ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Females:

Would you go on a date with someone who doesn't do anything but shitpost, play video games, jerk off to furry porn, and follow current events/politics?

Ladies,

What can a guy do for you to enjoy riding more, or make generally being on top better?

>>17777701
Lol probably not. Like get some more hobbies man. Jerking off doesnt count.

>>17777718
Why is this board obsessed with the hobbies meme when all women do is browse facebook and watch netflix when they arent working?

Girls

How is your reaction/mood if notice that a guy is checking you out (cleavage/ass etc)?

>>17777717
Not expecting her to do all the work is a start.

>>17777728
Lol idk same thing as this boards obsession with generalizations i guess.
>>17777733
Pride. Nice to know im attractive.
Well, as long as theyre being tactful about it i guess. If youre like hard staring at my chest and droolin im probably gonna be getting out of there asap lol.
But sneaking a casual glace that says "hmm, pretty damn good" , boosts my self esteem.

>>17777733
depends on the guy obviously
some ugly guy does that to me, it would be repulsive.

>>17777733
Depends on the setting, my mood, if he's my type, ...
Generally I don't mind people finding me attractive or complimenting me, but I don't like to be approached based on my looks alone and being expected to want to go out with someone I don't know.

>>17777739
I love it

>>17777744
Does he have to be really ugly for you to be disgusted or does that include avarage guys also?

there's this group of female acquantainces who have suddenly shown me a puzzling amount of attention, basically constantly running into me when i'm out, using any excuse to start a convo, and often making (platonic) physical contact and then acting like it didn't happen, and even though i'm pretty sure it's some sick sort of grill humor, it's been going on for a couple of weeks now and its put a strain on my actual relationship, and i want it to stop

TL;DR group of girls i barely know are suddenly extremely flirty but it's probably just an elaborate ruse, how should i face up to them without being a dickbag about it

girls
would you date a guy who says and genuinely believes he fell in love with you, but he fucked three girls you know including your sister/best friend.

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>>17777728
I'd like to know this too.

When dating girls I have to be fun and I like to think I am.
But girls get possessive really fast. And the question that comes up we never do fun things together. And I just don't know how to respond. Most things at lest the girls I've dated do is the female equivalent of video games. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, occasional clubbing. And what do they need me for this? I sure as hell don't find it fun and its bland and mediocre at best.

Once the college chitchat and gossip and flirting stops these relationships tend to fall apart for me and I just have to move on. I can Just sit at a couch and watch a girl put on makeup and scroll through a newsfeed for hours at a time so she feels we're having fun together.

>>17777739
>Missionary? I guess I'll pretend to be a corpse
>Cowgirl? YOU'D BETTER HELP ME!

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>>17777733

>>17777786
Doggy.
>My back doesn't bend liek that.
Reverse cowgirl
>Your hips are too wide
Side spooning
>NO you have to go lower see theres like 9mm of bed left till you fall off
Legs up
>It hurts
Standing up
>You're too tall
On the table
>No' we're gonna fall
He holding her up in the air against the wall
>AAAA I'm going to fall down

Just get used to it. Girls are genetically perfected to complain about sex. The best thing I found is to think about yourself first and than after you cum fall asleep so she cant nag you.

>>17777765
His sexual past isnt that concerning to me, provided hes done with those girls and is committed to me.
However it would probably be very hard to constantly remember "oh yeah, my sister knows this dick too"
Not impossible to get over, but kinda weird. Best friend idgaf about, but my sister is weird. Still though, depends how close they are i guess. I dont think im close enough to my sis to laugh something like that off, and would probs rather just ignore it happened and not talk about it.
Though my sister is also a lesbian so its hard to put myself in those shoes hypothetically anyway lol.

>>17777782
Have you considered dating people you actually have something in common with? I mean thats just universal. I dont wanna date a dude who just jacks off to furry porn all day because, well, we have nothing in common.
There are girls with hobbies outside instagram and clubbing the same way there are dudes with hobbies outside jacking off.

This is just relationship 101, you dont first find the chick you wanna fuck and then find out her interests, its the opposite. You find chicks you have similar interests with first, and the decide if youd fuck em. Theres no point in "dating" someone you just think has a hot bod. Just pump and dump em and be done with it. You date someone you have common interests and ideals with.

P.s, unrelated but wonder who got the get lol.

>>17777786
Tell her to not be a corpse then. It all comes down to talking. I know that doesn't work with every partner and that sucks ...

Depending on how cowgirl is performed, she has to move her entire torso up and down which can be so exhausting that she can't enjoy it. Try giving her a break and do a little work after a minute, so she can catch her breath. Also touch her clit if vaginal stimulation doesn't do it for her.

>>17777701
Personally, no - not enough things in common, would get bored after a few weeks.

>>17777824

But to do that you need to actually talk to people instead of building them up in your head while looking from afar...

>>17777733
Depends. If he is rude about it, staring for a while or making comments, I would get a bit pissed. If he takes a quick look, I don't care or am happy that he finds me attractive.

>>17777843
Kek oh right, im on 4 chan lol.

>>17777701
If we had great chemistry for talking/flirting then I wouldn't immediately abandon ship over this. But if not, then it would be an instant dealbreaker.

>>17777717
Disagree with the other comment, don't try to top from the bottom while she's trying to establish a rhythm.
You can;
>make natural noise
>do stuff to her she enjoys - pulling her hair (at the roots), smacking her ass, fondling her boobs, whatever her personal preference is you focus on most
>if she's shy about riding, make sure to stress that you do love the position, like telling her how sexy she looks on top of you, encouraging her to make a show for you by touching her own boobs or holding her hair up etc, showing your involvement and enjoyment

>>17777733
If he's staring and not looking at me as a person, it's a bit bothersome but no more than someone throwing you a foul look for no reason or a stranger laughing at your clothes. Just an everyday inconvenience.
If he's normal about it (glancing/looking, not staring, and also looking me in the face) I find it flattering, and sexy depending on who it is and how he goes about it.

>>17777717
It's quite enjoyable for me, if I didn't try it before it's because I was self conscious
If your partner is self conscious you can suggest her to keep her bra on for example

So after some pic swapping and bio making hotter women started to like me on tinder.

I still have no idea how to "talk without talking", im really good at the IRL thing but i 100% hate chat,
Lets say you are a female who gets 20-30 or so matches per week, how should the average guy start the convo? when is enough talkng? should i have objetives like get her number and then see what happens?

>how to tinder courtship when you are "not hot"

>date girl for 3 months
>this week she was on her period and I guess overwhelmed with emotions and told me that she loves me
>came out of nowhere
>I just held her but didn't say it back

Now she's done a complete 180 and is barely talking to me.

Are we on our way out?

>>17778003
Why dont you go court hot women irl

>>17778006
Likely. I think she was very hurt that you don't feel the same way (yet). The least you could've done was stress that you not being there yet doesn't mean you don't care for her or think love is not in the cards with her.

You can try to revisit it now but the damage could already be done. See what you can salvage.

>>17778012
The thing is that I did reassure her that I care about her a lot and I see a future with her and I have very very serious feelings about her.

Before that day we talked about it before and she knows it takes me a while to trust someone that much to say it and the one time I /did/ say it to someone, it turned out the had a far different definition of loyalty and infidelity than me.

If this means anything she's 23 and I'm 25.

>>17777804
>However it would probably be very hard to constantly remember "oh yeah, my sister knows this dick too"
ah I knew this was a mistake. My situation seems bleak because they are twins. Don't think they will trust me again.

women
when you break up with your dude how long did it take you to find another man?
my ex ended up getting herself another dude 9 weeks after breaking up. and we were together for two years.

>>17778003
This is what works with me, I don't know how "average" my experience is.

As an opening, keep things simple and try to make me laugh.
Write well, with proper punctuation and grammar. I know it's silly, but it makes you sound smarter and it makes me perceive you as confident and more manly.
I generally try to talk through text for 5-6 days and then maybe on the phone a couple of times before meeting up, but that's because I am kind of shy and paranoid.
Keep it flirty, but do not exaggerate and get lewd. Remember that flirting goes both ways so if she doesn't reciprocate, stop or tone things down.
Wit and banter are really sexy.

I don't know if it's helpful.

>>17778028
Depends.
Sometimes it took me a month to get over it, once it took me a year and a perfect new guy to even consider dating again.

If the break up "felt right", I get over it easily. If it makes sense to me that we stopped seeing each other, I don't suffer *too* much.

Girls, would you rather date a 5'9" guy with a good face a body or a 6'0" guy with a mediocre face and body?

I asked this the last one but didn't get an answer:

We met on Tinder, we went on only one date. We had sex and she said to me "I love you". I didn't give a fuck in the moment and we never saw each other again. Why did she do that?

>>17778050
Maybe she's one of those people who say that to everyone.

>>17778045
Whoever of them who isn't an annoying fuck

>>17778063
She immediately said sorry after that

>>17778079
sorry lol

>>17778037
Thanks for your effort and reply, and i understand what you say, i always write (in my native language) following all the grammar rules and i do it simple.

the problem is this:

In the sense that im a very boring person for chat and i can tell, the lul so ramdum or woah so spontaneous thing just doesn't come easy, written words are not my thing.
Then there are those fucking unwritten rules about chatting, it's not even a conversation when the other party take minutes to reply and feels like you are all anxious and shit because you replied 4:59 minutes instead of 5, on top of that i feel that if i was "hotter" i could just get with "eyy bby u wan sum fuck" and it really pisses me off, like im some sort of clown and i have to make them laugh and really. really think ahead like im doing some 3D chess.

Like they don't follow the convo and its supposed to be an app to meet people and maybe fuck them and maybe end up with a partner, and it feels like, again, if i was hotter, they would actually try to have a decent conversation going on and this whole fact supports the misogynist-stereotypes- ideas implanted in me by research, memes and /r9k/.

