The classic situation
>want love and affection: a human desire
>not financially and/or psychologically prepared
>start a difficult relationship
>it fails
>start a difficult relationship
>it fails
>start a difficult relationship
>et cetera
Is there any escape from this hell, or should I embrace it? I am a male, in case anyone was going to misogyny-post.
what do
>>17778799
What do you mean by difficult relationship?
>not financially and/or psychologically prepared
Wtf u answered ur own question bitch
>>17778815
like what happens when you don't have a good amount of money and/or psychological wellness
>>17778818
wtf r u huffing gasoline
>>17778799
You can be finansically and psychologically prepare and still fail a relationship.
>>17778822
I'm so confused wtf is ops question
Is he the one un financially prepared
If he is then get money b4 a girl
If it's the girl
Why u dating crazy broke hos wtf
>>17778832
Yeah but oftentimes it is a psychological thing that might seem minor, like low agreeableness or trust, and then people say, "Oh it just wasn't meant to be," or, "Yeah, I meant to leave her, she was sometimes a bitch," but they're really just explaining it away.
>>17778833
Well getting mentally and financially prepared to have a "true love" kind of serious relationship is hard. It can take many years, and what do you to for those years?
Some people can have casual or whatever, but the romantic love/sex aspects are not completely separable, and some people are too emotional to cut it off at "fuckbuddy" or whatever.
>>17778845
Oh I only have flings until then
>>17778845
You will always find fault, no one is perfect.
>>17778858
>I only have flings until then
just casual things without love? how does that work out? I'm interested in what you mean exactly.
My flings always become relationships and then fail. We always end up becoming very close and liking each other a lot. Then there's some bad conflict that ends it because one or both of us was not ready.
>>17778861
yeah but I'm assessing myself as not psychologically or financially ready
>>17778872
My parents got together at 15 and it was fucked so I told myself I'll wait till 30
I also had 3 early relationships that ended really terribly and saw no point in turning casual into romantic anymore unless I thought she was the one
So until then I have feelings but I know that I won't be marrying them so they aren't as strong
>>17778881
so you think lowering expectations makes the feelings less intense?
I definitely don't expect to get married to anyone, but I do entertain that possibility, especially if the other person seems to be in love or whatever
you're saying it would make it easier if I decided myself not to go far with the person?