Thread replies: 6
Thread images: 2
Thread images: 2
Should I try to get back together with my ex-girlfriend?
Greentext just to keep it more organized.
>Had a fling with her near the end of May right after she took a break from her boyfriend.
>Piece of shit guy
>blah blah girls only date douchebags blah blah
>After about a month of seeing each other, she broke things off
>Cut all contact over the summer
>I'm a beta bitch about it but finally get over it
>Accept it was just a rebound and move on.
>First week of September, just started college
>She texts me and asks how I've been
>She went back to her ex over the summer
>He's a lunatic who stalks her so she got a protective order when she finally broke up with him
>Turns out she commutes to a community college near my uni one day a week
>We start dating again and she stays with me when shes here for school
>Usually stays about three days a week
>First month is perfect
>Sex is great, she said shes happy, and I was happy
>Since there were still some feeling left from the earlier fling it was easier to say I loved her
>She said she loved me too
>Over the next few weeks she became more and more distant
>Didnt want to stay as long, fighting over small things, holding grudges
>Her distance made me feel more alone and I crept back into my depression
>She finally broke up with me almost 3 weeks ago
>Explanation was I was too sad and she didn't feel that she could love someone so soon after her breakup
I've been doing much better than I thought I would be, good days and bad days. She cut contact again. I've only tried to text her once over the past weeks. I know the chance of HER coming back is slim to none. I want to give her time but I'd hate to see her move on. Is it even worth my time and dignity to try and get her back? If I should how should I try?
>>
>>17773509
Sounds like, in spite of yourself, you're dodging a bullet.
Move on, she sounds like a drama whore, you might never find happiness if you keep pursuing her.
>>
As Einstein once said, and I won't say the exact words, true stupidity is trying to do the same thing again and again expecting different results.
What I mean is... if you haven't changed and she hasn't, or if you aren't seeing your relationship with different eyes... Well, I'd vote for a 'no'.
>>
>>17773531
That's why I want to give her time for herself. Let her heal from her bad boyfriend and hopefully she'll realize she does want to be with me.
I also feel like I do know the mistakes I've made and what I would change.
>>
File: hello_darkness.jpg (203KB, 500x375px) Image search:
[Google]
203KB, 500x375px
bumping
>>
I see, but u do understand that she might not have changed so much... I mean, it's a decision only u can make.
If she opens up for a new relationship, then it's ok to think u guys could get back together, but she cutting contact shows she isn't, now.
It's hard man, but I really think u should move on. Not forget her, maybe some time she will open up again, but as in getting back together... I really think u should move on.
And it seems u do think that too, as u said " I know the chance of HER coming back is slim to none."... Why beat yourself over someone who ain't putting u first, u know?
I'm not saying not to like her, but man... put her in her position!
Thread posts: 6
Thread images: 2
Thread images: 2