>>17777688
Guys:

What do you think of confident but ugly (i feel awful saying this word) females? Similarly to confident girls:

How do you build it up? I'm trying my best but every time I see forums where people hate ugly girls with confidence it just destroys my fragile self esteem and makes me really fearful, knowing that I can't change anything. Opinions appreciated.

>>17778119
I've never met a confident girl so you're probably an upgrade

Beautiful bodies and faces can be torn off in a car accident or other random occurrence

>>17778050
Probably thinking about an ex or imagining an emotional connection with you to hype herself up more for the sex, make it feel more passionate in her head.

It's also possible that she simply fucked up and meant to say "I love this" or a variation.

>>17778110
If you're not very good over text, try to ask them out and try to set a date before the end of your first conversation.

About the rest of your post.
Online dating is definitely harder for guys than it is for girls, you're right. Girls get really overwhelmed by texts and it is even hard to follow a conversation or talk decently. You're 100% right about this.
I met my boyfriend online and I thank God that we both are insomniac and I texted him back at 2 AM and we chatted till morning. In the morning we went for a coffee and we had a nice day together, and have been dating since.
But probably I wouldn't have noticed him if he texted me, I don't know, at 9 PM when I am stormed with texts.

On the other hand there is no reason to be anxious. It's not the end of the world if a girl doesn't like you. Try to get to know them and enjoy yourself, if it doesn't work out, whatever.

And, yes, if you were more attractive you wouldn't need to be as interesting. But it is normal, it is the same for girls.
I was chubby when I was a teenager and I didn't get any attention from guys. The only way someone gave half a shit about me was when we got close as friends and they noticed I was a cool person to be around - I needed to have a great personality to make up for those 30 extra lbs. Hot girls could be psychotic, boring, vain bitches and even cheat on them, but it was okay because they were hot. I had to work super hard to even get a guy to text me back. It sucks, but it happens.
Now I lost the weight and I can be psycho too, yay me.

>>17778119
Almost every single girl I've met is confident and kindhearted, pretty or not. So I think they are ok.

Would you say yes to a date if I asked you out on Facebook?
I saw this girl in my village and added on fb. She lives 2km from my house.
Never talked to the girl only went there for Easter. Or it will be a better idea to ask her out in person?

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>>17778143
I don't think you know what confident is, you're falling for the mask they wear in public

>>17778151
lol sure

>>17778119
Alright clusterfucks incoming.
I know it's hard, but the less time you spend on places where people are shallow and blurt out whatever bullshit goes on in their head (social media, romantic movies, internet forums such as this) the better. They are places where other people air their bravado and own insecurities. The people who are happiest and most content with their lives are not the people who feel the need to spread negativity about random strangers online. Internet is a weird echo chamber where people have no more value than whether or not they can post hot selfies and witty comments. This has barely anything at all to do with real life, where people appreciate each other for tons of reasons. The more time you spend around your family, your friends, with colleagues or fellow volunteers, with classmates etc... the more you get direct feedback on what people think of who you are and how you carry yourself. You are selling yourself short by focusing too much on this shallow weird bubble of internet world where only a fraction of the admirable and engaging qualities that people can have counts.

Many of the things that are attractive about you, interesting and appealing, will be things that you personally cannot see when you evaluate yourself. Surrounding yourself with good, constructive people can help you compensate for an insecure focus on yourself and come to terms with the person that other people experience you as instead.

And for the record, men love confident girls. If they tell you they don't, it's because they picture overly assertive, loud-mouthed girls. No man doesn't like a girlfriend who doesn't pick apart everything they say trying to find proof that he doesn't care for her as much as she cares for him. No man doesn't want a girlfriend who enjoys showing off her body during sex as opposed to fighting him to keep her bra on. Insecurity is a negative and draining focus on yourself that gets in the way of connecting with someone else.

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>>17778157
Sounds like the most critical thoughts in your life have been "What should I make my Facebook status today"

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Girls

when you're getting to know a guy, how do you feel about texting the person through the whole day?

Do you like to text for a few hours and stop?

>>17778179
I don't mind texting all day, I tend to do it if I am getting to know someone I like, but in general I slow down as the day goes by because I am busy and it might take me 15-20 minutes to get back at you.
Me and my boyfriend text back and forth in the morning and before bed, but talk to each other all day in general, just slowly.

>>17778179

When I got together with my bf, I texted him maybe 1-4 times a week to let him know I'd like to meet somewhere. Texting is incredibly dull, especially with someone I'd much prefer to see in person.

>>17778166
The starting point of growing more confident is by beginning to acknowledge that the things you have so far defined yourself with don't do you justice and don't convey everything you are, let alone everything you could be in your lifetime.

Beauty is more than looks. Beauty is in a proud, straight, healthy posture. Beauty is in sparkling, bright eyes. Beauty is in a graceful way of moving and in wearing the things that highlight your qualities.
Attractiveness is more than beauty. It is in your smell and your voice, it is in what you remind another person of, it's in how often/easily you smile, how happy and at ease with yourself you look.
And sexiness is more than attractiveness, it's about how much you like sex, how easy it comes to you to slip into that side of yourself, it is in the spunky way you look at someone and the fiery way you touch them.

And after all of this - you as a human being are so much more than how appealing you are to someone else on a sexual/romantic level. Confidence isn't primarily believing that you are attractive, it's believing that you deserve better than to be judged by your attractiveness alone. It is a weird paradox, but by thoroughly, 100% believing that if no one found you appealing you would still have things to offer to people that you become most appealing. Because this takes the pressure off your appearance, this is the real thing that brings you relief.

This is a conviction that comes easier with aging. Confidence isn't a black and white thing where you either have it completely down or you don't have it at all. Many people are confident about parts of themselves and insecure about others. The trick is to allow yourself to be strengthened by your strong points while you take the time to nurture and build up your weak spots. Confidence is also allowing yourself to be imperfect, allowing yourself to have nagging doubt... and coming back from that.

>>17778170
Nah if we're talking today alone it's about how equations of motion is basically a convex minimization problem with respect to the total energy as its Lagrangian. Its convex conjugate turns out to be the Hamiltonian which leads to a dual formulation of every equation of classical physics.
I just don't like to argue with retards.

>>17778166
>when she picks apart everything I say to find proof of her own insecurities, of which she is hellbent on festering in

Fucking christ, woman. This is a relationship, not a court case.

>>17778198
As for the appearance part itself, here's a concrete tip. I feel like my posts are all over the place but I hope you get something from them, if only inspiration.

>accept your "genre" and only compare yourself to yourself
You're never going to please everyone. You don't need to please everyone. So if you're a thick girl, there is zero point in looking at ballet dancer type girls and thinking they're more feminine. If you're a petite girl there is no point in looking at curvy girls and thinking they're more feminine. Just as an example. You're in your own category and you will never shine as bright trying to imitate a wholly different kind of woman than you will working with what YOU have, playing into your own personal appeal.

In a similar vein, you are a package deal. It is easy to compare yourself to other girls in terms of looks and feeling like your boyfriend would love a girl with your personality/attitude and the looks of that girl over there. But no such girl exists. You are the only one with your unique set of qualities and experiences and way of carrying yourself, and if someone falls hard for that then they can't get it from anyone else, not in exactly that manner. You cannot isolate one aspect of yourself that someone else "does better" at, and forgetting about the other 90% that you are and have to offer - you are using a completely false kind of logic to tear yourself down doing that.

Any questions welcome.

I've disappointed a person and i'm extremely sorry. What do?

>>17778257
Apologize and maybe do something they like to show them that you care

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how do i trick a girl into hugging me

Why do girls like making their boyfriends jealous "just to see if they care"?

>>17777688
What are the pros for white men? all i've heard so far are people saying "white men are all boring introverts with small dicks."

>>17778315
Whites are most universally accepted as attractive, both men and women. There are no stronger negative stereotypes about white men than being clumsy/lacking charm. Eg the "small dicks" thing belongs more with Asians as a stereotype.

>>17778293
>trick
dropped

>>17778312
Self-destructive paranoia and self-sabotage

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>>17778323
why

>satan

>>17778119

Maybe it's the language barrier (english isn't my native language) but with that question you don't seem confident at all to me.

The world is full of beautiful or at least average girls who think they're ugly and say it constantly. It can get tiresome pretty fast. Are you really that ugly?

Why do girls obsess more so than males over celebrities?

>>17778407
Because girls want to mate with someone who has high social status.

>>17777688
>>17777688
Women:

How soon after starting talking to talk to a girl should you ask them on a date? I just asked a girl on a date but I feel like I left it too late (I got rejected ofc). Thanks.

>>17778312
Because they are immature, and instead of talking about their issues and insecurities they play stupid mind games.
It all comes down to the inability of expressing emotions properly. Guys get violent for the same reason.

>>17778407
It is a sort of hobby I think.
A lot of friends of mine, especially when we were younger, became obsessive with celebrities and gossip as a way to spend their time.
Same way guys like watching sports.

>>17778321
I have a hard time believing that desu

>>17778424
It is true tho.
I can think of at least 50 attractive white guys (celebrities and such), and couldn't name 5 attractive black or asian men.
In general it is not exactly negative to be white, they're the ones who have an easier time in dating and in general in life.

Girls

Although I'm pretty sure a girl could ask this to a guy. In body language, what do you consider to be obvious signs that you're attracted to someone?

I've been with four different girls and all of them were astounded that I didn't catch their "obvious signals" faster, and even more astounded when I told them I saw no sign and just gambled my chances. The fourth and current one doesn't do that and actually asks for what she wants, so she doesn't count. When I bring up this subject with my female friends they just get defensive and say something like "it's hard for us to know what you want too!".

>>17778293
is this the new brandon?

