a call with me so I can listen in every once and a while if I wanted to. I didn't really think it was a good idea and told her it was ok if she was uncomfortable with it because that's a lot to ask of someone but she just got even more pissed at me for not trusting her and things kinda spiraled from there.
We said things we can't really take back, but I don't think we'll break up.
I'm really serious about her and she claims to be really serious about me.
At the end of the fight she told me she told him she wasn't coming over but that she didn't do it for me.
It's been a long night but I'm not sure what else to make of this.
I still don't know what to do if something like this happens again and I want to think of a better way to handle these topics and my insecurities on them.
If anyone has anything to say I'm all ears.
I'll also answer any questions if it'll help.
Thanks for the input guys. I really appreciate it.

>>17791694
>Would you be okay with your girl sleeping over at her ex's house?
Would you like to raise her son?

>>17792332
>I didn't really think it was a good idea and told her it was ok if she was uncomfortable with it because that's a lot to ask of someone.
You told them it was ok to be uncomfortable. Kek

>>17792332
she wanted to drive 2 hours to see her ex and sleep over and argued with you to do it? Seriously are you retarded? He is her bf not you, you are just a guy that bitches at her and she doesn't respect.

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>>17792332
>I tried compromising by suggesting she keep her phone on in a call with me so I can listen in every once and a while if I wanted to.

am i being trolled or ppl are this stupid

Read carefully op:

You are not her bf

wait... she goes 2 hours out of her way to visit an ex but can't make time to spend every free moment she has with you? sum ting wong hurr

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>>17791694
pray for opie guise

I'd say that's a big red flag. But, then again. I'm boning my ex right now.