What do I do to stop being boring? I never thought of myself

You aren't boring
You're boring to them

Understand the difference

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>>17771370

Is this just bad luck then? I mean, how come that so far everything what attracted my dates in the first place, wasn't enough to hold on to them in the initial stage?

I am aware that I can't do the same old schtick all the time if I wanna hold on to a girl, but so far I couldn't even get second dates until now.
Girl said she's into theatre and culture and doing shit, nature, hiking, so I thought I either take her to a play or to a longer walk along some riverside here in town at night, that's sort of romantic and shit, but I don't wanna bore her away too, fuck me.

Or are girls just so shallow that they pretend to be cultured and interested in shit, and if you actually do that shit, talk about that shit and participate in that shit they realize that they don't care?

>>17771360
>What do I do to stop being boring?
I already found the problem here
>I just always wanted to fit in, be friendly to everyone, helpful, considerate
Everyone hates these people. They are the ones who will never argue with you and always try to pacify everyone when there is an argument. God you remind me of that fag from college I hung out with
>yo what do you want to do today
>hurr whatever you want to do
Fuck I hate people like you.

>>17771381

What's wrong with that? Should I rather be a dick and a jerk? I never said that I won't stand for my opinions or that I can't make a decision.

>>17771412
>Should I rather be a dick and a jerk?
Yes. they have more personality than you. I dont want to hang around a yes man, or someone who just wants to make me happy. I want to have fun. Your actions are mutually exclusive to fun and just annoying. If you are a dick but no how not to cross lines its funny. That person who holds the door for you is never fun to be around.

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>>17771416

Wow I hate modern society now

>>17771423
We hate you desu. Just a joy kill. No one wants you around.

>>17771360
>I'm a nice sympathetic guy
No girl wants this in the date. They want a man. Not a beta orbiter. They want to hear about your exciting life, for you to grab them by the pussy and take them on a magical adventure. Dont ask. Just be yourself and hope she follows you. Women are passive. Men are supposed to be the dominant one. If you cant prove you are dominant than youll never be more.

Be a little rude and blunt but in a playful way when you talk to her. You can still be a nice friendly guy while still having banter<-- this is the most important.
You make the decisions. If you want to do something ask her if she wants to tag along(as in if she says no you still do it).
Being assertive is what its all about.