Dudes,

How can I tell my boyfriend Im not entirely satisfied sexually while sparing his feelings as much as possible? There are circumstances that would make it really difficult for us to remedy the situation if I do tell him, so should I just wait until we are able to actually address this to tell him or should I go ahead and tell him now? What would you want me to do if you were my bf?

>>17778570
It depends on how you're not satisfied. Do you not get to enough? Does he finish too fast? Boring positions?

>>17778570

If he can't change it, then it would be kinda cruel. I mean, you don't have to take it, you are free to go, but if it's not intentional then don't hurt him.

What's the problem? Can you say?

>>17778578
>>17778581
The problem is he doesnt take the time to get me aroused, or doesnt want to do things the way I want to, and when we try to do that it seems like its more of a chore, its mechanical and theres no desire or passion that I can sense. Obviously, this means he goes in dry almost everytime, which is painful. Sex for us is prety much when he has boner, we just go straight into it. Its stupid sounding but thats how it is. He doesnt seem to even WANT to just fool around or engage in foreplay which I think is worse.
A few examples would be: 1) When we are tounge kissing and I start to get really into it I stop using my tounge. He stops me asking me to keep using my tounge, so I then have to focus on using my tonge enough for him. Im not even into tounge kissing that much, but I do it because I know he likes it but when I try to kiss him the way I like to thats what happens, he stops me. Weve never even had a formal makeout session, we just tounge kiss for a minute and thats it.
2) He never touches me sensually. He never fondles my breasts, and only sometimes my ass like when hes pulling it into his face.
3) Whenever we try foreplay it just seems to be more of a chore for him. I remember the last time we tried he was sucking my nipples. Did it for about a minute and asks me "Are you wet yet?" which completely killed it. He usually doesnt suck my breasts at all unless hes in my lap like a baby so that I can jerk him. This is pretty awkward for me but I can deal.

Its just very straightforward and mainly focused on what he likes. I like to please him, but he doesnt seem to try and do the same for me. The only reason I hesitate to bring it up is because were in an LDR, and we both still live at home, so sex has to be as fast as possible and as quiet and possible or we will get caught, and we always have to be aware incase someone walks in on us. We sometimes have the oppourtunity to take some time but all the aforementioned problems happen.

>>17778642
He sounds like the most vanilla and selfish guy I've ever heard of. How the shit can someone not like foreplay? It's honestly my favorite part, all that suspense makes it all the better once you finally start.

Him going in dry is also pretty bizarre. It's like he has no awareness of your needs at all. I think you really need to flat out tell him to change this because it's really not fair on you at all and you might grow to resent sex as a result.

>>17778642

Then he is an asshole. I mean, he can choose how to treat you. Yeah, I get the sneaking around, but he can make an effort.

You can tell him he is a selfish lover. Maybe he is just inexperienced. Maybe he is just an asshole.

NEED HELP FLIRTING
WHAT TO SAY TO A GIRL THE WILL TURN HER ON OVER TEXT

I DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT PLEASURING A WOMEN

>>17778652
Im gonna have to try to think about how to tell him what I want in a way he will understand.

I mentioned a few days ago that weve never had an actuall make out session. He diddnt understand. I said well yea, weve tongue kissed but weve never actually had a make out session. He replied that he diddnt realize that there was a time limit. I ended up saying thats not what I meant nevermind to try and drop the convo.

Idk how he doesnt know the difference. Laying on the bed or couch, kissing and touching/rubbing eachother getting really into it isnt the same as just standing or sitting taking turns sucking on eachothers tongues.

>>17778704
does he have aspergers or something?

>>17778707
I dont know. Hes never been with a girl before and we were eachothers first sexual partners so I know a lot of it is inexperience. But he watches porn and movies so I know hes seen some romance, I dont know why he doesnt just try to do what people do in movies.

>>17778570
>>17778642

He's just bad at sex so it's kind of normal that you're not satisfied. It could be lack of practice. how old are you both? Are you his first or at least one of the first? In 20s it's normal for one of the partners to be way more experienced sexually than the other.

Anyways, as a dude, I'll say you'll crush him if you expose it like you did here. It's basically a "you're not good enough for me".

Now, you could approach it differently. Play the sex teacher role, that's hot. Teach him "new things" that are actually just normal foreplaying for you and make sure he enjoys it (mainly by making him see you enjoy it). If he's not motivated you'll get a mediocre performance like the ones you're describing. Also, and I know this is kind of mood-breaking for girls, start directly asking things instead of suggesting anything. If you want an oral ask an oral, if you want the tongue to go faster ask him to go faster and if he can't find the clit for shit tell him the directions until he finds it.

Also, if you're not loud at bed you will need to learn to fake moans. No guy likes foreplaying if the girl is not showing how much she likes. It's simply boring and a bit humiliating. You can be "almost wet" but I won't know if I can't see or hear it. Actually your guy will probably prefer foreplay once you're aroused and wet, not before.

>>17778715
he really sounds like he has some kind of autism that makes him oblivious to the feelings of others

>>17778717
Thats the thing. I would be more direct if we diddnt have to sneak around the few times we get to see eachother. I dont know if its something I should bring up now or wait until we can be together in our own place.

>>17778715
It's hard to be lacking such awareness so I'd guess he's either a selfish asshole or might actually have some issue such as Aspergers.

>>17778717
It sounds like she's already tried the teacher bit and talking to him about it such as here
>Whenever we try foreplay it just seems to be more of a chore for him
>Did it for about a minute and asks me "Are you wet yet?" which completely killed it.

So I'm leaning towards him just being flat out selfish.

>>17778715
Porn is not exactly the best guide for an inexperienced dude. The parts that are more arousing for dudes are given more time screen while the rest are short or skipped. Your boyfriend is literally doing what he saw on porn movies.

>>17778724
Talk about it now while you can. It'll be a lot worse if you try when you have a place together.

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Hi, guy here.

I'm playing Dwarf Fortress, and I haven't really designed the fortress with expansion in mind. Right now I have about 30 dwarves and the design flaws are becoming obvious.

The current fortress is situated near the surface, so I am restricted in the directions I can expand. Plus the layout itself is not brilliant.

The housing is situated above the corridors, while the main storage areas are below the workshops.

Should I carry on with this fort, or start a new one? Or should I abandon the surface fortress and dig out a new fortress deeper down near the caverns?

The only ores I have are tetrahedrite and gold, and they're quite deep down so it might be worth moving everything down closer to that, or finding a new site with better ores.

Girls what do you think?

>>17778725
This last sentence in green of yours is what made me write my last advice. It sounds pretty awful, but well, it's the best way to make him enjoy the oral.

I think he's not particularly selfish but just bad at interpreting other's feelings. When he asks "are you wet yet" is because he absolutely got no clue. I say this as a person who suffers the same problem (without being a diagnosed aspergers).

>>17778724
Telling your partner "you're shit at fucking" is never a good idea, even if you have your own place. Ego plays a big part in sex and romance.

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>>17778740

>>17778740
I think Dwarf Fortress is awful and boring. It has potential due to his complexity, but the retarded controls and the learning curve completely kill it.

>>17778732
>>17778728
>>17778725
>>17778718
>>17778717
>>17778681
>>17778652

Thanks for your input. I will probably try to talk to him about it when I visit for the holidays.

>>17778748
I taught my mum how to play it, you're clearly just lazy.

>>17778760
I would actually probably enjoy it if someone (an actual person, not some boring tutorial) teached me how to play it. Yes I'm lazy.

What do girls think a good body is?

I lift and have showed girls my body and they all tell me i look amazing, but to me i think i dont even look like i work out have abs when tensed not so much relaxed.

Im 90kg 6ft about 13-15% body fat.

>>17777801
so true I'm trying not to spill my banana juice

>>17779027
You might have a bit of body dysmorphia there, bud

>>17778119
theres a girl I know who insists she's better looking than everyone even though she's next level ugly. I personally find girls who are confident in their looks but not pretentious extremely hot, and Im sure every guy here agrees. Don't just make it about your looks, carry yourself in a confident way

>>17779036
Maybe or maybe im DYEL, i do not lift for girls anyway since i am in a long term relationship.

But /fit/ has really screwed with my head, i have been lifting almost 4 years bench 125kg, squat 190kg and deadlift 250kg, still feel pretty scrawny compared to guys who go the gym and lift half the weight. I go on /fit/ and guys who are 70kg look bigger in their photos, feels weird.

>>17778740
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>17779057
Alright, well. Girls tend to be less concerned about the appearance of a guy. It's more about personality above all else. If you pass some bare minimums - not being obese or disfigured - you'll be fine. Even then, obese and disfigured people do find love.
Beyond that, you have been lifting for years, which immediately puts you at an advantage above the average guy.

Attraction is a little weird. Think of it as it's most basic purpose. To find a good mate that would make good offspring. Now, how to define "good mate" and "good offspring" are a little weird. I've heard that when you are attracted to someone's smell it's usually because your immune systems would make a good match for healthy kids.

You lift, and that hits subconscious cues in a girl's head. You care about your health. You can set goals and reach them. You can put in hard work. You probably are going to live longer. You're in better condition.

You're comparing yourself to guys at the gym. Of course there are always going to be guys bigger than you at the gym. Compare yourself to guys on the street. Peek into a fast food place and look at the people there. I guarantee you that you are in a better place than the average dude.

i'm a guy.

there's an engaged (less than a year) girl i find attractive, and i'm sure she finds me attractive (body language and shit). we are kinda friends, not friendzone tho.

would it be a good idea to subtly let her know that i'm interested? like something like a joke, or speaking hypothetically? or should i just wait and see how it goes?

so basically, the question for gilrs is: you have a bf, you also have a cute friend who you feel attracted to. would it be creepy/pathetic if he said something like "haha, would you date me if you were single?", etc...

>>17779027
>>17779050

Theres always going to be guys bigger than you. Also, your perception of your body is not going to be the same as other peoples. You have to learn to deal. That being said, you answered your own question

>What do girls think a good body is?

