So I need some advice but first to set the stage, story time.

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2016-11-17 03:57:07 Post No. 17770994
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So I need some advice but first to set the stage, story time.

>Be me
>Be 20
>Have smoking hot but mentally unstable gf (Borderline personality disorder)
>Be in philosophy
>see 10/10 qt3.14 across the room
>we catch each other glancing at each other
>group project starts
>preassigned groups
>she's in my group
>fuckyeah.jpg
>we start doing work and she and I are the only ones who seem to know what tf is going on
>she laughs at my lame jokes and she's funny af
>datshawt.jpg
>project is on existentialism
>I'm assigned Nietzsche
>I get really motivated by his whole "Ubermensch" idea
>"Anon, you gotta take your life into my own hands. BECOME the Ubermensch" I hear Nietzsche say to me from beyond the grave.
>this is right about time my ex sends me to ER for 6 stiches and broken nose
>leave her cuz I ain't dealing with abuse no mo
>one day after class ask qt3.14 for her number
>she gives it to me
>*** hacking in progress***
>"I'm in"
>I ask her out for coffer and she quickly accepts
>we go out for coffee and have a grand time
>next day we're talking when she suddenly gets distant
>"i need to make something clear, I have a bf so we can only be friends. But I really want you as a friend"
>Feelsbadman.jpg

Part 2 to come

Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:01:08 Post No.17771015
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Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:01:08 Post No.17771015 [Report]

>I accept my fate as only a friend
>I text her about paper few days later to make sure everything is on track
>"yep"
>thingsarebareable.jpg
>she texts me later that night while I'm drinking with friends so I let her know in case she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me while I'm drunk.
>"I could really use a drink"
>"I'm going stir-crazy, I need to get out more"
>"I just have my rats here"
>I see she's hinting hard about wanting to see me
>ask her to hang out tomorrow
>"Sure, absolutely!"
>Next day get semi dressed up but not like date atire
>talk for hours before we leave to go smoke
>we smoke and exchange long lists of music we enjoy
>both hear stuff the other really enjoys
>next day talking like we're a lot closer
>that night at 2:30am I get a text
>"I wish I could sleep"
>I already asleep so I respond in morning
>We have general small talk and exchange memes
>suddenly she stops responding
>Text her next night around same time to "see how she's doing", since she hadn't been sleeping well
>says "I'm getting by" then ignores the rest of my texts
>wut

Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:02:33 Post No.17771019
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Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:02:33 Post No.17771019 [Report]

part 3 is on it's way

Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:06:11 Post No.17771026
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Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:06:11 Post No.17771026 [Report]

>>17770994
Sounds like she was using you as an emotional tampon. A lot of people do that. Or maybe she was generally interested, but she sounds like a tease and a waste time. Congratulations on leaving your ex tho OP. That shit sounded horrible. Good luck. Welcome back to the bachelor life. Have a rest and relax and get back at the game when you're ready.

Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:20:36 Post No.17771056
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Anonymous 2016-11-17 04:20:36 Post No.17771056 [Report]

>next day ex shows up at my class trying to work things out with me
>nope.gif
>she follows me into class and yells at me in front of my professor
>ex is embarrassed and leaves
>professor makes a sly joke
>qt3.14 shows up and greets me with big smile
>we chat about current events and our other classes
>few minutes before class starts I see this dude lurking around outside staring at me
>whatever.jpg
>he comes in and sees qt3.14 laughing at something I said
>comes up to her and says "hey I'll see you after class"
>it's her bf
>he's pretty scrawny and seems pretty beta
>qt3.14 seems shaken by sudden appearance
>"he doesn't even go here"
>he can tell something's up
>professor sees both incidents play out within a matter of minutes
>professor has seen us eyeing each other all semester
>professor HAS to know what's going down
>during class someone brings up a meme
>she goes to search for it on fb
>I see I'm at the top of her searched bar
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>after class we both are about to leave at same time
>we make eye contact
>without discussing anything we both nod and I head out of classroom first while she waits a bit
>her bf was waiting out in the hall for over an hour
>head to my car
>setting up music when qt3.14 and her bf walk up to car next to mine
>heknows.jpg
>I avoid eye contact with both of them for her sake
>leave without looking back at them

What do? Do I confront her about her bf since she's clearly not happy with him or wait it out? Do I move on? How should I handle her bf who probably knows what car I drive?

Tl;dr 10/10 qt3.14 and I are hitting it off but she still has a bf that she clearly isn't happy with. wat do?