How do I know when it's ok to touch a girl?
Particularly when is it acceptable to touch a girls thigh.
This is a very conservative girl and I dont want to scare her off but I also want that physical contact such as holding hands or resting my arm around her.
>General advice welcome even if it's not directly an answer.
>>17782525
For thighs just keep causally brushing your hand against their leg, until you just like rest your hand on her knee. Then just slowly work your way up her leg
Grab em by the pussy OP
Maybe you'll even be president one day
>>17782548
>>17782565
I've thought of just going for it, but really I was hoping for some signs to look for.
Signs that would give me the go ahead to touch her.
>>17782592
I mean joking aside, try touching her shoulder first playfully, arm around her, that kind of thing don't just go straight for her thigh..
My name is Shia Labeouf
JUST DO IT!!!!!!
Make the move she'll love it
>>17782607
Smart stuff, makes sense to eas her into it.
>>17782618
Maybe this conservative girl is really a sexual deviant, she probably really wants it.
>>17782592
when she touches you first!! or just touches you a little bit (her leg against yours ect) you can go in for the other stuff
>>17782525
in case it isn't obvious to you, you don't just start touching a girl for no reason.
generally in my experience it starts with kissing. a lot of kissing. hands just go everywhere when you make out. on her hips, her back, her thigh, etc.
you pay attention to different areas for a long enough time so you're not just going from one spot to another just to see how far you can go.
spend some time in the leg area and if she pulls away and stops making out, you know that she probs doesn't want that right now. it not that hard anon.
Op don't just go for it, ive been there
>Go out to restaurant with family
>while we are eating I see a really cute girl, without saying a word I get up and sit next to her, my parents know what's up and just smile
>Sit down, start giving her cute talk
>She's laughing and giggling
>We sit together just talking and stuff
>Eventually move in for the kill
>Start touching her leg
>She's laughing, red as a tomato but obviously wants it
>Fuck it
>Put hand in her pants
>She cries out
>Oh fuck
>Parents run over and say what the fuck
>Dad asks wtf anon and picks her up from her booster seat
>Not allowed to be alone with sister after that
I have awful luck
>>17782702
Holding hands? That's a good start. Look into her eyes and compliment her while kissing her fingers.
>>17782740
This is really good
Some chick's really dig when you do stuff like this. She might start blushing uncontrollably if she is a super conservative girl.
Experimenting. You know those shitty porn games we're you have to rub the girl but can't go straight to the lewd parts? It's almost like that.
Be casual, grab her hand like if you're curious, release it if things start getting weird and maybe try it again later.
Start small. Work on the outside of the body and work your way in.
Thighs and especially inner thighs are extremely intimate areas, do not just go for it. As you progress note how she is reacting. If she is into it keep going, if not slow down. If she does anything to stop you (physically or verbally) STOP and talk to her
Sounds like the common consensus is to start small and work my way up.
Sounds like a plan.
>>17782525
Body language / nonverbal communication question
What the hell does standing like this mean? Is it just being cute, or is this some kind of "closed off" statement?
I was talking to a girl who started standing like this. She seemed interested, but in order for me to completely over analyze it, I need some others opinions.
>>17783450
Thing about body language is, that you can't conclude anything by looking isolated clues. You need to look for patterns.
>>17783464
Goddamnit, you're right. She was laughing at my jokes, and seemed to be listening and responding to my stories (agreeing alot), so I was looking for any other indicators and thats the only one I remembered. There was another guy there, but I seemed to have her attention.
Thanks /adv/anon.
>>17783476
Yes, exactly! - So if that's the case then you're doing well OP!
Best of luck!
>>17783450
Probably just trying to be cute if she was laughing at your jokes and listening to you
>>17782525
Holding hands
Arm around waist or shoulder
Goodnight kiss
Snuggling
Serious kissing
Sexual touching
- That's pretty much the normal order, and if you want to be conservative and safe, wait until each step has been allowed twice before moving on to the next.