>I lift and have showed girls my body and they all tell me i look amazing

Obviously your body is what many girls think is a good body.

Ladies

If a girl who sits quite a bit in front of me in public transport continously turns her head around to look at me/my direction, what did she mean by that?

Also there wasn't anything behind me, I checked myself.

>>17779129
I'm a hungry skeleton and girls have said the same

Good job wasting time in the gym lmao

>>17779127
>would it be creepy/pathetic if he said something like "haha, would you date me if you were single?"
Yes. It'd also show that he doesn't respect my relationship.

>>17779127
Yes. Stop trying to get into your friend's pants. You're a shit person - selfish and pathetic.
Find a single girl and date her.

>>17779132
She hears you talking to yourself and is wondering what the fuck is wrong with you

>>17779122
Thanks man maybe i am comparing myself to others to much, i have a competitive nature and it can be hard not to compare myself to others. Sometimes i feel like i should be doing better in all regards of life, job etc.

Even though i sound like an insecure bumbling idiot i have never had a problem with girls, i am able to talk to people on a person to person level and make them feel important, which has led to plenty of short relationships and the current relationship i am in now.

Tbh i dont know why i asked the first question, maybe i have just been drinking to much and feel a bit insecure.

tfw hide behind a false image of confidence and everyone looks up to you expecting things from you but deep down i just dont know what i want to do in life, i have my career set which involves helping others but come every weekend i end up feeling shit and lonely even with friends and a relationship, i end up drinking in my room alone to cope with the stress of life.

I sound like a fag gg.

Probably not the right place to unload my feelings.

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>>17779139
very funny

>>17779134
>It'd also show that he doesn't respect my relationship.
what if i'm just curious if i had a chance before? how does that doesn't respect your relationship?

>>17779137
>Yes. Stop trying to get into your friend's pants. You're a shit person - selfish and pathetic.
>Find a single girl and date her.
stop projecting, i don't want to get into her pants or to date her. i'm just genuinely curious

>>17779175
>what if i'm just curious if i had a chance before?
It doesn't matter whether or not you did. The fact is, she's with someone else - and she's going to marry that other person.

>how does that doesn't respect your relationship?
Because you're clearly crossing a line, and if you can't see that, you're autistic as well as selfish.

>>17779175
You said you were interested in her in the first post.
You're not curious, you want to fuck her and you're selfish and disrespectful.

Does the cold weather make anyone else miss their ex even more?

>>17779183
>It doesn't matter whether or not you did.
it does matter for me

>she's going to marry that other person.
she's 21 and nobody marries here before their 40s

>Because you're clearly crossing a line
what line? i'm not saying "i love you" or "your bf is a cuck", i'm just asking her opinion about myself.

i may be both autistic and selfish, but please enlighten me

>>17779189
>men only think about sex
>still projecting

stop replying anytime, thanks

>>17779175
>>17779198
>asks a question
>doesnt get the answer he wants
>flips his shit trying to justify his intentions

Anon, you are a shit person.

>>17779192
I just turn up the heat really high so that I'm too focused on sticking my feet out to cool down than to think about anything else.

>>17779216
I can't do that when taking my dog out for a walk ;_;

From your dating history, how long have your relationships been on average?

After how many months would you say a honeymoon phase is over?

>>17779229
Average about 6 months and longest about 3 years.

I've been to a few weddings and I'd say the honeymoon phase ends about 6 - 8 months in.

>>17779210
>misinterprets the question
>starts insulting
>still keeps projecting

wow. i hate using ad hominem but you are really dumb

>>17778119
>What do you think of confident but ugly (i feel awful saying this word) females?
Not too much. Ugly girls don't exist for me sexually, they are basically in the same category as men. If the confidence is justified, I respect them but that's it.

Also gotta specify whether ugly or fat and ugly, the latter is such a horrible combination for confidence.

>>17778293
Tell her you're going to pay her.

>>17778570
Talk.

>>17777701
Yes. I'm already wet, though.

>>17779233
Gender?

>>17779263
Male. Is there a particular reason you're asking about time and honeymoons?

>>17778146
Give it a try, dude.

>>17778293
Paying her. $20 would be fair

>>17779265
Just curious to see when that "dillusionally in love phase" is over for some folks and whether their relationship ends shortly after that or not.

Ladies: would you let me fuck your ass?

Jw.

Love, Dale

>>17778465
There are several books about body language around the web. Lurk moar.

>>17779278
One wedding had that yes but she wasn't in love in the first place, she'd just always wanted a massive wedding. The others though are still being like they're dating even years after the wedding.

>>17779233
Been with my ex for 6 years, with my current for 4.
Honeymoon went away after 3-6 months depending on how much time we spent together.

>>17779229
Oh dear, I am sorry. This >>17779287 was meant for you.

Girls what makes a guy attractive? I always thought I was atleast above attractive but recently a girl told me that my face isn't rugged enough and its pretty true I have several routines to avoid acne, have never been hit in the face and my nose has never been broken, but ive got a short generally well trimmed beard, Im very conscious about my teeth and they are all straight and as perfectly white as can be. Am I working too hard to try to be good looking and that is actually a turnoff for women?

When a girl ends things suddenly because she has excuses like school/family/work/can't open up

But has admitted she has strong feelings, says she knows she will regret ending things etc.

How long max should I hold on to hope before I move on that she may realize she misses me and come back? 2 weeks? 3? a month?

>>17779331
Maybe a month or two. After that just give up on her.

>>17779331
Sounds like she is giving you bullshit

If she wanted to make things work she would try to. She would understand compromise

>>17779340

I'm aware of that just wanted to see how long to wait to see if she realizes she fucked up. If ever.


We really clicked. like fucking more than anyone ever. I know she felt it too also, the sex was great lol

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I'm stuck in an extremely awkward situation, help please...

>Staying with friends at their house for weekend
>Helping them paint/fix up rooms
>The entire time they've been fighting
>Screaming at each other loudly
>Trying to act like I don't notice
>Painting wall in living room today
>Hear extremely loud shattering
>My friend comes running in
>"FUCKING STOP IT! STOP IT!!!"
>Still pretend not to notice
>She comes running into the room
>Bunch of pottery in hand
>She's hurling pottery at him
>He's dodging it and it goes smashing
>They go upstairs and leave me downstairs
>Hear them screaming and things smashing
>This was at 3 PM
>It is now almost 9 PM
>They are still upstairs screaming


I can't go home, they picked me up, my house is over 2 hours away by car, I feel awkward as fuck being here and a little freaked out, they've just been fighting this entire time, they haven't hit each other yet, but they do get violent, what the fuck do I do?

>>17779367
Call someone to come get you or something dude. Or just force your way to be around them since they won't fight if they're with company... maybe...

>>17779379

Company clearly isn't stopping them from fighting.

>>17779367

Call someone so you can go home. Or maybe suggest to whoever you are friendlier with of the two to take you home. That way they can have some breathing room - one can take you home, and both of them can think about whatever bullshit they're fighting about.

In your experience, does asking for a second shot work?

I dated this girl for a really intense 1.5 months and we had just became exclusive, but she broke up with me abruptly 3 days after. She called and said that after some thinking, we're probably better off as friends and left it there. It was going so well. We were happy and talking about doing things in the new future.

Anyway, out of weakness, I called her. She didn't pick up, but texted me to say that we can talk tomorrow.

I want to ask her what exactly happened. But, I'm also wavering on if I should ask if we should give it another shot and go slower. I think it's worth exploring. We had something. So in your experience, if you've had something similar, has it worked?

>>17779367
Get a damn uber/cab if you have to man. Yeesh, you don't wanna be there when one of them pulls a shotgun or something goddamn.

>>17779322
So, what makes you attractive is confidence. Even if you have a completely average to slightly below average face, if you own it your number increases.
>Complexes are always a turn off

Also, you have to remember that when it comes to pure physical looks, it's all subjective.
I love me a scrawny Japanese boy. My friend thinks thats weird as fuck, she wants a giant chubby hairy bear type dude. My other friend likes super ripped body builder types. Another prefers more of a "swimmer's bod".

So basically
>Am I working too hard to try to be good looking and that is actually a turnoff for women?
Yes. 100%. You don't sound like you have any horrendous deformities, so you're overthinking it way too much. If you wanna attract women, you should be working on your self esteem/personality rather than your looks.

>>17779229
My dating history was very short, haven't dated since high school, and of those "relationships" I'd say only 2 were serious. Longest was 9 months.
I stayed in the "honeymoon phase" the entire 9 months. I suppose he didn't though since he dumped me. Idk what happened. Never was able to rebound. Probably never will.

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Boys and gals, have you ever got drunk and slept with a platonic friend of yours? Did it ruin the friendship?

I feel like I fucked up.

how can I build my self esteem? I heard going to the gym helps but i really dont like it and with my schedule theres hardly alot of time. Ive had several people make comments how I have no self esteem and I never thought I let my guard down enough for them to see that so this is obviously an issue I need to work on.

>>17777761
I'd like to know this too, some group of girls kept asking me questions and being extremely nice to me for no apparent reason, but they act like they're doing it ironically.
Am I just

>>17779541
This July I went to a bar with a group of friends and got drunk on some women's drink and was made fun of by my two female friends, ended up having sex with them and fell asleep at 4 AM, when I woke up only one girl was there greeted me, made me breakfast and the other left and avoid hanging out with us since then. So it ruin some friendship and does not affect others.

I was dating a girl but she started making a lot of excuses for not meeting me (pretty much just "busy"). I stopped trying to arrange dates and stopped texting her. Now, three days later, she calls me while she's out with her friends and drunk and says she misses me.

Is she just using me? I kind of like her. Should I ignore her or call her out on her bullshit?

>>17779561
So did you make any attempts at salvaging your friendship with the one that left?

>>17779569
I asked her how she's doing a few times and asked her why she never came to our study group anymore, she gave some generic responses. I told her I missed her in our group and she told me I will get over it since I had the other girl. I explicitly said there's no romantic feeling between me and other girl, (there really isn't), no response for awhile, then a wall of text about how she was "there" and she "saw". After that were assignments, mid term exams, I had no time to deal with this drama.

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i have grown to hate women, but i also need a woman in my life to be happy. Im basically an addict who hates my addiction, like most, but deep down i know i need it. How do i hide my mysoginy, im in control enough to not beat the shit out of women, other thatn that i view women as a neccisary evil for my sexual and emotional needs.

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How to make small talk with a white grill, if I am a visible minority (not Black btw)?

>>17779609
The same way you do with a visible minority girl.

^^ I don't have such experience either...

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Ladies and Gents, I'd like to get some opinions and feedback from you please.

My girlfriend of five years kicked me out of her condo in January of this year; I didn't have a truck to get everything so I said that I would be back to get the big stuff in a week or two.

Well when I manage to get a truck and text her asking when the best time to come get my stuff is, she told me she sold had sold it all for rent money.

>Bluray Collection - $500
>Panasonic HDTV - $750
>Rowing Machine - $350

I had also paid for a brand new set of tires for her car which came to $400.

Anyways, I'd been considering taking her to Small Claims Court and getting my property back or the price I paid for it for a while now but tonight I actually pulled the trigger.

I text her and explained what I was doing but I offered her the option of being civil and settling everything out of court for less than I would be seeking if she forces me to take her to court and have her served a subpeona at work.

I have receipts and bank/debit card statements confirming I paid for these things with my money; I also have texts she sent me admitting she sold my property without my permission or knowledge.

Legally, what she did was a crime and when/if we go to court then the judge will rule in my favor due to the evidence.

But on the other hand, it's almost been a year and it's nothing I couldn't live without; I just felt shitty about the break up and getting my stuff back wasn't a priority.

Well now that I've stabilized my life; I see that she wronged me and that I should be compensated for all of MY things she stole from me and sold.

It's not revenge or vindictive driven; even if it does come across that way. She knew how much I loved my movie collection and TV so I'm sure in her mind it was revenge and for the money.

As I said, I have more than enough evidence to be awarded what I can prove I paid for.

Should I actually go through with this?

>>17779650
It sounds like revenge to me because you're not doing it for the money but because she wronged you or something like that. You want to get back at her.


Should she have done what she did? Obviously not. Should you get compensated? Sure.

However, I'd just move on if I were you. Especially if she's not in your life any longer.

Got a coffee date with this girl in my class on monday and I have no experience in dating whatsover.

Any tips or suggestions? How I can make this escalate into something more?

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>>17779671
>>17779650

shit like this is why women can get away with murder, fuck her in ass at court op, dig that knife in and twist it. Shes a self centered whore and needs to be taught a lesson, at least for the sake of the next guy shes with.

>>17779671

Well I'm not rolling in money since I used all of my grant and scholarship money to buy everything in the condo.

I could go after her for A LOT more but I'm not; if she will be civil and save me time then I'll only ask for $1,000 but if she doesn't want to play ball then I'm seeking $2,000.

That's about 1/15 of what I spent on that condo and the shit in it; I honestly feel that I'm being more than fair.

But of course it's going to sound like I'm seeking revenge but if I wanted to do that I would call her Board of Pharmacy and tell them about her drug habit.

She's been in Pharmacy for 11 years now and she would never work in the industry again once they saw the urine or hair test they would make her take.

IMO, that's revenge.

>>17779688

Oh that's the funniest part; she's dating her new neighbor and posting pictures of him on all the shit I paid for.

She's trying to rub it in my face but I don't look at her Facebook, my mother does and told me about it.

She's such a creeper.

>>17779711
typical women bruh, my ex fiancee baby momma does the same shit, and im 90% she got preggo on purpose.
>TFW born just in time to make america great again but millenial grills have been brainwashed into attention seeking sluts.
if you ever get s chance snag a foriegn born girl, preferably russian or chinese, it will change your outlook

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>>17779650
> when/if we go to court then the judge will rule in my favor due to the evidence.
Sorry but no.

First of all, it's a little strange that you took the receipts for the Blurays, and not the Blurays themselves, when you moved out. Expect the judge to call you on that.

Second, all she has to do is say that they were gifts, and you have no right to reimbursement. Your relationship is all the proof she needs to back a gift claim.

My advice? You are hurt, but all that shit is just stuff. Distance yourself from her and recover. Do NOT do anything over a fucking rowing machine that will cost you years in prison for.

Peace.

>>17779494
Help, please.

>>17779650
A judge/arbitrator REALLY isn't going to look favourably on the fact that you've waited until November to do anything about it. Also the tires would be considered a gift. And if she successfully argued that you ought to have paid some rent, then they're not going to care.

Also saying "I'm not doing this for revenge" doesn't mean that it's true.

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>>17779734
cuck or femnon detected, like i said bro, take this slut to court. You have plenty of evidence. Last time i checked you dont go to prison for taking somebody to small claims court. Women live the high life because of people like like this, knock them down a notch and give them a reality check.

>>17779734
>a rowing machine as a gift
He's got a good chance of winning.

BUT there is one issue where he's waited almost an entire year to take action, which will look odd.

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>>17779734

I already anticipated that scenario hence the copies of her text messages saying she sold MY things to pay for HER rent.

The car tires could be a gift but I'll argue that we had express agreement that I would front her the money and she would pay me back; the tires are under my account.

As for the receipts, I had to print those out from Best Buys myBestBuy membership thing in addition to getting statements from my bank.

Either way, I'll get something but I offered to settle out of court for less so I'm 80% positive she'll go that route so she doesn't have to miss work, go to court, possibly attempt to lie about the 'gifts' then I show the judge the texts proving other wise etc.

In all honesty, I could go file a police report about her stealing and fencing my property to a local record exchange; it's like a pawn shop, they attach everything you sell onto you license number.

>MFW I took 'Legal, Ethical and Regulatory Issues in Business' and know enough law to get this done like an Operator.

>>17779774

Yeah, I agree but I'm legally 'Mentally Disabled' and just found out about this being an option.

OR

It took this long to gather the receipts and proof needed to build a strong case against her.

>>17777688

Question for girls.
How do I know if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

>>17779775
>The car tires could be a gift but I'll argue that we had express agreement that I would front her the money and she would pay me back; the tires are under my account.
And she'll argue that it wasn't. It's your word against her's

>In all honesty, I could go file a police report about her stealing and fencing my property to a local record exchange; it's like a pawn shop, they attach everything you sell onto you license number.
No you couldn't, it's November and this happened in January. They'd just tell you to stop wasting their time.

>MFW I took 'Legal, Ethical and Regulatory Issues in Business' and know enough law to get this done like an Operator.
I have a law degree and I can tell you that you waiting this long to even file a claim is REALLY going to work against you. Small claims courts also generally have a more relaxed approach to the law, so they're a lot more flexible than an actual court, meaning that they might choose to have her pay you less than the items' value even if under the strict letter of the law, you'd be entitled to their full value.

My advice: stop with this 'muh principles' bullshit and move on.

>>17777777

>>17779793

Statue of limitations for misdemeanors is one year, comrade.

Waiting 10 months is going to look strange but I'll argue that I was saving up money to hire an attorney but found out I didn't need one in Small Claims Court.

The tires were just mentioned as a bluff to get to settle out of court with me; which is how I see this playing out.

You don't spend 5 years with someone without learning what kind of person they are and what they are/are not capable of doing.

She's weak, scared and a coward; she'll fold and give me what I'm asking because she knows that I don't bluff, she has tons of tattoos and looks like a junkie who would do stuff like this while I'm clean cut and handsome and last but not least: She knows that if she doesn't give me what I want, I'll take it from her in different ways. ie. job, condo, car, etc.

This has nothing to do with principles; as a lawyer this is about justice and comeuppance.

And money.

Thanks for the advice though.

All my friend's girlfriends love me a ton, platonically at best and physically at worst. Why then might I have trouble keeping a girlfriend?

>>17779784
>>17779784
>>17779784

She starts suddenly smelling like cocoa butter and Newports

Females:

Had a little bit of a run-in with my girlfriend of a year. She is insecure about her boobs and body really, because she is thin. At a party we were asked to say a hot celebrity and i said a celebrity with large boobs and butt, so basically she is even more insecure because of my mess up, and now is convinced she wants a boob job ASAP.

>>17779956
I'm a retard, I didn't ask my question.
What should I do? What can I do to convince her that isnt the truth? I seriously find her to be one of the most attractive people ever but she won't believe thinking I like everything she isn't

>>17779956
You didn't mess up, she's just overly insecure and there's nothing you can do about it. A boob job is a great way of getting on the debt train too.

Ladies, I suppose if you're looking for a man whose gone to college then your picks would be narrower but lets say you meet a really good hard working guy who isn't college educated and he isn't able to go because financial issues. Not that he doesn't have money but just not having it despite wanting to go when he was younger, would you let that pass?

>>17777688
I'm agonizing over a girl and I just want to really spill all my guts out to her through a text. I don't text her often but I know she likes me, so would it be too strange to have a text like that out of nowhere, or is there some way I should lead up to it? I'm tired of having her stuck in my head and I just want to move past this annoying emotional state, regardless of what happens.

>>17779969
>>17779956
how much does a boobjob typically cost, thinking of getting one for my gf.

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>>17779541
Sort of. We were friends but kept heavily flirting and shit. Then we fucked. Then she wanted to keep things platonic and decided to start sleeping with my friend and went out of the way to hide the fact from me.

It's not like we were official or anything but the situation still pissed me off, and things never really went back to normal.

females,

what do you suggest sub 6/10 males who are essentially barred from sex with not-ugly woman do about all that incel rage they have inside them? i'm just curious what you expect the natural trajectory is, when you deny and marginalize a large chunk of the male population.

>>17780029
Not him, but I've been the friend in that situation.

For what it's worth, our friendship recovered and is stronger now. She was cut from our lives pretty quickly though

>>17777701
Yes

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>Are you gonna go see it?
her

>yeah. are you gonna be in town?
me

>Yup! I'm not going anywhere over my winter break except a road trip to Georgia one weekend with some friends
her

Talked about spirited away returning to theaters soon with a local qt. How do I ask her? Also is it wrong to assume she's expecting/excited for me to ask her since she answered "Yup!" enthusiastically? Am I reading too much into it?

>>17780051
My biggest issue wasnt that she moved onto him. It was the fact they both purposefully hid the fact it was happening. As far as I'm concerned they were both extremely shady, except I had higher expectations for him than her.

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Ladies, I've gotten a sick idea in my head that if I just meet a girl from 4chan, we'd click instantly. If I'm supposed to meet people who share my interests, 4chan must encompass some of those, right? It'd mean we at least share the same humor, the same personality types, right? I don't know what got this idea into my head, but so long as it's there, I want to see if its tenable. Make it a mission of mine to find a gf from 4chan.

But would that just be a terrible idea? Wouldn't it go against the original purpose of an anonymous imageboard? And even if it were not, how do you even advertise that you're looking for someone who also hails from an infamous, anonymous imageboard? Scroll through OKCupid looking for references to board cultured memes? Keep trying /soc/? How?

This is mostly me thinking out loud, but fukkit, I'll ask anyway - does anyone have good tips on knowing what to look for in girls to see if they're 4chan compatible? Or is that a stupid, pathetic idea and I'd just be looking for trouble?

>>17780070
Join skype groups, see what the crowd has to offer. If there are women and they seem great then try to know them on a personal level and then go from there on out, just remember that there will be a lot of thirsty guys too.

>>17780050
I'm a dude, just wanted to let you know your mindset garbage. Nothing is being "denied" as if there's a plan for women to not have sex with a portion of the male population. No one is entitled to sex, it just so happens that men will generally say yes to it with basically anything that moves which gives women the advantage of being selective of their mates. We both still only fuck people we want to fuck.

Try not blaming your inability to get laid on your appearance and instead understanding that maybe your personality/character make you undesirable to most women and you'll have to work on making yourself desirable.

T. Average looking beta virgin til 20 until I manned the fuck up, and realized I was the problem. Worked on fixing my mental health and improving myself and got laid/into a relationship with a girl way out of my league.

>>17780077
shut the fuck up faggot. As someone who walks around his uni campus on a daily basis, i NEVER see ugly males with hot girls. However i often see chad with ugly girls. Sub 6/10 males are largely barred from sex with girls who are on their looks level. Naturally hatred of females induced by pent up sexual frustration will ensue in some individuals

i'm just curious what females expect to happen, i mean generally angry people find sort of release

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>>17780070
/soc/ is probably the most famous example. However I'm not exactly impressed with the results. To be blunt about it most of them seem to be outsiders that checked out /b/ on a dare, and then migrated to /soc/ since its the most normalfag friendly board. Overall not a plan I would suggest.

>>17780088
They expect you to not be an entitled faggot.

Sex isn't a necessity by any means, go buy a hooker if you want to see what I mean. The fact that you rate people on an objective number system and use terms like Chad indicates a complete lack of understanding for how real human relationships work. If you aren't physically deformed or horrendously ugly, you can find a gf. Get out of the bitter incel echo chamber and go make some friends and socialize.

Is it bad that if I were to get a girlfriend, I would want them to be like a best friend that I can relate to and do stupid shit with and also fuck?

>>17780118
Can confirm. Browse the #boyfriend tag on tumblr some time and you will see people on par with your looks or even worse find love. I found a couple who wore onesie superhero pajamas with the dude being a fat dude and the woman being a nice average body.

Dear vagina Americans,

Why the fuck is every girl I date a gold digger/materialistic whore? Goddamn. I'm not signing up to be your ATM just because I want to get in that. Are there any tells I should know about? Is there some sort of aura that attracts these subhumans?

Love, barely upper middle class dude.

>>17780118
>The fact that you rate people on an objective number system
I mean, who doesn't nowadays though? I mean its obviously subjective, my 8 can very well be another mans 5 especially considering the traits I go for. It's just a new way to say if a gal is a catch, average, or someone you want to avoid.

>>17780122
That's exactly what I want, so at least we can be lonely together.

>>17780127
u white?

>>17780050
hah, you already know the answer here anon - they don't think about you at all.

t. fellow bitter incel

>>17780122
That's what a gf is isn't it? That's how my gf and I are anyway.

>tfw sitting around and playing video games and after or even during we have sex

Damn it's fun. She's also genuinely into games too so that makes it so good.

>>17780122
That is EXACTLY what a relationship is. Have you ever noticed when people talk about their spouse they say "my best friend"

>>17777761
seconding this, girls pls respond

>>17780137
I am.

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>>17780050
use that energy to jelq
This guy from r9k jelqed a lot and got a gf

>>17780118
>They expect you to not be an entitled faggot.

LOL I'M BARRED FROM SEX WITH NON-DEFORMED WHITE GIRLS DUE TO MY 5/10 FACE AND SMALL FRAME/5'10 HEIGHT YOU FUCKING DOUBLE NIGGER

>>17780148
>This guy from r9k jelqed a lot and got a gf
lmao stop making shit up. Jelqing is only good for breaking your dick.

>>17779592
Feels like she loved you. Damn, that's sad.

>>17780126
>>17780126
obviously there are anomalies and outliers you delusional cunt, majorities are what matter. A 5/10 white female can hook up with a chad easily via tinder, essentially barring 5/10 white males from sex with 5/10 white females. This is hypergamy.

>>17780127
>>17780143
Stop talking like a nigger. No white man should say 'get in that'.

>>17780148
he is better looking then her, he deserves better. She's a mildly deformed butterface

>>17780163
The chad doesn't stick around with the ugly chick dude. He's got a shitload of women on the side.

>>17779561
anon what likely happened is that you probably were all over one chick while the other had to watch. I'd be upset in that position too. FMF is harder to pull off.

>>17778740
Abandon - You need iron

>>17779541
I have, and we're still friends.

>>17780158
Stop whining. I'm 5'6", and a 6/10, yet I still have an attractive GF. You can only blame so much on society mate. There are men who aren't Chads regularly getting laid because there's something else about them that has attracted a woman. Go out and make some female friends, try not using Tinder/online dating because that's the shit that feeds into/creates hypergamy.

You can either whine about the way things are, or you can actively try to change your situation.

>>17779562
"You were busy, so this is me leaving you alone"

>>17780206
>Go out and make some female friends
All the college clubs here are dead, and only made friends with two women in my major because it's a sausage fest. Send help.

>>17780214
My field is in art, I wanna find dates within that field, but they're either obnoxious tumblr hamplanets or already in committed relationships. Send me help too.

>>17780219
I need more help, maybe 1 in 15 students is a woman. Yet people always suggest talking to your class mates in college to put yourself out there.

>>17780222
True enough.

Fuck, I dunno... I guess the answer is to talk to more people regardless. Even if they're dudes, they could point you int he right direction and act as wingmen.
Of course, if you're as socially awkward as I am we're both shit out of luck on that front, so...

>>17777688
Ladies: What are some immediate turn-offs that you have?

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>>17780206
society is 100% to blame you fucking faggot, girls have denied me a happy life by denying me sex. I walk around uni everyday and i'm ignored by girls, at best they will acknowledge my existence by giving me a weird look. It's pretty clear they have zero interest in me. It's extremely unfair t bh, i have the same biological impulses to bone pussy like chad does yet i'm denied it due to factors out of my control (sub 6 face). I can't accept this.

>>17780231
damn that guy is pretty ok looking, I'm sure he scored some in college.

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>>17780231
This is ultimate bait.
Or you're just a moron.

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>>17780231
>society is 100% to blame you fucking faggot, girls have denied me a happy life by denying me sex

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>>17780231
GRAB

>>17780236
>moron

please elaborate

>>17777688
How would you girls feel if a quiet guy you'd known for a long time and semi-regularly talk to (every few months) texted you out of the blue that he had feelings for you and had done for a long time? Not in a "do you want to date" kind of way but more of a "god I have to get this off my chest and tell you before it kills me" kind of way. Assuming you like him of course.

>>17780294

Unexpected confessions like that are always awkward and rarely something you should do past the age of 12. If she likes you back, you should've just asked her out. If she doesn't feel the same, it things get uncomfortable between you and she will take some distance because she knows you have these unrequited feelings.

If you like her, express it other way. If she's single ask her out, flirt, make a move, whatever. She might reject you, sure, but it won't be as awkward as confessing feelings would be because you can pretend it's not a big deal. If she's not available, then confessing serves no purpose and will only make things difficult between you two.

Honestly "confessing feelings" just seems childish once you're out of your early teens and should just handle the situation like a real person. Over a text even more so.

>>17780231
>>17780231
Sex does not equal happiness. News flash, putting your wiener in a girl won't change your life. I'm sure you could get laid if you stopped so bitter, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin unless you've got a complex about it which you obviously do. No one owes you sex just because you exist. Some people have it easy and can get sex just based off their looks, other people have to work harder for it. No one is entitled to anything in life, stop complaining about the hand you've been dealt and do you best to play it. It's a crapshoot, at least you weren't born into some third world country and don't have to worry about a roof over your head or having food to eat.

On second thought, please keep ignoring my advice. Let natural selection stop you from passing on your retarded genes.

>>17777701
No, they need to have relatively vast interests and like the outdoors, I'm pretty active.

>>17777733
Discomfort, wanting to hide.

>>17777765
Never. He is just saying he's in love with you.

>>17778028
I don't really "find" new boyfriends, I've only liked/found about three people attractive in my entire life. I'd be comfortable with dating someone new after maybe two months if I met someone.

>>17778045
5'9", that's not very short. I'm 5'2".

>>17778050
She was craving intimacy in the moment.

>>17778179
God no. I want them to either call me or just text to meet up and talk in person. Texting is awful communication, unless you're far away.

>>17778407
None of my female friends give a damn about celebrities, it's actually the men I know who are cumming over Emma Watson or w/e on a daily basis lol.

>>17779127
Don't. You don't want a woman who will cheat on her fiance involved in your life in any way. If she's willing to ruin her relationship with someone who loves her just for a smidge of validation, she will fuck you over. Hard.

>>17779229
For me, relationships get more happy and intimate the longer they last.

>>17780305
> unless you've got a complex about it which you obviously do

i don't care about having the title 'virgin', i want sex because i'm frustrated as fuck. Girls continue to deny me it. Also don't give me that 3rd world country shit, both starvation and inceldom can result in death. And putting my wiener in a girl on a daily basis would greatly improve the quality of my life

>>17780311
>inceldom can result in death
Top kek
Breathing results in death if you do it for like 80 years or so.

If fucking some girl is the only thing that will improve your quality of life, no girl will want to fuck you because they won't want to be the sole thing responsible for your happiness.

Anyway, you obviously don't want any kind of advice, simply somebody to validate your retarded worldview. Have you noticed that nobody in this thread has agreed with you? Some food for thought.

>>17780324
>>17780324
> unless you've got a complex about it which you obviously do

because you're all sexually active normie scum, it's all a matter of perspective. If you were an 18 year old sub 6/10 white male who was being denied sex you'd be raging as well. My world view isn't retarded, unfortunately it's 100% accurate. No girl has expressed any interest in me, it's an injustice. I will not accept it. Until a white girl around my age who isn't overweight or facially deformed approaches me my view will remain unchanged, because their is no evidence to suggest i am wrong. I despise you and your kind

>>17780311
>i want sex because i'm frustrated as fuck. Girls continue to deny me it
>inceldom can result in death
is this guy for fucking real

>>17780127
If you're gonna act like a fly, buzzin' around eatin' shit, you can't complain about the taste.

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>>17780330
Damn bud, you're starting to sound like pic related.

I really am trying to help you. I never had a girl show any interest in me until the age of 20, so I have an idea of where you're coming from and how much it sucks to feel isolated while all your peers are sexually active around you. This bitterness really won't do you any good, and neither will lamenting society. It took me a near death experience and horrible depression to change myself, but I did it and became a more happy and well-adjusted person than I could have ever hoped for. You've got the entirety of college ahead of you, look for your happiness instead of looking only at the things that you don't have.

>>17780346
>pic related
damn that Chad must be swimming in pussies

>>17780418
The scary thing is the guy replied (and then promptly deleted) that he thought Elliot did nothing wrong, and actually should have focused on killing more sluts rather than offing his fellow incel roommates.

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Not a gender specific question.

At my permanent part time retail job I normally only worked 2 days a week as I am a uni student. At the start if this year I asked for extra hours and my manager said that he didn't have any so I went and got another job at a Hotel. Now he's asking me to work extra hours in the lead up to Christmas but I don't want or need them. What's a good excuse for not wanting on extra shifts at Christmas because it's our responsibility to flex up at this time of year? I don't want my retail manager to know I have a second job because he bullies people for that.

>>17780437
>actually should have focused on killing more sluts rather than offing his fellow incel roommates

well, killing his Asian roommates was wrong.

>>17780062
Just ask her, worst case scenario is she says no and isn't into you and you move on. Not asking is going to fill you with regret, especially if she ends up being into you. She is 100% dropping a hint she wants to go with you since she told you her schedule and when exactly she can't.

Go for it.

>>17780346
>You've got the entirety of college ahead of you, look for your happiness instead of looking only at the things that you don't have.
How did you manage to put yourself out there when you don't know anyone basically? So far the only reasonable advice I've seen is to try to talk to my class mates but it's a general sausage fest.

>>17780330
Newsflash, most eighteen year olds don't have a great sex life, let alone (below) average ones, and still enjoy their family, the trajectory for their future, doing stuff with friends, hobbies etc. This really is on you.

>>17780442
Tell him your grandma is coming to visit and you need to take care of her? Whenever old people are involved bosses seem to let you slide.

>>17780518
I'm also interest in this. Depressed, alone and knowing 0 people in my town and uni. My classmates are very shitty and I have no interest in them but I like what I'm studying.

>>17780518
>>17780531
There's a lot of possible things you can do, here's a variety of things I can think of

If you got lucky, befriend your roommate.
Befriend people on your floor, if you're a freshman than everyone is looking for friends.
Join a club/intramural sport
Start a club/intramural sport
Get a job on campus
Go to parties/campus events
Join Greek life/get to know a cool fraternity (I do realize this is 4chan, but most campuses have at least 1 fraternity that's full of guys who like to play vista and smoke pot)
Befriend people in your classes, making friends in your major is especially nice.

I can't think of anything else in particular, but once you manage to meet a few people of substance that you like, stick with them. Odds are you'll get to know more cool people through them. It can really suck, a lot of people are shitheads but you can find gems with enough effort. I go to a tiny college in the middle of nowhere and I did everything on this list and I now have a flourishing social life.

>>17778045
6'0 guy

>>17780330
>Girls don't like me because I'm ugly!
>No fat chicks though

Girls don't like you because you reek of entitlement and insecurity, which is way uglier than your face, I'm sure.

>>17780545
Most of this makes sense but
>go to parties
How do you even find a party to go to when you're starting at 0?

>>17780574
What do you mean, don't people just always ask you if you want to go? Just go one time

;-;

>>17780545
I'm unlucky. My uni has no dorms, I live in my very own shit apartment Thanks anyway anon

>>17779229
I've only had 2, the first one was around a year and a half, the current one around 9 months

>>17778179
>how do you feel about texting the person through the whole day?
I like it

>>17778028
I've only experienced a break up, started dating someone else years after that but I did like someone else in between

>>17780122
No

Girls,

would you rather have a hand-crafted/hand-made gift or a gift bought from a store?

>>17780702
I have no preference, the only thing I dislike about handmade stuff is that it can sometimes look like it's been made by a kid.

What would you prefer?

Guys what the eff is wrong with me? Am I still broken over my ex who massively broke my heart 2 years ago or what?

>go on great date with guy
>i really like him and we spend a few hours talking about life
>we go to the bars and come home together
>we fuck and cuddle after
>halfway through , I realize I'm not into it and want him to leave, and use my roommate as an excuse
>I just feel nothing and don't think i'll call him again
>I hit on my housemate's friend later that day and we end up fucking like rabbits after I take care of him for being too drunk
>i still don't feel anything
>we cuddled and I was just thinking about how I used to feel about my ex
>can I even love anymore?

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>>17780735
god what a whore you are

>>17780735
Low quality b8

>>17780735
>Oh no my love is broken
>Better fuck the shit out of everyone
I'm sure this makes perfect sense on Planet Slut.

>>17780742
Ok I know I'm a whore but I'm asking for advice and help on how to fix myself so I can actually like someone for real again and not be a whore

>>17780735
Sometimes you need a break from relationships and just have casual fun

>>17780754
Makes sense

>>17780752
Doesn't everyone do that? Are you supposed to wallow by yourself and not go fuck other people when you're trying to get over someone?

>>17780753
well you could start by not fucking everything that has two legs

Another question about presents, guys, what do you think about subscription boxes? Could a subscription box be a good present for you?

>>17780763
I thought having sex with someone was supposed to help you get feelings for them, but I don't think it's working for me so I suppose you're right and I'll tone it down.

>>17780753
Okay what you're going to do is this:
1) Start discarding everyone's reasonable advice
2) keep fucking every man who's willing (aka all of them)
3) get impregnated by some guy without a job
4) pick up a second job as a custodian at K-Mart just to support yourself
5) eventually marry some verbally abusive 60 year old man who molests your kid, but you're sure it's worth it because he helps pay the bills
6) die in debt

>>17780769
Subscription boxes sound dandy. It's always better to get a gift that'll keep reminding them (like socks or something) than something they're going to quickly eat and forget.

>>17780442
Holy fuck, for starters I'm mad jelly you have a job that actually will give you that few of hours. Every place around my college is like "If you aren't interested in working 30 hours a week we don't want you". They give zero fucks about college schedules lol.

Anyway, idk you kinda fucked yourself in my eyes. But I'm jaded by my own towns work life, which is highly competitive so the second you turn down a shift or say no to your manager, you get canned and replaced.

But you don't really have to give a reason at all. Just say you're having some personal family conflicts with that scheduling.

>>17780557
Is it because you're taller?
Just curious if women care more about relative height or want really tall guys.

I boke this guys hearth and disapponted him.
Now I reget it deeply. What do?

>>17778045
I'd rather date the guy with the better matching personality.
If all else is the same, I guess the better face/body? I really don't give a fuck about height as long as I'm not the taller one. At 5'3, it shouldn't be hard for the vast majority of guys.

>>17780798
There's a difference between regretting your decision and feeling bad about hurting someone's feelings. You likely don't feel the first one, so stop worrying about it,

>>17780798
Move on.
Some things can be broken beyond repair and trying to fix them makes it only all worse.

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>>17780798
Get some bricks and go fix that shit then, kek.

In all seriousness though, if you were a real cunt about it, you can apologize, but accept you burned that bridge. You don't get to walk back into people's lives that you hurt, they can only come back to you.
Move on, let him move on, do better in the future.

>>17780798
how much do you weigh to be able to do that Jesus Christ women on here I swear...

>>17780773
Muscles need time to rest and grow after a workout. The same thing happens with emotions. It seems like you never gave yourself the opportunity to rest and still strain for ideal perfect affection.

>>17780807
>>17780806
>>17780803
I broke up with him. We had a nice relationship that started to decline when he had to set the priority to his education. I acted all egoistical, and instead of giving him support I broke up with him because he didnt spend as much time with me as he used to. I tried to apologize (and acted kinda clingy in the process) but he said it's nothig.
It's pretty clear he's hurt, i'd be hella hurt if someone acted with me as i did with him.

>>17780811
What does weight has to do with that?

>>17779494
Guys pls, I'm talking to her soon.

>>17780825
nothing. Just that those things tend to happen to fat people.

>>17778045
You're going to be staring at that face a lot. I pick the one with the nicer face. Proportions are important but anyone can improve their body considerably with exercise. You can't improve a bad face.

>>17780825
>joking about how you mistyped "hearth" (the flooring to a fire place) instead of heart.

>>17780825
>>17780832
He's making a really tactless unfunny joke

What exactly do you regret about this? If he couldn't manage to make time for you there's a problem, regardless of whatever's on his plate atm. You did right to break up a relationship that made you feel lonely and unwanted and hopefully it'll be a wake-up call for him too.

>>17780861
Oh! You made me realize that I have been spelling "heart" the wrong way all the time

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>>17780869
Wat. You thought heart had a "th" sound in it?

>>17780830
I don't break up on a whim. When it's over, it's over. No amount of begging and sniveling would change that.

>>17780909
RIP

>>17780735
You've got your order of operations wrong. Sex amplifies existing love. It doesn't create love. If you don't feel anything for the guy, banging him won't change that.
You miss intimacy. You miss being close and loving with someone. You're remembering how you and your ex used sex to embody that intimacy, so you're trying to recreate it with sex. But you have to care about him first. Don't have sex with a stranger.

You're not going to fall in love with every man you go on a date with. You can't expect that from yourself. That's why dating is hard, because you're trying to find someone that you connect with on a deeper level. That takes time and not everyone will connect with you like that.

Dont give up and give yourself some time.

>>17780862
You may be right. It just happens that I still love him after all this time and it's killing me. I just think that I should have stayed to give him the support he needed when I should just move on and remember how lonely and depressed that made me feel. But the thought of someone breaking up with me as I did kinda hurts me. Maybe I really did hurt his feelings, maybe he doesn't care at all. He could have expected it anyway.

>>17780895
Not really.
Nobody really ever told me I spelled it the wrong way so I kept writing it that way. English isn't my first language so it's normal that I make seemingly dumb mistakes huh

Girls...

Would you date a guy in his early 30s who is broke and temporarily living back with his parents? For the sake of the argument, lets assume he is tall, moderately attractive and all round good guy but just hasn't got his career and finances together yet (but is working hard towards improving that)?

I'm insecure as fuck about it tbph

>>17780937
Sometimes we have to admit that someone is unavailable.
If you want to see someone fairly often in a relationship, but their job and school makes them only have free time once every two months, is that much of a relationship?
It's not his fault exactly, but would it make you happy?

Sometimes things outside of your control cause a break up. It's painful, but it happens.

>>17780909
I think for me, I just want answers. It was incredibly sudden and really shitty on her part. I don't know if it's something to salvage or if I should even attempt it.

>>17780950
That's honestly more common these days. We're all screwed.
You'll probably meet some people who are stuck up assholes, but they'll judge you for something regardless.

You're not stuck there because you're lazy or unhirable. You're just in a bad spot. You're trying to get out of it. That's fine.

My boyfriend is 30 and in the same situation.

>>17780950
Why do you want to date someone if you can't support yourself financially.

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How do you which girls find white men attractive? Im white german/Italian ethnically. I live in North Eastern America. Im looking for a girl that is sexually attracted to white men. I see a lot of girls like black guys or brown guys for the sex, then will settle with a white guy for $/401k. When I talk to girls it's hard to gauge this. I don't use social media, so I guess I could browse there FB if I had to, but I dont want to. Im not looking for a girl that is into black guys, but will take a white guy. Ideally Im looking for a girl who is exclusively into white guys. Im college educated, I was raised in the upper middle class and went to private schools. Im fit and my face is above average. Education isn't important to me in a girl, all I want is what I described above and as far as looks go Im not picky.

>>17780954
It'd be nice to have answers, but do be prepared to not get any.
Because we can't control other people. She'll tell you what she wants to tell you.

You don't just want closure, do you? You want to argue her reason. To tell her that it's not good enough and that she should take you back.

When it comes down to it, she gets to decide if she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. And she doesn't really owe you anything.

>>17780958

Because I've been single for 3 years and I really miss being in a relationship. Well, just female contact in general.

I hate the idea I have to wait UNTIL I have X amount of money and then I'm ALLOWED to have a girlfriend. In terms of my looks and personality, there is no reason I should not be with someone. I see loads of guys with nothing going for them other than a good job and they all have steady girlfriends. I know its very important to women and I don't feel entitled to a girlfriend. But I don't see why I can't at least have a semi-serious relationship with a cool girl

Like I said, however, I am insecure as fuck about it and making no efforts as a result

>>17780951
Yeah, that was the case. I'm tempted to believe that one day we'll work out but It's better that i just move on and leave him behind.

>>17780958
Why wouldn't you? If you meet someone who you really like, you shouldn't turn away for a reason like that.
I mean yeah, it's probably not the time to run tindr and go on a bunch of blind dates to fancy restaurants that you can't afford.

But a cup of coffee is worth the possibility of companionship.

>>17780964
People generally prefer their own race.

>>17780982
>tfw nobody prefers halfbreeds

>>17780950
Dunno, I'm quite younger than you so probably not.

>>17780967
I just want to know what happened to change her mind. If she says we were going too fast, then I can maybe ask her. But if not, then I'm not going to ask her and tell her we can't be friends.

>>17780985

Even though I'm 6'3 with a big cock?

Ladies...
I recently (almost 4 months ago) had my gf break up with me. We were together 5 years and were eachothers first for everything. Now i am trying to find a way to ask out a girl that works at the mall, but i dont want to be creepy about it. I find myself to be an average looking guy ( 6', skinny but athletic). Cant really converse much because she is a cashier. Any way to ask out this stranger?

>>17781014
lol cashier bro just go grab her [] man

>>17779281
But those books are normally about instinctive body language, not about intentional and conscious hints.

>>17779132
Something about you catched her attention. This can be a good or an horrible thing.

Think about yourself. What kind of person would you look at? Hot chicks, but also deformed or weird people. Or just people who interests you in some way for better or for worst. Maybe she just is interested on what you're reading or whatever.

I made the mistake of investing my time in a horrendously ugly gook that's so hideous i'm going bald over it. I'm stuck with the dumb pig too wat do?

>bitch is so deformed i attempt to cheat on her all the time

>>17779869
Women aren't looking for the same qualities in a boyfriend than in a boyfriend's friend.

For example I get along very well with one of my friends couple since we're both cultured and, unlike them two, I'm a pretty stable emotionally and mentally. They both value those qualities, but she's not looking for a mentally stable guy, she wants another psycho who understands her shit. And my friend is one.

Of course it could be the opposite if she (or another girl) wanted a stable man for support. Then she would be attracted to me and we would be a couple (I'm not attracted to crazy girls but let's pretend I do), while my friend would be like you.

>>17781006
Especially not if you think girls should be interested in you because of that.

>>17780769
Depends on the guy.See how >>17780781 likes your idea, but it's a bit shaby for me. I would probably hate you for gifting me a subscription box, thinking you're not even trying, unless it's one that I really like.

On the other hand I would love you if your gift is something I can eat and it's good. I will not forget the gift because I like women with good taste, and you will be marked as one.

tld;dr A good present is something the guy will appreciate. Learn about your guy and you'll know what is a good present.

>>17780301
I understand what you're saying but when it comes to romance I'm as immature as a 12 year old anyway - no experience, no nothing. I don't know how to make a move or flirt even though I would prefer to do it that way.

To girls:
Chatted with girl on dating app, things went really well and she kinda agreed to go on a date but says she works a lot the next week/weeks bcse she is in a hospital with weekend and night shifts atm and doesnt really know when shes free next.
How do i keep her interested in me through chatting and how do i bridge the time best until she actually has a day off where we can meet up?

Is being funny with a girl then get her to like you and telling her that you have a micropenis a good enough pick-up line to get her to get intimate with you?

>>17781369
I went for a cocktail subscription box. It's a bit of a special situation, it's for someone who is temporarily in another continent.

I chose cocktails because he's into that, and since it includes alcohol it can't be shipped anywhere so it's now that he's there or never. I barely drink alcohol myself so I dunno if what they give is good enough or not.

>>17781661
Oh, then I think it's a fine gift.

>>17780982
can i get an actual answer? I see white girls with non white guys all the time

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Girls, I want to play Skyrim again. What kind of character should I build?

>>17780964
>>17781847

If she's attracted to you and you're white, then that's probably all you really need.

>>17781237

Helium mask?

>>17781887
yeah but im not trying to get with a girl thats been having interracial sex in the past either my friend.

>>17781904
Ask them if they'd had interracial sex then.

>>17780565
>Girls don't like you because you reek of entitlement and insecurity, which is way uglier than your face, I'm sure.

my face is 5/10 you dumb slut, i would happily settle for a 5/10 white girlfriend by she can easily get chad

>>17780522
>below average looks

i'm average looks at worst

>>17780330
>Until a white girl around my age who isn't overweight or facially deformed approaches me my view will remain unchanged,
You're meant to approach them, you dumbass.

>>17782066
this is not 1864 anymore,we have equality